Posts by frozencobra61

I’m really curious to know if you're currently in a relationship, and if you are, what that whole dynamic actually looks like for you.

Are you working right now, and would you say you act this same way toward your boss?

edit: I have to ask, why the sudden urge to change everything all at once—is it just a fear of ending up alone?

This is honestly such a fascinating topic to dive into 🙂

You clearly have this deep-seated need to be in control, and honestly, it seems like your friend is just stepping aside and letting you take the lead every single time. If he actually stood his ground once in a while or called you out on your behavior just like you do to him, I truly believe you’d either find a sense of peace together or you'd just clash and head your separate ways, though I suspect you'd probably just go looking for a new "target" down the road. You really ought to reconsider this friendship entirely, because if it truly mattered to you, I’m convinced you would have made an effort to change your ways by now, since a genuine, high-quality connection can only exist when both people are willing to meet in the middle.
It's entirely possible that this all stems from something in your past, because nobody just wakes up one day and decides to act this way without some history behind it. 🤷