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Jesus on healing psychological issues... in Psychology ·
Jeremy Alvarez5 said:
Besides, you’re kind of mixing up your terms here. Depression is one thing, psychosis is another, and affective disorders are something else entirely. That doesn't mean people can't deal with all sorts of different combinations of these issues at once, though..

When those symptoms that define a condition actually show up, how much weight is given to what caused them—you know, the actual genesis of the issue? I guess most people just focus on the symptoms and the immediate problems they cause, and then try to figure out ways to fix them. But the thing is, once you "fix" the symptoms, things often end up feeling worse than before. It feels like the underlying causes just get totally ignored.

Can you talk a bit about relapses? Like, how common are they and why does it happen?

See, that's exactly the kind of reaction I'm talking about... If I mentioned it was a joke, well, it wasn't meant to be a big deal for you or Robert Collins2, since based on everything we've talked about, I get that you both tend to take things personally pretty easily. But when someone gets fired up over stuff like that and seems to be hunting for an argument, it really highlights that connection between thought patterns, habits, and those automatic reactions—that tendency to seek out conflict where there isn't any and just being easily offended. But honestly, what's the point in trying to pull you back into the conversation if you don't even want to participate?

I think you're giving him a bit too much credit... luckily, I respond to different kinds of fuel, and it's hard for some random stranger to actually offend me.
We actually agree on one thing—you're right, I don't want to participate in this thread anymore. There is just no point. I fear I might fall into a depression 😂
Jesus on healing psychological issues... in Psychology ·
Jeremy Alvarez5 said:I mean, I guess you could say clinical depression is really for the people who are actually locked up in a psychiatric ward. Or, you know, those folks being held by several people at once because they're having some kind of episode—whether that's psychosis, an affective disorder, or whatever else they call it. It’s not really about the people just sitting around talking, I suppose.

I feel like faith can be a huge help when you're dealing with reactive depression, though maybe it’s a bit harder to lean on when it comes to the endogenous kind. I mean, don't get me wrong—I truly believe faith can provide support in just about any situation—but sometimes it feels like such slippery ground. It isn't really something you can objectively measure or quantify in a way that lets you use it as a clinical medical treatment, I guess.

It feels pretty slippery, honestly—not just at the clinic, but even when I’m sitting there with my psychiatrist or psychologist. And look, I’ll be the first to admit I’ve got my own stuff going on, between dealing with some financial headaches and just having certain... intense cravings or desires, I guess. But it's frustrating when anyone tries to take the absolute mess that is real life and try to boil it down into a few neat little factors, like they're just objects you can move around on a table. Life isn't that simple, is it?

I mean, you see it all the time—there are plenty of people struggling with their mental health who reach out to a priest first, and honestly, it makes sense. But then the priest just gives them some solid advice and tells them, "Hey, you should probably go talk to a psychiatrist." It's actually a pretty common thing, I guess.

And vice versa. Though, I guess you wouldn't want to do that if you're dealing with direct competition. 😁 I mean, look at it this way—it’s kind of like how a Catholic priest isn't exactly going to send you over to an Orthodox one, right? Or even a psychiatrist who's really big on, I don't know, Gestalt therapy... they probably aren't going to be super eager to refer you to a specialist in some other niche field just because they feel like it. It's all about those specific connections and how things are set up. I guess it just works that way sometimes.

It’s funny, I guess... in America, there’s still this weird, lingering idea that seeing a psychiatrist is somehow shameful. It’s like people think if you get a diagnosis on your medical record, you're suddenly marked or stigmatized for life. Maybe it’s just an old-school mindset, but it feels like such a shame that people still feel they have to hide it.

It feels like nowadays doctors are handing out prescriptions for every little thing, right? It seems like people get medicated for just about any minor issue that pops up. But I guess what I’m really wondering is, how do we actually tackle the deeper stuff—you know, those situations where the neurotransmitters just aren't reaching the right receptors in the first place? That's a whole different level of complexity, I suppose.

