What exactly is "homophobia"?
in Psychology ·
The fear of actually being gay.
I mean, what happens if I find out I'm gay when I already have two kids? I’ll wreck my family—or, I could just spend my entire life pretending, which honestly feels like screwing over both myself and them anyway.
It’s pretty grim when you realize this stuff late in the game.
It can cause some serious fallout with your family and your social circle.
So, if I were giving advice to married guys, I’d say maybe skip those post-game showers after football or tennis with your old buddies—you never know how things might shift.
My suggestion? Just don't hang out with the guys too much. It's probably better to avoid the potential mess.
I mean, what happens if I find out I'm gay when I already have two kids? I’ll wreck my family—or, I could just spend my entire life pretending, which honestly feels like screwing over both myself and them anyway.
It’s pretty grim when you realize this stuff late in the game.
It can cause some serious fallout with your family and your social circle.
So, if I were giving advice to married guys, I’d say maybe skip those post-game showers after football or tennis with your old buddies—you never know how things might shift.
My suggestion? Just don't hang out with the guys too much. It's probably better to avoid the potential mess.