Samuel Sanders6 said:Defining success is pretty subjective. For me, it’s about hitting those tangible milestones: steady financial growth, owning a decent home, upgrading to a reliable mid-range car every few years, and maybe catching a summer breeze on the Gulf Coast.
Lately, I see everyone trying to measure their own progress by comparing themselves to other countries or entire continents.
Personally, I think that’s a losing game. It’s especially useless for young people to constantly draw comparisons between life here in the States, Western Europe, or—heaven forbid—some idealized version of America.
In this part of the world, success isn't just about what you know; it's about who you know. You need that specific connection, someone in your inner circle, just to get a little nudge when you're trying to make a move.
If you look at the 99% of people who actually launched a small business or landed a high-level career, they almost always had someone pulling strings behind the scenes.
Is it just my skewed perspective, or am I onto something?😁
Don't get me wrong, things might be fantastic elsewhere, but even then, I still feel like the playing field is tilted differently depending on where you stand.
I cleaned up your post. You're talking about being "normal," or just average. 😁
True success should be much more than that: a great house plus a vacation home, two cars, traveling the world when you take time off, all without debt. You have the cash and don't worry too much about spending because you earn well and your job is secure.
Personally, I don't know anyone who opened something and moved beyond a basic American middle-class level; small shops or local businesses didn't really help them move up.
It's sad that what you're describing is considered "success" by so many people....🤣