I guess I should probably go looking for some help from a philosopher. Or maybe just someone who actually knows what they're talking about when things get deep. 😁 I mean, I'm just kidding, but honestly, you could probably try anything at this point—whether it's seeing some holistic energy healers or heading over to Maya, Isabella, or Lucian’s place to light a fire and dance around the smoke. Maybe if a group of shamans starts jumping around, your brain will just instinctively soak up whatever substances it needs to balance itself out? It would be like the total opposite of aromatherapy, replacing those nice scents with... well, much weirder smells. But seriously, maybe the best move is just to call in sick and sleep for a few days. When things start hitting the fan again, the most important thing is just finding a way to move forward. The world is huge and there's so much out there we haven't even touched yet.

Uffffff, I was considering just ignoring this thread entirely, but when I read something like this... I really don't know what to say.🤷

There are two possibilities here: either you’re mocking and belittling the people reading this (some of whom are actually living with depression), or you genuinely have no idea what you're talking about.

I don't think it's necessary to explain that "clinical" depression is simply the colloquial term for a condition with its own clinical presentation, but apparently, you prefer taking words out of context, literalizing them, and laughing in everyone's face by suggesting people with depression should just be thrown into straitjackets.😕

Furthermore, you are confusing terms; depression is one thing, psychosis is another, and affective behaviors are something else entirely. That doesn't mean they can't occur in various combinations in certain individuals.

Jeremy Alvarez5 said:I mean, I guess you could say clinical depression is really for the people who are actually locked up in a psychiatric ward. Or, you know, those folks being held by several people at once because they're having some kind of episode—whether that's psychosis, an affective disorder, or whatever else they call it. It’s not really about the people just sitting around talking, I suppose.

I feel like faith can be a huge help when you're dealing with reactive depression, though maybe it’s a bit harder to lean on when it comes to the endogenous kind. I mean, don't get me wrong—I truly believe faith can provide support in just about any situation—but sometimes it feels like such slippery ground. It isn't really something you can objectively measure or quantify in a way that lets you use it as a clinical medical treatment, I guess.

It feels pretty slippery, honestly—not just at the clinic, but even when I’m sitting there with my psychiatrist or psychologist. And look, I’ll be the first to admit I’ve got my own stuff going on, between dealing with some financial headaches and just having certain... intense cravings or desires, I guess. But it's frustrating when anyone tries to take the absolute mess that is real life and try to boil it down into a few neat little factors, like they're just objects you can move around on a table. Life isn't that simple, is it?

I mean, you see it all the time—there are plenty of people struggling with their mental health who reach out to a priest first, and honestly, it makes sense. But then the priest just gives them some solid advice and tells them, "Hey, you should probably go talk to a psychiatrist." It's actually a pretty common thing, I guess.

And vice versa. Though, I guess you wouldn't want to do that if you're dealing with direct competition. 😁 I mean, look at it this way—it’s kind of like how a Catholic priest isn't exactly going to send you over to an Orthodox one, right? Or even a psychiatrist who's really big on, I don't know, Gestalt therapy... they probably aren't going to be super eager to refer you to a specialist in some other niche field just because they feel like it. It's all about those specific connections and how things are set up. I guess it just works that way sometimes.

It’s funny, I guess... in America, there’s still this weird, lingering idea that seeing a psychiatrist is somehow shameful. It’s like people think if you get a diagnosis on your medical record, you're suddenly marked or stigmatized for life. Maybe it’s just an old-school mindset, but it feels like such a shame that people still feel they have to hide it.

It feels like nowadays doctors are handing out prescriptions for every little thing, right? It seems like people get medicated for just about any minor issue that pops up. But I guess what I’m really wondering is, how do we actually tackle the deeper stuff—you know, those situations where the neurotransmitters just aren't reaching the right receptors in the first place? That's a whole different level of complexity, I suppose.

I guess I should probably go looking for some help from a philosopher. Or maybe just someone who actually knows what they're talking about when things get deep. 😁 I mean, I'm just kidding, but honestly, you could probably try anything at this point—whether it's seeing some holistic energy healers or heading over to Maya, Isabella, or Lucian’s place to light a fire and dance around the smoke. Maybe if a group of shamans starts jumping around, your brain will just instinctively soak up whatever substances it needs to balance itself out? It would be like the total opposite of aromatherapy, replacing those nice scents with... well, much weirder smells. But seriously, maybe the best move is just to call in sick and sleep for a few days. When things start hitting the fan again, the most important thing is just finding a way to move forward. The world is huge and there's so much out there we haven't even touched yet.

