Robert Murphy49 said:Alright, here’s the situation—I could really use a little guidance if anyone is willing to weigh in.
My take-home pay is roughly $1333. I’m currently juggling two different loans: one at a local bank with monthly installments of $733 handled via automatic transfer, and a second loan through another institution where the payments are $267 per month. Because I handle that second one directly at the branch, my full salary doesn't show up clearly on my official pay stubs.
To make matters more complicated, my head of accounting refused to deduct the loan payment directly from my paycheck—claiming it exceeds one-third of my earnings—so I’ve been managing it myself. Now, I’m facing a bit of a dilemma: I’m expecting an enforcement action coming my way because I acted as a guarantor for someone else. I’m trying to figure out how to protect what’s left of my salary—if you can even call it that—given how heavily it's already leveraged by these loans, especially since payroll won't step in to automate the deductions.
I would be truly grateful for any insight or help in interpreting my predicament.
lonegull13 said:Hey everyone,
My mom just got the annual statement for my sister’s loan (since Mom is acting as the co-signer). Given that this debt has been dragging on for about 14 years now, I’m starting to get a little nervous about my own neck... My mom is getting older, and if she passes away in a few years, I've been googling and seeing that heirs might end up inheriting all those debts too, but I'm wondering if that’s an absolute rule or if there's some wiggle room?
Is there any way to actually prevent that from happening?
So, here’s the situation: we have a house and yard that's currently going through the whole legalizing process. Mom owns half, and I own the other half. On the property records, it's basically just listed as the land the house sits on for now, since we're waiting on the inspectors to clear everything for the final legalization...
Mom is the co-signer for both of my sister's loans; my sister handles the big one at Bank of America, while Mom covers the smaller one at Bank of America...
Does anyone have any advice? Could Mom maybe draw up a gift deed or something similar so I don't technically become the heir to the debt, or perhaps transfer it to someone outside the family? Or should we just look into selling the house entirely? 🤔
Thanks in advance!
Since it’s basically the same thing anyway, here’s a simple fix.
Is it legal? Yeah. Is it ethical? Nope. It’s not criminal, per se. But it touches on that part of the law regarding abuse of rights—the stuff where you can face actual penalties. $6.75 If it gets proven—and I’m just speaking hypothetically here—then fine. But if someone actually proves this to you, you have to be willing to admit you were being an idiot. Seriously. If that happens, you both sign a loan agreement for an amount large enough to cover your payments for the rest of your lives. Personally? I’d recommend a million bucks just to be safe. Now, let me break this down for you.
Real estate:
If you're setting up a loan agreement with a lien, do it with your mother. Here’s the template:
Once you file a lien against the property your mother owns, you’re set. Any other lien filed later will sit behind yours in priority, meaning they get paid second. If anyone tries to force an auction to collect on those later debts, you just file a motion with the court to claim ownership because your claim outweighs the total value of the property. In that scenario, all those junior liens get wiped out. You won't have to worry about inheriting the house or the debt. When she passes, you trigger the process to take title via that lien. It's secure because you aren't technically "inheriting" the real estate. Also, coordinate with her on the following: submit an administrative freeze on her Social Security benefits directly to the Social Security Administration.
2. Salary
Here’s the play: you set up a loan agreement with a trusted person—usually a family member who isn't under any legal fire—and then file an administrative stop against that contract. Take that administrative stop straight to your employer's payroll department. As ruggedmaker2 mentioned, they’ll divert 1/3 of your paycheck directly into the account of this trusted person. Since this person isn't a gambler and doesn't have an overdraft, they can just withdraw the cash and hand it to you personally. For the remaining 2/3, open a protected account for your deposits. Even if a creditor comes knocking at the office, they have to wait behind your administrative stop, which effectively means they never get a cent. As a guarantor, you won't lose a single dime toward someone else's debt.
Now you can actually pay off YOUR own debts properly.
To all the busybodies whining about these solutions: go jump in a lake. This "Option 2" works reliably in 7 out of 7 enforcement cases I've seen. That's exactly why I put this together.
An acquaintance of mine had a loan he was paying
RELIABLY. Out of nowhere, a collection notice from Mastercard hit, and they placed a lien on his property, triggering a foreclosure process. The house sold at auction for peanuts. The bank grabbed the proceeds to cover part of the principal, leaving Mastercard empty-handed. Because my friend was working in Ireland while this mess unfolded (and he was paying his loan faithfully from there), and since the collectors were bothering social services because they couldn't track him down—even though he'd officially notified the authorities about his temporary work overseas—it's pretty obvious how many loopholes exist in the enforcement law. That's why I'm doing this. Before leaving, the guy settled all his debts in the States. He even got a confirmation from Mastercard stating he owed them nothing as of that date. Now, he's filed for a case reopening and a lawsuit with the Supreme Court (though based on court precedent, he won't get anything, and explaining why would take too much space and I don't feel like it)
As for you two: if you let those garnishments hit even after learning how to actually protect yourself and manipulate the system, I’d call you names that aren't fit for this forum—names that would get me banned before you could even finish reading this message. Once the garnishment or the lien is official, these solutions WON'T WORK. Then it'll be too late to start crying about politicians or calling for protests...