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If there are any girls or women here in their 20s or 30s who feel like they’re unattractive and struggling because of it, hit me up. Maybe we can swap stories and make things feel a little less heavy. 🙂
And to anyone feeling themselves: please spare me the "it's not that bad" or "someone will love you for who you are" pep talks. Seriously, just keep it to yourself—I dealt with enough of that last time I posted here.
I’m really hoping there’s an actual woman on this forum willing to reach out, and not some guy hiding behind a female profile just to troll people online. Those types wouldn't have the guts to say this to my face anyway.
Michael Martinez18 said:Anyone else here feel like they’re a total disaster looking at, regardless of gender? Just looking for a place to vent and commiserate so we can all feel a little less alone in this mess.
Reposting this.
If you have zero or maybe two posts, don't bother showing up. I consider you trolls who are just bored with life and lurking for kicks.
Anyone else here feel like they’re a total disaster looking at, regardless of gender? Just looking for a place to vent and commiserate so we can all feel a little less alone in this mess.
Rachel Ruiz said:Glad this thread exists so we aren't just stuck talking about dating...
Life happened, and I ended up losing a bunch of friends along the way. Honestly, I’m just done with negative people. It’s a small circle now—maybe a little lonely, whatever—but I'm putting myself out there.
I'm looking for actual, solid friends (mostly girls, but guys are cool too) to grab coffee, hit the bars, travel, or just hang out. More importantly, I want someone I can actually talk to—someone to swap advice with, lean on, and who'll be there when things get messy. Basically, looking for lifelong people. If you're always down for whatever (not that "I'm tired" or last-minute flakey stuff), honest, and actually want to build a real friendship instead of just surface-level stuff, hit me up. Based in Washington, D.C. Between 18 and 25. Shoot me a DM. 👍
Sorry, I'm just hijacking this to say I'm looking for the same thing, though I'd prefer someone a bit older (around 25 to 35). I'm 27. Located in Washington, D.C.
Hey,
I'm looking for someone to just talk to—someone who can listen without jumping in with judgments or acting shocked.
I've got so much weighing on me. I've made a mess of things lately, and honestly, it feels like I'm drowning. I can't talk to anyone in my actual life because they all immediately start trying to lecture me, which is the last thing I need right now. I just need an ear and some patience...
Since this is online and not in person, we’d probably never cross paths anyway.
The same goes for you, though. If you need someone to listen, I'm here too.🙂