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Jodi Arias in Psychology ·
I managed to milk it for all it was worth—she definitely had way too many expectations
http://crime.about.com/od/current/a/jodi_arias.htm

It was a super brief relationship—the kind where Travis keeps her hidden, blabbing about her while treating her like some casual hookup until he’s ready to dump her for good. And instead of losing interest in a guy that messed up, she just gets more obsessed—until everything finally boils over into murder right after they sleep together.
Her ex is named William Angela—could be an Italian connection, maybe—and those guys and their families are known for having massive expectations when it comes to relationships.
Jodi Arias in Psychology ·
It’s pretty interesting how someone can act completely unhinged in an interrogation room, only to flip the switch and play the picture of innocence once they hit the courtroom. Given how calculated this whole thing seems—especially with her calling for Travis after the murder, acting like she has zero clue he’s actually dead—it feels obvious to me that she’s just playing the odds to see which persona gets her the best outcome.
http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=50143400n
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBtaktP9JRE
http://www.newsnet5.com/dpp/news/nat...rrogation-room

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=50146453n

Anyone who has ever watched a single crime drama knows that interrogations and questioning sessions happen behind one-way glass or are recorded.

http://radaronline.com/exclusives/20...sing-argument/
"After having sex with him and taking nude photos of each other, Arias stabbed Alexander in the shower and again on the bathroom floor, Martinez said. He was stabbed yet again as he stood, trying to gain his balance, and another knife blow to the back of his head came as he stood over the sink, the prosecutor said.

“He is trying to get away from her,”revealed the skilled lawyer as he flashed a series of crime scene photos, revealing the bloody trail, including a rainbow shaped smear of blood on the hallway wall where Alexander collapsed"

Kinda intriguing that she killed him right after they had sex.
Maybe she felt like she was being used.
Jodi Arias in Psychology ·
Brenda Hayes2 said:Your conclusion is a bit of an oversimplification.🙂 Until recently, experts who hadn't personally examined her were merely speculating that Jodi isn't some simple sociopath, pathological liar, or narcissist as the media portrays her, but rather someone struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD).

Among them, Dati Archer was the first to publicly identify the diagnostic criteria for BPD within Jodi's behavior:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ality-disorder

Sheila Wendler, a forensic psychiatrist based in Hawaii, holds the exact same view:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/0...n_2528011.html

Finally, Dr. Janeen DeMarte, an official witness for the District Attorney's Office, precisely diagnosed Jodi as having BPD during the trial just three weeks ago.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/jodi-arias-...ry?id=19028331

In their book, The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide, specifically in the chapter titled "what causes borderline personality disorder" on pages 41-60, Alex L. Chapman, Kim L. Gratz, and Perry d. Hoffman acknowledge that scientists have only just begun to solve the complex BPD puzzle. Nevertheless, they boldly conclude in the text that the most common cause of BPD is biological—specifically involving reduced functionality in the prefrontal cortex, or impairment of the amygdala and hippocampus—thereby challenging the rigid, outdated notion that BPD is caused exclusively by childhood trauma.

Because of generalizations like that, several people on this forum have been banned multiple times, and threads have been shut down... ☕

Just so you're aware, BPD is officially classified as a disorder that affects roughly 2-3 percent of the total population according to the World Health Organization (WHO). To break that down further, women make up about 75% of cases, while men account for the remaining 25%.

What I said isn't some sweeping generalization—it’s just that the way he goes about things is fundamentally masculine. I mean, it’s pretty obvious since the vast majority of people using that approach are men anyway.
Women rarely rely on brute force or weapons—men aren't exactly known for using those "feminine" methods either, like poisoning or smothering someone with a pillow (which, let's face it, is the classic move for those "Angel of Death" nurses). It’s just different.

When it comes to abandonment in disorders like BPD or psychopathy—it’s a different beast entirely. A person with BPD might kill their partner in a moment of pure, blind rage just to stop them from leaving—to prevent that abandonment from happening. A psychopath? They’ll kill her later, as a sort of calculated punishment because she actually had the nerve to walk away.
It works the same way with women, too—I guess.

