What exactly do I need to do if I want to become a donor—I mean, how do I actually get my hands on a donor card? Where am I supposed to apply for one? Do I just go through my primary care physician?
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in Lonely Hearts ·
I’m struggling to follow you here... are you actually suggesting you’d try to juggle both? Like, hanging out with your ex just to see if he’s finally turned things around, while simultaneously seeing this guy from the chat? I don't know, that doesn't strike me as particularly brilliant.
If you want my two cents, I think you really need to settle things with your ex first. Based on what you said about how poorly he's been treating you lately, I honestly don't see much of a chance that he's suddenly going to transform into the man he was at the start. But then again, you two have been together for three years, so I suppose you're the only one who truly knows if it's worth putting in more work to save the relationship. None of the advice or opinions on this forum can really help you decide that. Still, generally speaking, I don't think you should be trying to sit on two different chairs, if that makes sense. It’s really either one or the other.
If you want my two cents, I think you really need to settle things with your ex first. Based on what you said about how poorly he's been treating you lately, I honestly don't see much of a chance that he's suddenly going to transform into the man he was at the start. But then again, you two have been together for three years, so I suppose you're the only one who truly knows if it's worth putting in more work to save the relationship. None of the advice or opinions on this forum can really help you decide that. Still, generally speaking, I don't think you should be trying to sit on two different chairs, if that makes sense. It’s really either one or the other.