You call it a joke, but to me, it looks like pure mockery.👎
Or are you actually talking about seasonal blues? Depression because your cat died? Or because your cactus withered?
Suggesting they take sick leave and sleep for a few days?? What about the fact that hypersomnia—excessive sleeping—is a symptom of severe depression? Would you tell them they just need to wake up?
I once read a perfect sentence: telling someone with depression to "snap out of it" is like telling someone with acne, "Well, just don't let them break out!"

In my humble opinion, you shouldn't stray from the scope of the topic you initiated; as long as you stay within the realm of spirituality, your arguments might hold some weight, but once you step outside of it, they fall apart.

But honestly, maybe you're just trolling. What can I say? Bravo!
Jesus on healing psychological issues... in Psychology ·
You’re right; as far as I'm concerned, we can drop this subject.
Beyond that, I want to mention that while I generally agree with most of your points—and I think you explain them quite well—I don't subscribe to your generalizations or your tendency toward exclusivity.
Just as you feel I haven't grasped your message, I feel you haven't truly caught the point of my observations. But that isn't particularly important.
What matters to me is that at no point in any of my posts have I suggested you hold certain prejudices, so I find it entirely unnecessary for you to push back against me on that front. It is also perfectly clear that I have never insulted anyone nor viewed people through a one-dimensional lens in any of my posts.

The difference between our perspectives in these threads is simply that you weave spirituality into every single fiber of your argument, whereas I am someone who will acknowledge spirituality—and by that, of course, I am not referring to a belief in God—without denying its existence, yet I will weave it through only one of the five commandments, leaving the other four to be filled with something else. Those commandments together form a whole, yet they allow for completely independent analysis.

One final thought regarding your last paragraph: since I do not believe in God the Father, His only begotten son Jesus Christ, or the Holy Spirit proceeding from Him, I find it very difficult to speak on what Jesus thought or proposed. In fact, I don't even believe He thought or proposed anything at all. Therefore, I will leave it to someone else to answer your questions.
Jesus on healing psychological issues... in Psychology ·
casualharbor9 said:I suspect what we’re looking at here is a form of self-help channeled through religion—using a specific worldview as both an engine and a stabilizer for emotional states. My amateur take? It’s arguably on par with talking to a professional, like a psychologist or a psychiatrist. (After all, people go to confession much like they might attend a therapy session, though those aren't quite as clinical or targeted.) If it helps someone avoid relying on psychiatric drugs—which are always a double-edged sword—then it's a win. But, of course, that only works if the individual doesn't hold fundamentally opposing views...
Then again, I'm not so sure about brain processes driven by purely physiological causes (though, at the end of the day, isn't everything just a cocktail of electrochemical activity?)

...it's complicated. We probably need more research... hopefully...

Ugh, maybe I should just shut up...

I agree with you that religion can function as a form of self-help or as support provided by others to the ill. However, self-help is generally applicable to milder psychological disturbances. Those suffering from severe mental illness—such as individuals dealing with schizophrenia—are often not even reachable; they experience psychotic episodes and find it nearly impossible to rationally engage in any form of self-help, whether through faith (in God or otherwise) or any other method of finding balance.
Sometimes, faith struggles to fight against chemistry.
After all, what do we make of the countless patients who practice their faith deeply while in remission, yet during acute episodes, have no concept of what faith or belief even is? Isn't it a bit harsh to suggest that their God, or whoever they believe in, has abandoned them in those moments?
That is why, in my view, dividing people into "believers" and "non-believers" is a cruel distinction.
I'm not suggesting you've made such a division 😉... I am simply offering my perspective!
Jesus on healing psychological issues... in Psychology ·
Jeremy Alvarez5 said:
I mean, I guess we should probably stop acting like paranoia and depression are just things people choose to do, you know? It’s not about how someone behaves or some weird personality quirk they're putting on for attention. They're actual, serious illnesses, and when you combine them... man, that's a heavy weight to carry. It's more complicated than most people realize, I think. I guess you could say it all comes down to genetics, right? It’s like that whole nature versus nurture debate we always hear about. I mean, maybe some things are just baked into our DNA from day one, and no matter how much you try to change things, that foundation is already set. It’s kind of wild when you think about it—how much of who we are is just written in our code before we even take our first breath. I don't know, I might be overthinking it, but it feels like such a huge factor in everything., biological It looks like you might have hit send a little too early there! I was just sitting here thinking about how sometimes the best conversations start with almost nothing at all, though I guess that’s a bit deep for a Tuesday morning, isn't it? Anyway, whenever you're ready to get into it, I'm all ears. Just let me know what's on your mind. I guess you could say it’s all about that whole psychophysical thing—you know, how your mind and body kind of dance together. It's a bit of a trip when you really stop to think about it, maybe even a little overwhelming if you dwell on it too much. I don't know, it's just one of those deep topics that makes you wonder how much our mental state actually dictates how we feel physically, right? Just a thought, anyway. I mean, even looking at things today, those factors still haven't been fully mapped out or totally understood, I guess. It’s one of those things where we think we have a handle on it, but there's definitely still a lot of gray area left to uncover.

