Project: Find a Friend (Classifieds / Meetup Thread)
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Looking for someone to talk to, hang out, grab coffee, or just hit the town...
Over the last couple of years—for a bunch of different reasons—I’ve lost touch with some close people, and I just can't seem to bridge that gap back to a real friendship level. I have people I see every now and then, but they aren't those "true" friends—not the kind I want or the kind I need.
I miss having that one person you can call at 3 PM or 3 AM—someone who will actually listen, even if they don't say a word. I miss having someone who can tell when things are off, even if I claim everything's fine—someone who might just show up at my door with a bottle of wine without warning, or who makes time to hang out no matter how busy life gets...
Look, I get it—real, honest friendships don't just happen overnight. They take work, time, and genuine effort, but I’m still hoping there's someone out there feeling this same way.
24 years old, Chicago.
🙂
P.S. No diagnoses here, I just get lonely sometimes. 🙂
Over the last couple of years—for a bunch of different reasons—I’ve lost touch with some close people, and I just can't seem to bridge that gap back to a real friendship level. I have people I see every now and then, but they aren't those "true" friends—not the kind I want or the kind I need.
I miss having that one person you can call at 3 PM or 3 AM—someone who will actually listen, even if they don't say a word. I miss having someone who can tell when things are off, even if I claim everything's fine—someone who might just show up at my door with a bottle of wine without warning, or who makes time to hang out no matter how busy life gets...
Look, I get it—real, honest friendships don't just happen overnight. They take work, time, and genuine effort, but I’m still hoping there's someone out there feeling this same way.
24 years old, Chicago.
🙂
P.S. No diagnoses here, I just get lonely sometimes. 🙂