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Ladies, of course it’s possible—that's why they were phrased as declarative statements in the very first post.
It all goes back to this observation by Krishnamurti: he argues that trying to control yourself—policing your own thoughts and emotions—is actually a flawed approach. Instead, he suggests you should simply be an impartial observer. Because if you go down the path of self-control, you inevitably run into the classic paradox: who watches the watchmen? When reading his work, you can see him posing this exact question to his audience. They sit there, unable to provide an answer, and because they’re stumped, they just blindly accept his ideas as absolute truth. Rather than encouraging people to branch out into their own investigations and independent reasoning, he essentially pushes his own perspectives as the ultimate, unquestionable reality.
You really ought to read the Bhagavad Gita. Honestly, I can't recommend it enough.
In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna tells Arjuna that you can't exactly opt out of life by doing nothing. Avoiding action doesn't grant you some kind of cosmic pass; whether you act or stay idle, you're still going to have to deal with the consequences.
Secondly, let’s be clear: "control" is a complete myth. It’s nothing more than an illusion, a trick of Maya. Prabhupada illustrates this perfectly with a great example involving the President of the United States. The President walks around thinking he’s the ultimate authority, the big boss in charge. But in reality, his "subjects"—the American people—can kick him out of office at the next election. Then, during that very election, he has to stand there promising how great he’ll be if they just vote for him again. So, the supposed "boss" is actually entirely dependent on his "subjects." It’s the same ridiculous logic you see in a household: you might think you’re the master because you control the dog, even though in reality, you're being managed by your wife, your kids, or your mother-in-law. Yet, you still cling to the delusion that you're the one in charge of the dog.
True liberation only begins when you finally accept that your sole purpose is to serve, while realizing you actually control absolutely nothing. You become a servant to a servant of a servant, and in that surrender, you find yourself serving God.
God controls everything, and every single being is accountable only to Him—and to no one else.