Sarah Hall53 said:Look, if you literally have to kill yourself just to hit the GPA needed for enrollment—whether that's a 3.2, a 3.5, or a perfect 4.0—then honestly, you probably aren't a good fit for that track to begin with.
Does that make sense?
Plus, nobody is stopping New Yorkers from just applying to a high school in a different city where the GPA requirements are lower—since everyone seems so incredibly bitter about the cities where you need a perfect 4.0 just to get in. ☕
And thirdly, I still haven't had anyone explain to me how high school admissions are somehow responsible for all the hysteria regarding GPAs and those "honor roll" certificates people obsess over during the first four years of middle school.
The real headache is that people are constantly traveling in from all sorts of different cities just to take up spots in Washington, D.C. It makes it pretty tough to find space when everyone is heading to the capital at once. 🤣
Honestly, if you want to lock in your spot, the only way to really guarantee it is to make sure you nail that five-point average. 😢
It seems like some kids are being judged solely on their grades because they just don't have many other ways to stack up points. Some kids aren't really into competitive stuff, and others simply don't get the chance at their school because they have to wait for a teacher to nominate them for things. On top of that, there aren't any points awarded for socioeconomic status—which, honestly, has basically become a way to track things like parental divorce rates over the years. And then there’s the health aspect, covering things like allergies or asthma. It feels like a missed opportunity; if we had just been smart enough to run those screenings back in elementary school instead of waiting until eighth grade, we might actually be seeing a fairer picture.
Just to clarify, since last year they changed the rules on how the scoring works. That specific point doesn't actually count toward your total score anymore; instead, it’s only used as a tiebreaker if two or more candidates end up with the exact same number of points.
I honestly agree—if a kid is spending their entire weekend struggling just to keep up with schoolwork, they probably aren't a good fit for a high-pressure prep school. It’s tough to see them burn out like that.
It’s especially tough when there aren't any extracurricular activities to balance things out—just school. I’ve definitely had those weekends where instead of going out or doing something fun, the parent ends up spending the whole time sitting at the table helping the kid study. It feels like you're stuck in limbo. And don't even get me started on winter or spring break! One thing that really gets under my skin is when teachers reschedule tests that were originally set right before a holiday. They push them back until after the break because kids and parents start complaining that it ruins their rhythm or that it would be "better" to just wait. Honestly, it's frustrating when the schedule shifts just to accommodate everyone's desire to relax.
I honestly feel like if a kid is already feeling completely overwhelmed by having to take three tests in a single week, they might not be the right fit for a high-pressure prep school. It just doesn't seem sustainable. Thinking back to how things used to be with the honors list... back in the early 2000s, throughout the month of June, they’d publish a full list of all the award winners in the evening paper. I remember my parents actually rushing down to the local newsstand just to grab a copy of the paper, all so they could scan the pages and find their kid's name. It was such a classic ritual.🤮It looks like you might have cut off your thought there! You were saying they cut it out and put it on the wall? I'm curious to hear the rest of the story—what exactly happened?🤮Then the internet really took off, social media exploded onto the scene, and suddenly everyone started posting their own testimonials and glowing reviews online.
On another note, I’ve had several people who actually work in schools tell me about this—and I think this topic has come up a few times on this forum already. It’s pretty wild. You have parents storming into an elementary school to confront a teacher just because their kid got a C on an English test. Then you have others scrutinizing math exams, arguing that if they spent the entire weekend studying with their child and the kid crushed it, a grade of 4 is simply unacceptable. Some of these kids end up being labeled as "difficult" or "tiring" just because of how their parents react, which honestly feels like such a joke when grades shouldn't carry that kind of weight. I’ve also heard whispers that teachers sometimes give easier questions during oral exams just to get through it quickly and avoid a confrontation with a parent later on. There are even rumors floating around that some tests are handed out in advance just to keep the peace. It’s a strange cycle.
I just want to get this pushy parent off my back once and for all.
Well, once someone like that pulls off a stunt like that, you really have to turn to someone more honorable. But honestly, it’s been a bit of a struggle lately because they’ve stumbled a few times—even during those oral exams where they had some pretty specific questions to tackle.
And just like that, it all begins.
I’ve been thinking about high school admissions lately, and honestly, I really believe entrance exams are a much better way to handle things than those massive national standardized tests. Don't get me wrong, I know everyone loves a good universal metric, but there's just something about specialized exams that feels more personal. I remember back when I was applying to high school, the big state-wide testing felt so impersonal—like you were just a number on a spreadsheet being processed by some giant bureaucracy. It was incredibly stressful because one bad morning could totally derail your future. With entrance exams, schools can actually look for specific talents. If a kid is a math whiz or an incredible artist, a targeted exam lets that shine in a way a general national test just doesn't. It feels more like finding the right fit for the student rather than just sorting kids into buckets. It’s a bit more nuanced, if you ask me!
I hope we haven't completely lost the plot here.
I’ve been thinking about this shift toward full-day schooling, and I have some concerns about how it might play out in the classroom. On one hand, the idea is that kids will get everything done during school hours, which sounds great for parents. In fact, the Secretary of Education mentioned that this should give families a huge breather once the new curriculum settles in, potentially cutting down the need for expensive after-school tutoring since everything is covered under one roof. However, I worry about the unintended pressure this puts on teachers. If parents expect everything to be wrapped up by the time the final bell rings, there might be an unspoken push for teachers to "soften" the grading just to keep things moving smoothly. We might even see students being pushed through practice tests for the SATs until they're completely burnt out, all just to ensure they meet certain benchmarks before heading home. It feels like a recipe for burnout for both the kids and the staff, even if the intention is to make life easier for busy families.
It’s definitely possible that a huge group of teachers will rush through the curriculum just to make sure everyone finishes everything on time, purely to prove that the whole experiment actually worked.