Psychopathic murders following a breakup feel eerily similar to patterns seen in certain Islamic or more primitive Western cultures—places where a woman just mentioning to her family that her partner doesn't love her anymore or has left her can trigger a death sentence. In those settings, the family steps in and basically tells the guy he either stays with her or dies. It's a dark parallel, I guess.
It’s similar to those cases where things drag on for years—a guy realizes the relationship just isn't working and decides to walk away—and then the girl's dad, who was already picturing the wedding and a dozen grandkids with his wife, snaps, commits a premeditated murder, and heads straight to prison.
With psychopaths, the logic works on a pretty much identical principle—except the psychopath basically lumps themselves and their entire family into one single, messy unit.

Brenda Hayes2 said:Your conclusion is a bit of an oversimplification.🙂 Until recently, experts who hadn't personally examined her were merely speculating that Jodi isn't some simple sociopath, pathological liar, or narcissist as the media portrays her, but rather someone struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD).

Among them, Dati Archer was the first to publicly identify the diagnostic criteria for BPD within Jodi's behavior:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ality-disorder

Sheila Wendler, a forensic psychiatrist based in Hawaii, holds the exact same view:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/0...n_2528011.html

Finally, Dr. Janeen DeMarte, an official witness for the District Attorney's Office, precisely diagnosed Jodi as having BPD during the trial just three weeks ago.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/jodi-arias-...ry?id=19028331

In their book, The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide, specifically in the chapter titled "what causes borderline personality disorder" on pages 41-60, Alex L. Chapman, Kim L. Gratz, and Perry d. Hoffman acknowledge that scientists have only just begun to solve the complex BPD puzzle. Nevertheless, they boldly conclude in the text that the most common cause of BPD is biological—specifically involving reduced functionality in the prefrontal cortex, or impairment of the amygdala and hippocampus—thereby challenging the rigid, outdated notion that BPD is caused exclusively by childhood trauma.

Because of generalizations like that, several people on this forum have been banned multiple times, and threads have been shut down... ☕

Just so you're aware, BPD is officially classified as a disorder that affects roughly 2-3 percent of the total population according to the World Health Organization (WHO). To break that down further, women make up about 75% of cases, while men account for the remaining 25%.

Everything in that link related to point number one—it could just as easily be psychopathic manipulation, pure obsession, and total fixation. It feels like there’s zero empathy involved—just a desperate attempt to reclaim some sense of "ownership."

I don't find her behavior all that strange—honestly. I guess I just view it through the lens of someone believing they have a fundamental right to own another person. It’s a mindset that's actually celebrated in certain cultures, anyway.
I mean—if someone stabs another person that many times, the way she did it? There’s gotta be some massive amount of rage involved. I guess. Maybe.
She was acting like some messed-up Arab guy who hasn't quite made up his mind about whether to murder his "lost love" or not.

People with BPD handle breakups way better than psychopaths do—I mean, it’s pretty obvious why. BPD types are just more sensitive and prone to falling hard, which makes it easier for them to idealize someone new or jump straight into finding a potential partner. Psychopaths? Not so much. They have almost zero emotional capacity and struggle to actually connect with anyone. So, when they lose a partner they actually had some sort of constructive feelings or plans for, that loss hits them like a freight train. It's a massive shock to deal with—maybe because they actually felt something for once, but yeah, it's a much heavier burden for them to carry.
When a psychopath loses someone they actually care about, it’s devastating—but honestly? They probably regret it mostly because they missed out on an opportunity to exploit them. It's a weird dynamic—their only real tether to being anything other than purely calculating is that tiny spark of emotion or positive connection. Once that's gone, a person with BPD will just devalue them, move on to someone else, and immediately start idealizing the next target.

