How do I dig myself out of a financial hole?
in Banking, Insurance & Loans ·
Nicholas King said:So, you’re telling me you have steady income streams during that period—like from a Zubic villa?
Honestly, you don't sound like someone with a career where finding work is easy, losing it is hard, and the paycheck is substantial.
Why on earth would you be taking out a new loan just to cover existing ones? Where is this rush coming from? Or maybe... I don't know, maybe you've only shared a fraction of the actual story here...
Daniel Davis40 said:Can someone explain why you’re so desperate for that $25,000 that you'd be willing to do just about anything to get your hands on it?
Look, my take might not be popular here, but I honestly don't get it—how can people working full-time for seven months straight not manage to save $8333, yet they genuinely believe they'll somehow scrape together enough to pay it all back—plus interest—in the next seven, fourteen, or twenty-one months? Some people clearly lack even a shred of self-awareness or basic logic.
Edit: Just caught the last post. Honestly, I don't understand the math behind these moves—taking out a second loan just to cover the first one? It would be so much simpler to just tighten your belt, pay off the debt without piling on more, and then actually live within your means.
boldnomad45 said:I've always wondered who takes out loans from loan sharks if they aren't a gambler.
Go work in Ireland, or maybe Austria for a few months; you'd make that kind of money.
And I'm genuinely curious—what's so urgent that you're even considering loan sharks?
You're anonymous here, so just say it.
My dad passed away almost two years ago, and he left behind a mountain of debt that we’re still chipping away at. We also had to borrow money for the funeral because it all happened so suddenly, and then last year we had to buy a new car since fixing the old one just wasn't worth the cost anymore. On top of that, I was sick for six months, so my mom was the only one bringing in any income. I finally started a new job last month—it's a contract position, and the pay is a bit better than minimum wage, unlike my last one. But with everything we have to pay off, and most of my mom's paycheck going toward my late father's debts, there's just no way I'll be able to save any significant amount of money even in five years.
It’s urgent because I need to get out of here. I’ve been putting this off for a long time because it’s easy to feel guilty when you're dealing with the person who gave birth to you (and there's some other bullshit involved), but if I don't leave by my next birthday at the end of next year, it won't happen. Leaving this house is my last shot; nothing—not the meds, not the therapy—is helping, and even Sparrow is useless to me.
I was planning on using that money to clear off the rest of my debts and put down a deposit on an apartment in a bigger city. It would mean my mom could finally be free from my dad's debts, so I wouldn't have to worry about her anymore. Then I could actually be "free" from this current circus and try to build a better life for myself.
Finding work won't be an issue for me since I've done just about everything and have plenty of experience, plus the pay is decent enough in the city. My plan was to borrow the funds with a set agreement to pay them back by a specific date next year, say early June. I’d land my first job and stay there long enough to qualify for a bank loan, then pull out exactly what I owe my lender—at least the interest rates at a place like Chase would be reasonable.
Unless money just falls from the sky, I don't really have another option.