So, let’s say you stumble upon this kid, right? Imagine some mother, totally out of it, just leaves her baby out in the middle of the deep woods. Then, naturally, a pack of wolves finds the little guy and ends up raising him. Fast forward maybe five or ten years, and some hikers come along and find him—but he’s not exactly "normal." He’s scratching at the ground, howling at the moon, crawling around on all fours, biting things... basically, he’s acting exactly like a wolf. His social skills? Zero. Just non-existent.

So, what’s the move here? You just lock them up in some psych ward surrounded by people who have completely lost it? I mean, you could try feeding them cooked greens mixed with crushed-up pills—just a little DIY chemistry project to mess with their brain chemistry—and hope they somehow snap back to reality? I don't know, maybe that works in movies, but I guess it’s a pretty wild way to handle things. What's the actual deciding factor for you, though? Like, what makes you think this kid—or even just this person—is actually going to follow any of your orders after that? Or are you just gonna send them out for a walk and call it a day? Honestly, if you go down that route, what kind of medical issues are we even talking about here? Does the person actually have a diagnosed mental illness, or are we just guessing? 😕

Secondly, I guess you have to wonder... is there actually anyone out there who suffers from... Honestly, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about depression. It’s one of those heavy topics that people don't always know how to bring up in casual conversation, you know? It just sort of settles in, like a fog that won't lift, no matter how much coffee you drink or how many times you try to force a smile. I guess what I mean is, it isn't just feeling "sad." It feels more like... nothingness. A total lack of color in everything. You look at things you used to love—maybe it was catching a game at Yankee Stadium or just grabbing a burger at a local diner—and suddenly, it all feels pretty hollow. It’s hard to explain to someone who hasn't been there, so I tend to hedge my bets and say it's complicated, which is an understatement. Anyway, I don't want to get too heavy, but I figured it was worth mentioning. Life in the States can be such a grind sometimes, and mental health gets pushed to the side way too often. Just wanted to throw that out there. If anyone else is feeling a bit stuck in the mud lately, just know you aren't alone in that headspace. Maybe we can all just take it one day at a time.So, you're talking about a whole mix of factors here... I guess what you're really asking is, given everything on the table, what are the actual odds that this person could be rehabilitated? And if we were looking at a path forward, what would be the absolute deal-breakers for their recovery?

I guess this is how I see things playing out. Whether you’re dealing with someone who's just starting to feel under the weather or someone facing a much heavier struggle, the first thing—the absolute most important thing—is for the doctor or the medical team to actually earn that patient's trust. It’s not just about handing over a prescription and walking away. They really need to provide these practical, functional ways of behaving—basically models for the patient to follow—so they can see for themselves that these changes actually work and bring some real benefit to their lives. And honestly? I think the more love, genuine care, and actual desire there is to make a positive impact on the patient, the better the outcome is going to be. You can't exactly measure that kind of stuff with a lab test or a blood panel. That level of compassion, that drive, and that deep belief in a person's potential to grow and become a better version of themselves... you just can't quantify it. Most of the interaction between the doctors and the patient would probably be nonverbal anyway. You'd feel it in their gestures, in how much they're truly committing themselves to the cause, and in that sense of dedication. I guess I'll just say it... to everyone. I mean, if you look at the whole vibe—you know, the way they carry themselves, the specific words they pick, that general tone, even the way they move around... all of it. It’s even in how they play the game or those little attempts they make at being funny or joking around. It's just everything, I guess.