Brenda Hayes2 said:Sorry, I have to circle back to this claim of yours. I’m not at all surprised by your conclusion, nor do I blame you for it. It is perfectly clear to me that your perception is warped and that you are a victim of a systemic media campaign—which, in the US (at least as long as I can remember campaigns against sexual violence have been waged here), boils down to portraying men as the sole aggressors. Not long ago I wrote about how such falsified, intentionally unorganized, and unprofessional data processing has led us to a credibly convincing number one spot WORLDWIDE for the number of male perpetrators (a staggering 96.2%). So, if that were actually true, I would wonder how American women can even live alongside their so many bloodthirsty males, and why they haven't all moved to Canada, or at least Jordan, Guinea, Zambia, Sierra Leone, Laos, or Ethiopia where they might feel significantly safer.

On that note, I want to add something regarding this topic of Jodi, because I find it baffling why the American public hasn't reacted with the same level of outrage toward the crime committed by Ana Magaš, who also has BPD and who, according to her attorney's testimony, is a manipulator, and who did not kill her husband from behind in self-defense. Jodi is portrayed globally as a "psychopath," while the perpetrator Ana is treated almost like a saint here; meanwhile, her butchered late husband is characterized by leading women's organizations as a typical male abuser who more than deserved his fate, resulting in him being doubly victimized without any shred of piety regarding his death.

In the scientific article Borderline Personality and Criminality, a detailed clinical psychiatric study on the makeup of prisoners convicted of the most serious felonies is presented:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2790397/

The authors presented data showing that research indicates generally 25 to 50% (depending on the specific country) of the TOTAL number of convicts have borderline personality disorder. That is drastically higher than the 2-3% of people with BPD found among the general population outside of prison, as I have already noted. The data is grouped by various parameters; for instance, in the United Kingdom, out of 90 convicted murderers, as many as 49 have BPD, whereas in France, "only" 8 out of 99 murderers have BPD, and so on....

However, the national statistics from all these studies clearly demonstrate that among those convicted of the most serious felonies, the number of female prisoners with BPD is three to eight times higher than the number of males with BPD. (For example, in Germany, 5.3% of men in prison have BPD, whereas there are as many as 42.9% female BPD prisoners).

Therefore, crimes like the one committed by Jodi Arias are mostly committed by women. Using methods that are three to eight times more "distinctive" than those of men. 😢

The issue with people living with BPD is that they tend to overreact—their emotions are just dialed up way too high.
If you grab someone with BPD by the throat and they notice a gun tucked in your waistband, they’ll react like you’re definitely planning to beat them and shoot them. Or if they think you might assault them and see a knife, they’ll jump to the conclusion that you're going to rape, mutilate, and kill them right then and there.
People with BPD don't think in terms of "this is just a fight"—they don't see a scuffle as just a scuffle. They view everything through the lens of the absolute worst-case scenario, escalating to the final level immediately. It's because they aren't just perceiving a real threat; they're reacting to a *potential* one, too.
Magaš went way beyond self-defense.
It's not like he told her his mistress was pregnant or that he was leaving her—she didn't have any justification for murder under the guise of "self-defense" by using some diagnosis as an excuse.
Jodi Arias in Psychology ·
Just looked at the photos—at first glance, it’s obvious this woman is incredibly skilled with makeup and total transformations.
https://www.google.com/search?q=jodi+...n2IcXlPK_FgdAJ
From a sexy blonde—maybe even too sexy—to this naive, innocent, intellectual librarian vibe with posture so soft you’d think she wouldn't even crush a mosquito.
For a second, I almost thought—no, there's no way she could have done it.
But honestly, it's possible someone actually advised her to pull off those looks.

Asking how people like this are made is a stupid question.
In different circumstances, maybe she wouldn't have done what she's accused of, and then she wouldn't be categorized this way in the first place.
My take is that there is always some kind of trigger or reason why someone does something—regardless of how banal that reason might seem to the people watching.
Either way, her methods are extremely masculine, since these kinds of crimes are usually committed by men.

Samuel Harris10 said:Something feels off to me. So, the verdict came out today, and she was found guilty. Okay, one conclusion is that she's a pathological liar, a sociopath, and a psychopath—which she probably is. But my impression is that while any sane person would find this an enormous stress, she looks like she's just living her life, like she's actually enjoying all of this.

