Michelle Nelson4 said:The hype surrounding the idea that this is "the best school in America for the National Exam" 😂
is actually based on data that’s barely four years old—and even then, they didn't even have these specific stats for half of that time.
It's pretty well known that this whole craze really kicked off maybe two or three years ago. Before that, nobody was even talking about it, let alone fighting for a spot in these schools (unless you count one specific institution that's been steady for over 30 years 😁).
Sure, some schools definitely hold onto a certain "tradition" of excellence. They have their own track records with competitions, college acceptance rates, and famous alumni. There's no denying that.
Parents who graduated from those "top-tier" institutions often have a tendency to send their kids to the exact same schools. And honestly, that’s been a reality for over 30 years. In my own class, there was a kid whose mom went to that school, and even her grandma! It was a whole crowd of students whose parents were former alumni or even teachers; I'm talking about a high school here.
Some people are just too critical. For others, following that path is just a natural, expected family tradition... so please, don't be completely dismissive of it either. It was the same way back in my day.
Washington, D.C. has grown significantly. There are more people interested in high schools now simply because there are more of them concentrated in the same area (it doesn't mean fewer kids are being born; it's more about people moving in from the suburbs), combined with this intense pressure for higher education where people act like anything other than a prestigious high school is a failure.
How did families from outside Washington, D.C. choose a high school for their child? How did they decide before this national ranking system existed (as you mentioned, it hasn't been around long)? How did they pick in 2003, 2010, or 2013—back when this scoring method was introduced to replace entrance exams because there was already a massive influx of straight-A students who didn't actually have the depth to back it up?
I didn't have kids in school during those specific years, but I have worked with children and moved in circles with parents of school-aged kids. I've overheard all sorts of nonsense regarding why they chose one school over another... You might say it's just hearsay, but it's the truth. When you look at things from the other side of the statistics, this current "scientific" ranking system feels just as irrelevant as it was back then... or perhaps even more damaging for a kid wondering why everyone in that top table could make the cut while they couldn't.
A lot of parents can't handle that, so they push their kids in all sorts of ways (watching what their colleagues do, listening to rumors, pressuring teachers, or even begging for lowered standards...).
It isn't just unfair to the student; it's a disservice to the kids who miss out because of a tiny decimal point. It's a disservice to a system that isn't quite right because it raised the bar so artificially high. You can see in this thread how parents themselves are essentially feeding this broken system, allowing it to swell under the guise of "excellence."
Nothing is truly different today than it was at the turn of the century or in 2013; it's just that the madness started in 5th grade instead of 7th. And now, we have the direct result of the former Secretary's policies, laid out in black and white with colorful charts, claiming you *must* attend certain schools because the national exam is everything... screw actual knowledge, and especially screw mental health.
On the flip side, since this ranking system exists, it can actually be useful to encourage a child who didn't make it into a "top" high school. It shows them that if they work hard at their school, they can still get into a great college and that all is not lost... Knowledge matters, and most universities accept students from all kinds of different high schools, which the rankings clearly show.
Sometimes, it's just about having a single shift, a great cafeteria with decent meals (🙄), a school right around the corner, or cool exchange programs and trips... Aside from things being subject to change (like after an earthquake or a pandemic), kids often care less about the prestige than we think. It's good to listen to them, maybe even just hear them out and support them. Some kids are willing to commute two hours just to get away from their neighborhood, while others desperately want to stay close to home and hate being driven around by their parents. And that's perfectly okay, provided the parent has the capacity to accept it.