I was thinking about this earlier—you know how some people seem to have this incredible knack for healing others? Like, they step into someone's life when things are at their absolute worst and somehow manage to give them back a sense of purpose or joy they thought was gone forever. It’s wild. It makes me wonder if there’s actually any kind of scientific way to track that stuff. I mean, could you measure it? Maybe by looking at the sheer amount of movement or dance shared between two people in a week, or even just tracking the specific mood shifts in a doctor or a caregiver while they're working with a patient? Is there a data point for empathy, I guess? It really gets into the weeds of human psychology, too. What actually drives us to change how we act? Why do we suddenly pivot our entire behavior? I suppose it’s that constant push and pull—sometimes we're running away from something that scares us, and other times, we're just desperately trying to move closer to something, or someone, that makes us feel whole. It's all just one big, complicated cycle, isn't it?

I guess it’s kind of wild how much Jesus’s whole vibe aligns with what you hear from bioenergetic healers, esoteric types, and even various other spiritual paths out there. There are definitely some shared elements if you look closely enough. Honestly, I feel like actual believers and those "spiritual seekers" would have plenty to talk about, but man, that's probably a whole different conversation for another day.

Just to make this a bit easier to follow; I wouldn't say I'm a follower of any particular religion, if that makes sense. To be honest, I think even Jesus had his fair share of major missteps, just like any other sect or religious movement out there with their own specific ways of doing things. It’s all kind of messy, I guess. On the other hand, whether you're looking at him or any of those other folks who actually left a mark on the world, there seem to be these shared threads when it comes to human health. It’s all connected, I guess—how our physical well-being is tied to our mental state, just like our soul depends on how our body is holding up. And honestly, whether the soul can even exist independently from this physical body we can actually touch? Well, that's a whole different rabbit hole, isn't it?

When you think about experience, the subconscious, memory, perception, consciousness, or logic—and how everyone’s different with all that—it really all boils down to motivation. And motivation is driven by experience. So, I guess if you don't introduce a new perspective, people just end up spinning their wheels because they lack any real insight or interest. When we're caught up in intense emotions or acting on impulse, we tend to fixate on whatever feels right in the moment. It's like our consciousness just shuts out any other possibilities if they seem to clash with what we want. You need some distance to actually see things clearly. Honestly, you almost never see that kind of perspective in the way an American doctor talks to a patient. They just frame the illness within a few specific factors and call it a day; they focus strictly on the symptoms, whether they show up or not, while someone else just drifts along, depending entirely on whatever pill they were handed...

Now, I’m not saying medication is useless. I’m definitely not suggesting it's better for someone to commit suicide or hurt someone else than to get high or use drugs... That's not the point at all. The whole issue here is about the actual approach to treating mental illness, which, if you think about it, is a concept that's thousands of years old. Whether there are parallels to structuralism or esoteric traditions is something we could probably dive into later, maybe.

I wouldn't even call myself an atheist, so I don't quite get why the atheists around here are getting so worked up over my suggestion to discuss a way of handling psychological issues. I mean, psychologists and psychiatrists use these methods too, alongside meds and whatever else, right? Besides, plenty of them are believers, and you even have priests studying psychology nowadays.

Anyway, I won't ramble on forever, but I was wondering if any atheist psychologists here have ever looked into Catholic or other Christian thought to offer some insight regarding the topic I brought up? Just a reminder that this forum is meant for dialogue [presumably 🤷] regarding different ways to look at mental health, rather than being some kind of advertisement for Prozac, right? 🙂

I have a feeling your example isn't quite hitting the mark this time. If anything, I think you ended up answering your own question.
The child you found in the woods being raised by wolves—the one they tossed into a psychiatric ward and tried to treat with twigs—is, as you so aptly put it, a child with zero social development. That kid doesn't necessarily have to be mentally ill, which means there likely isn't even a chemical imbalance in the brain in the traditional sense. So, those pills you're planning to overprescribe him using nothing but sticks probably won't do a thing. They might not even trigger a placebo effect, because in that little "wolf," there isn't even a developed concept of illness or healing to begin with.