If someone truly doesn't care whether they spend their whole life in a cell, face execution, or walk free later, the only thing that's obvious is that the person doesn't feel like they're losing anything significant—not through imprisonment, and not even through death.

I've been following this high-profile trial here in the States, and it's a shame there aren't more broadcasts available.

As for this blonde, my first thought is how many forum members will see her and think about how hot she is, thinking she shouldn't have killed him but could have just been with one of them instead.
Sleep and Insomnia Help in Psychology ·
Eric Jones8 said:I suppose there have been some changes in my situation, though they mostly happened following my initial issue. It's been a few years since that one major shift occurred... at one point, I even tried to attribute it to that, but I don't think that's it. Honestly, there are just so many questions and answers regarding all of this, yet no actual intelligent solution seems to exist. Just... blah.

Just solve your own problem 😉
Eric Jones8 said:I'm 22 (and now I'll probably add "just a few months until I'm 23" like every other kid does, lol), a college student, in a relationship.. do I drink? Like, alcohol? Well, of course🙂
Sleep and Insomnia Help in Psychology ·
Eric Jones8 said:I guess everything is just a bit of a vicious cycle... maybe because I am personally overwhelmed by quite a few things, or perhaps I'm just a pessimist at heart, or whatever it is. To be honest, whenever my mother suggested I see a doctor about it, I never really had the courage. I think I was always afraid they would officially diagnose me with anxiety, depression, or any of those other conditions. So, I usually just fall back on my old habit of smiling and pretending everything is fine... which is quite bad, I know. This is actually only the second time in my life that I have admitted to doing that. It clearly interferes with my peace of mind, and I suppose when I withdraw from the outside world and try to find some quiet—sleeping is a perfect example of that—then the impact becomes most apparent.

And what exactly are you being a pessimist about?
Sleep and Insomnia Help in Psychology ·
Eric Jones8 said:I agree, having a set bedtime and wake-up time is incredibly vital! But, I suppose... who can actually manage that in the kind of world we live in today? 😢

If you make it a priority, you’ll make it happen—if not, you won't. Simple as that. 😉
If you're in college, lectures pretty much always run at the same time, and you can easily schedule your study sessions for the same block every day.
I don't know how people find any sense of happiness without having their whole day mapped out from point A to point B. 🤷
Sleep and Insomnia Help in Psychology ·
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Eric Jones8 said:unknown

Yes, I am honestly glad that people have reached out with such a variety of perspectives and thoughts; I was worried my topic would just fade into obscurity. But, yes, more or less... for the last five years, this has been happening with my sleep. I am almost certain it is tied to my overall mental and emotional state. As I mentioned before, it isn't quite severe enough to make me feel completely lost, otherwise, I suppose I would seek medical help... but there is just this strange sensation, I don't really know how to put it into words. It is as if I am simply exhausted by the mere fact that this keeps happening to me. It feels like a tiny, nagging irritation that just won't leave me alone.

That could definitely be a mental health thing, but then again, maybe it’s just life circumstances shifting.
I haven't shared a bed with anyone for a few years now, and I still sleep just as poorly as I did way back in the day.
Sleep and Insomnia Help in Psychology ·
I’ve noticed I sleep way better when I’m absolutely wiped out from work or hitting the gym hard—basically, once I actually hit that REM stage.
If I’m just sleeping lightly and catching every little noise, I never wake up feeling rested. It’s like, I’d feel refreshed if I could just crash hard enough to dream and stop registering everything happening around me.
Also, I’ve realized that sticking to a strict bedtime and waking up at the same time every single day is pretty much a life-or-death matter for me.
That all makes sense, but what happens to the individual when chronic fatigue meets physical exhaustion—where even a tiny bit of effort wipes out whatever little stamina they have left?
By that logic, she might as well just stay in bed permanently, since even the act of getting up would become an activity that triggers massive physical exhaustion.🤷

Up until recently, I felt absolutely wrecked from fatigue—I mean, just leaning my head over the sink to wash my hair would drain me—plus I had constant aches all over my body. Now, I’m doing three hours of aerobic exercise a day. I don't even think about it, and nothing hurts until the moment I stop, lie down, or lean my arms on a table or a bed.
The very first day I started working out, I almost suffocated from wheezing in my lungs, pain, and this total lack of strength...
But if I was able to handle those kinds of workouts once, I can do them again. No virus, maladaptation, neurotransmitters, or random pains are going to stop me—I'm just going to ignore them.

