brightbear said:Honestly, your logic is full of holes...
And you didn't even mention which brand of birth control you were on. You're ready to pin everything on the doctor, but conveniently ignoring the fact that you made a conscious choice to mess with your own health and gamble with your body... like that doesn't count for anything.🙄
Now you're out here scaring some girl who's having the most standard, textbook reaction to her first dose of hormones...
Give me a break...
I’m truly sorry—it certainly wasn't my intention to frighten anyone; I was simply sharing my own experience, as raw as it was. While I don't feel the need to sit here and justify myself to anyone, I can say this with total sincerity: may you never, ever have to endure what I’ve been through.
I honestly have no idea how you reached the conclusion that my story is full of holes—though I suppose it’s probably because I neglected to mention the whole ordeal with my previous doctor. He basically looked at a bad Pap smear caused by a simple bacterial infection and jumped straight to a cancer diagnosis, especially since my period was late too! And get this—he didn't even try to actually treat me. He just let things linger, which could have made everything so much worse. Once I finally switched doctors, the new guy prescribed some vaginal suppositories, and everything cleared up in a week. Just a little insight into "professionalism" for you—this man kept me convinced I had cancer and HPV for six straight months!
I just finished off a glass of Diet Coke—honestly, I’m not even sure why I bother with the "diet" part anymore, but here we are.
Oh, my dear, honestly—if I hadn’t stayed the course with my medication and actually followed my gynecologist's advice, I would have lost my second ovary too. I mean, I'm being completely serious; I wouldn't have had any chance of having children at all.
Honestly, I’m still struggling to wrap my head around it—how exactly was I consciously sabotaging my own body? Even he pointed out that taking a break was probably the smartest move I could have made. If anything, the real damage would have come from constantly running back to him and just completely ignoring all those warning signs!
Anyway—get this—even his own assistant pulled me aside and told me I should probably just go see another doctor altogether!
And yeah, I’m totally blaming him—because he really is responsible for everything I’ve had to endure, all because of his blatant lack of professionalism. Honestly, maybe that says everything you need to know about the guy; apparently, he isn't even allowed to practice at any private clinics in our county anymore, he's strictly relegated to the hospital. I don't know what it's like where you're from, but around here, doctors usually split their time between private practices and the hospital, or they stick solely to one or the other. But him? They've effectively stripped him of those private opportunities—and frankly, I'm not complaining. When I was undergoing various tests and follow-up exams with other physicians—doctors I actually had to seek out just to get them to successfully perform surgery on my other ovary after everything he put me through—they told me straight up that I might have grounds for a lawsuit due to medical malpractice.
And honestly—I just couldn't bring myself to deal with the legal circus. Between the paperwork and the endless back-and-forth in those courtrooms, it felt overwhelming. I decided that my priority had to be elsewhere—specifically, focusing on my own recovery. It was more important to heal than to spend all my energy fighting through the system.
I honestly think that says much more about him than it does about anyone else!
Metric, I’m so sorry—Sam totally schooled you!