Jeremy Alvarez5 said:
I mean, I guess we should probably stop acting like paranoia and depression are just things people choose to do, you know? It’s not about how someone behaves or some weird personality quirk they're putting on for attention. They're actual, serious illnesses, and when you combine them... man, that's a heavy weight to carry. It's more complicated than most people realize, I think. I guess you could say it all comes down to genetics, right? It’s like that whole nature versus nurture debate we always hear about. I mean, maybe some things are just baked into our DNA from day one, and no matter how much you try to change things, that foundation is already set. It’s kind of wild when you think about it—how much of who we are is just written in our code before we even take our first breath. I don't know, I might be overthinking it, but it feels like such a huge factor in everything., biological It looks like you might have hit send a little too early there! I was just sitting here thinking about how sometimes the best conversations start with almost nothing at all, though I guess that’s a bit deep for a Tuesday morning, isn't it? Anyway, whenever you're ready to get into it, I'm all ears. Just let me know what's on your mind. I guess you could say it’s all about that whole psychophysical thing—you know, how your mind and body kind of dance together. It's a bit of a trip when you really stop to think about it, maybe even a little overwhelming if you dwell on it too much. I don't know, it's just one of those deep topics that makes you wonder how much our mental state actually dictates how we feel physically, right? Just a thought, anyway. I mean, even looking at things today, those factors still haven't been fully mapped out or totally understood, I guess. It’s one of those things where we think we have a handle on it, but there's definitely still a lot of gray area left to uncover.

So, let’s say you stumble upon this kid, right? Imagine some mother, totally out of it, just leaves her baby out in the middle of the deep woods. Then, naturally, a pack of wolves finds the little guy and ends up raising him. Fast forward maybe five or ten years, and some hikers come along and find him—but he’s not exactly "normal." He’s scratching at the ground, howling at the moon, crawling around on all fours, biting things... basically, he’s acting exactly like a wolf. His social skills? Zero. Just non-existent.

So, what’s the move here? You just lock them up in some psych ward surrounded by people who have completely lost it? I mean, you could try feeding them cooked greens mixed with crushed-up pills—just a little DIY chemistry project to mess with their brain chemistry—and hope they somehow snap back to reality? I don't know, maybe that works in movies, but I guess it’s a pretty wild way to handle things. What's the actual deciding factor for you, though? Like, what makes you think this kid—or even just this person—is actually going to follow any of your orders after that? Or are you just gonna send them out for a walk and call it a day? Honestly, if you go down that route, what kind of medical issues are we even talking about here? Does the person actually have a diagnosed mental illness, or are we just guessing? 😕

Secondly, I guess you have to wonder... is there actually anyone out there who suffers from... Honestly, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about depression. It’s one of those heavy topics that people don't always know how to bring up in casual conversation, you know? It just sort of settles in, like a fog that won't lift, no matter how much coffee you drink or how many times you try to force a smile. I guess what I mean is, it isn't just feeling "sad." It feels more like... nothingness. A total lack of color in everything. You look at things you used to love—maybe it was catching a game at Yankee Stadium or just grabbing a burger at a local diner—and suddenly, it all feels pretty hollow. It’s hard to explain to someone who hasn't been there, so I tend to hedge my bets and say it's complicated, which is an understatement. Anyway, I don't want to get too heavy, but I figured it was worth mentioning. Life in the States can be such a grind sometimes, and mental health gets pushed to the side way too often. Just wanted to throw that out there. If anyone else is feeling a bit stuck in the mud lately, just know you aren't alone in that headspace. Maybe we can all just take it one day at a time.So, you're talking about a whole mix of factors here... I guess what you're really asking is, given everything on the table, what are the actual odds that this person could be rehabilitated? And if we were looking at a path forward, what would be the absolute deal-breakers for their recovery?