I also realized how crucial it is to go to sleep without letting your brain spiral—just staying relaxed and calm—otherwise, it's like the brain isn't actually sleeping. If I don't, my symptoms are way worse the next day. I feel even more exhausted, and the area around my elbows and collarbones feels even more painful—almost like a deep depletion, or maybe a deficiency in something (serotonin, maybe?), though that's medically illogical—or perhaps those areas are just sending out pain signals?🤷
If an adrenaline spike hits—your blood sugar drops fast,
if you’re just hungry—it’s more of a gradual slide,
and if you haven't eaten much but slammed too much coffee, you'll be shaking like a leaf.

For those sugar crashes triggered by stress, I always keep some grapes or a small piece of chocolate on hand. If there's a pattern where it happens at the same time every day, then you probably need to fix your meal schedule.
If you overdo it on the caffeine, maybe grab a pastry and just wait for it to pass.
Chronic fatigue is constantly linked to fibromyalgia—and when it comes to fibromyalgia, theories vary wildly. Some claim it's triggered by murine leukemia retroviruses, others argue it's actually just a failure in how the nervous system repairs micro-damage—which then manifests as pain and exhaustion—while some people point to serotonin levels being too high, or maybe too low...
Basically, the standard advice everywhere is to just keep pushing through with exercise—because if you let your fitness slip while dealing with fatigue, it’s a downward spiral—and, obviously, you're supposed to prioritize deep sleep through the REM stage.
Certain types of activity, like aerobic exercise, can be helpful since they boost metabolism and slightly raise body temperature—and heat is what naturally kills off viruses and bacteria.

Here are some snippets from Wikipedia:
Chronic Pain
Main article: Chronic pain

People living with Chronic Pain deal with long-term discomfort in areas that might have been injured before, even if those spots are technically healthy now. This whole thing is tied to neuroplasticity—essentially a maladaptive reorganization of the nervous system, both in the periphery and the center. When tissue is damaged, things like inflammation and painful stimuli ramp up the sensory input sent from the body to the central nervous system. If that input stays high for too long, the brain undergoes a neuroplastic response at the cortical level, shifting its map for that specific area—this is what causes central sensitization.[32] For example, people with complex regional pain syndrome show a reduced cortical map for the hand on the opposite side of the body, along with less spacing between the hand and mouth regions on the brain's map.[33] On top of that, studies suggest chronic pain can significantly shrink grey matter volume across the brain generally, and specifically in the prefrontal cortex and the right thalamus.[34] That said, once treatment starts, these issues with cortical reorganization and grey matter loss tend to resolve, along with the symptoms themselves. We see similar patterns with phantom limb pain,[35] chronic low back pain,[36] and carpal tunnel syndrome.[37]

http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/758463
http://now.aapmr.org/PMRJournals/201...ganization.pdf
http://www.jst.go.jp/inter/workshop/...ntation/06.pdf

http://sunburst.usd.edu/~cliff/Cours...NF/Woolf99.pdf
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21632273
Can you build muscle without working out? in Hobbies & Leisure ·
Susan Jackson12 said:Yeah, it's dead simple. When you can't be bothered to put in the work to hit your goals, suddenly it's just bad genetics. If you aren't seeing results because you aren't doing what's actually required—well, blame genetics again. Everything is just "genetics" 😂

