Posts by lonerider10

going to work? you're definitely picking some weird routes to get there 😁

Maybe the issue is you’re just trying too hard to follow these patterns you think people want to see. Honestly—and I’m no expert here—I think being totally open and authentic is the way to go. That’s what I value in others, and I try to live by it myself! These social scripts can feel so stiff and rigid sometimes. It also helps to hang out where the people are actually into the same stuff you are. If you aren't in college, maybe join a local club or try a hobby you've never touched before. You don't need to be best friends with everyone, obviously, but just being around similar people makes everything click 🙂