Posts by Donna Gonzalez

Carol Roberts77

Hermits are real, and honestly, a lot of them are actually happy. If you ever head over to India, you'll see plenty of people living out of caves who couldn't care less about society, and they're totally content. I don't think it's particularly smart to go hunting for other people just to cure loneliness. The fix is within you. You don't need anyone else to feel fulfilled or whole.

Hey, Carol Roberts77, what's up?

I've been thinking along those same lines. Honestly, I think you're looking for more than just a girlfriend. Having a partner will definitely help, sure, but that's not the core issue here. The real problem might be a lack of self-respect. If you do find someone, you'll still have to deal with that. You need to shake off those nagging beliefs and unlearn all that mental programming that's weighing you down.

One thing you eventually learn in this life is that nothing is handed to you on a silver platter. You have to build a life for yourself; you have to actually make things happen. Start building now by tackling what you call depression first. Try meditation, try yoga—just *do* something! There is an endless amount of information out there, yet people just sit around refusing to go looking for it.

Later.