Honestly, the funniest part is how much easier it is for the big guys to just slack off and shrink than it is for the small guys to grind their way up to being big 😉
though that's subjective, I guess...
You can only shrink massive muscle if you stop using it—your body basically eats the excess protein that built that muscle, which leads to the shrinkage.
But a weak muscle? You have to pump it and feed it, constantly. And if it won't grow despite all that—it just won't. 🤣

An Ectomorph isn't going to get jacked just by working harder or hitting the gym without supplements, powders, or gear,
whereas mesomorphs, meso-endomorphs, or endo-mesomorphs can—it's just that those with an endo component will likely pick up some fat around the waist or over those hypertrophied muscles, getting that soft look without any real definition.

http://www.primafitness.cz/fotky3913...ypes7vq9xl.jpg
Can you build muscle without working out? in Hobbies & Leisure ·
Kimberly Wright said:Exactly. There’s basically no counterargument here.

The proof:
image

The pattern is pretty obvious 🧐

edit: A little hint...
not working construction = grasshopper
working construction = jacked as hell
not working construction = grasshopper

Basically, tons of cigarettes and barely any food = grasshopper
Few cigarettes and solid meals = jacked as hell

Let's try this—some girl walks into the gym wearing shorts, and the guys who've been hanging around there for five or ten years just stare in disbelief 😲 because she actually has more muscle mass in her legs and naturally wider shoulders and a thicker ribcage than those guys who have been obsessively tracking calories and hitting leg day for years.
Then she leaves the gym, drops her intake to 1200 calories because she's dieting for summer, slows down her lifestyle to just doing housework, studying for exams, maybe walking the neighbor's dog, and hits some fat-burn or low-intensity cardio—over a few months, she turns into a total stick, but with model-tier legs.
She shows up at the gym again, and everyone's staring all over again 😲 ...
And then, once she's forced herself to be tiny, she naturally hypertrophies back up by training three times a week and eating slightly more... and people are surprised all over again. 🤣

If you've got the genetics to grow, you grow; if you've got the genetics to lean out, you lean out.
People built to grow have to "torture" themselves just to stay small, while those built to lean out have to "torture" themselves just to get big and stay there.
The big guys want to be small, and the small guys want to be big.

Very simple 🤣
Can you build muscle without working out? in Hobbies & Leisure ·
brighteagle26 said:By movement, I mean things like taking the stairs instead of the elevator, walking a block or two to the subway station, doing some yard work—stuff like that.

Look, if you don't use your legs much—say, the muscles below the shin—and you have the genetics for them, but they're weak because you've been lazy, yeah, they'll transform.
It’s the same deal if your life is just passing college exams and barely lifting a spoon; if you actually go help a neighbor build a house, and you have the genes for muscle growth under load plus better nutrition—your biceps and triceps are going to beef up.
I have a family member who spent most of his life being wiry—basically looked like a grasshopper—but then he stopped smoking, started running, and took a construction job. In a pretty short amount of time, he bulked up like a beast compared to how thin he used to be... and obviously, he was eating more.
Then, once he started smoking again, slowed down on the training and the construction work, he dropped about 45 pounds in two years. Now he's back to looking like a grasshopper or a spider—just a skinny guy—and of course, he smokes more and eats less than he did for all those previous years.
And keep in mind, this guy never even heard of protein powders, steroids, or anything like that.
Can you build muscle without working out? in Hobbies & Leisure ·
Sure, if you've got the right genetics..
People born with the right build can bulk up or pack on muscle just by eating more or hitting the gym harder..
Take a woman with an athlete's build—say, a pro soccer player—who stops moving and starts eating poorly; her whole frame will shrink, including her legs. But once she gets back into a routine and eats "normally," she'll eventually look like a high-level CrossFit coach or a pro athlete again..
If that kind of physical shift is possible for women, why wouldn't muscle growth or bodybuilding be possible for men?
I didn't provide a specific definition here, just so nobody tries to hit me with some technical counterargument.
Small past regrets are keeping me from being happy! in Psychology & Therapy ·
Alright, then—why don't you actually list those "minor" incidents? Let's see if they're actually minor, or if you're just making things up.