I guess this is how I see things playing out. Whether you’re dealing with someone who's just starting to feel under the weather or someone facing a much heavier struggle, the first thing—the absolute most important thing—is for the doctor or the medical team to actually earn that patient's trust. It’s not just about handing over a prescription and walking away. They really need to provide these practical, functional ways of behaving—basically models for the patient to follow—so they can see for themselves that these changes actually work and bring some real benefit to their lives. And honestly? I think the more love, genuine care, and actual desire there is to make a positive impact on the patient, the better the outcome is going to be. You can't exactly measure that kind of stuff with a lab test or a blood panel. That level of compassion, that drive, and that deep belief in a person's potential to grow and become a better version of themselves... you just can't quantify it. Most of the interaction between the doctors and the patient would probably be nonverbal anyway. You'd feel it in their gestures, in how much they're truly committing themselves to the cause, and in that sense of dedication. I guess I'll just say it... to everyone. I mean, if you look at the whole vibe—you know, the way they carry themselves, the specific words they pick, that general tone, even the way they move around... all of it. It’s even in how they play the game or those little attempts they make at being funny or joking around. It's just everything, I guess.

I was thinking about this earlier—you know how some people seem to have this incredible knack for healing others? Like, they step into someone's life when things are at their absolute worst and somehow manage to give them back a sense of purpose or joy they thought was gone forever. It’s wild. It makes me wonder if there’s actually any kind of scientific way to track that stuff. I mean, could you measure it? Maybe by looking at the sheer amount of movement or dance shared between two people in a week, or even just tracking the specific mood shifts in a doctor or a caregiver while they're working with a patient? Is there a data point for empathy, I guess? It really gets into the weeds of human psychology, too. What actually drives us to change how we act? Why do we suddenly pivot our entire behavior? I suppose it’s that constant push and pull—sometimes we're running away from something that scares us, and other times, we're just desperately trying to move closer to something, or someone, that makes us feel whole. It's all just one big, complicated cycle, isn't it?

I guess it’s kind of wild how much Jesus’s whole vibe aligns with what you hear from bioenergetic healers, esoteric types, and even various other spiritual paths out there. There are definitely some shared elements if you look closely enough. Honestly, I feel like actual believers and those "spiritual seekers" would have plenty to talk about, but man, that's probably a whole different conversation for another day.

Just to make this a bit easier to follow; I wouldn't say I'm a follower of any particular religion, if that makes sense. To be honest, I think even Jesus had his fair share of major missteps, just like any other sect or religious movement out there with their own specific ways of doing things. It’s all kind of messy, I guess. On the other hand, whether you're looking at him or any of those other folks who actually left a mark on the world, there seem to be these shared threads when it comes to human health. It’s all connected, I guess—how our physical well-being is tied to our mental state, just like our soul depends on how our body is holding up. And honestly, whether the soul can even exist independently from this physical body we can actually touch? Well, that's a whole different rabbit hole, isn't it?

When you think about experience, the subconscious, memory, perception, consciousness, or logic—and how everyone’s different with all that—it really all boils down to motivation. And motivation is driven by experience. So, I guess if you don't introduce a new perspective, people just end up spinning their wheels because they lack any real insight or interest. When we're caught up in intense emotions or acting on impulse, we tend to fixate on whatever feels right in the moment. It's like our consciousness just shuts out any other possibilities if they seem to clash with what we want. You need some distance to actually see things clearly. Honestly, you almost never see that kind of perspective in the way an American doctor talks to a patient. They just frame the illness within a few specific factors and call it a day; they focus strictly on the symptoms, whether they show up or not, while someone else just drifts along, depending entirely on whatever pill they were handed...

Now, I’m not saying medication is useless. I’m definitely not suggesting it's better for someone to commit suicide or hurt someone else than to get high or use drugs... That's not the point at all. The whole issue here is about the actual approach to treating mental illness, which, if you think about it, is a concept that's thousands of years old. Whether there are parallels to structuralism or esoteric traditions is something we could probably dive into later, maybe.

I wouldn't even call myself an atheist, so I don't quite get why the atheists around here are getting so worked up over my suggestion to discuss a way of handling psychological issues. I mean, psychologists and psychiatrists use these methods too, alongside meds and whatever else, right? Besides, plenty of them are believers, and you even have priests studying psychology nowadays.

Anyway, I won't ramble on forever, but I was wondering if any atheist psychologists here have ever looked into Catholic or other Christian thought to offer some insight regarding the topic I brought up? Just a reminder that this forum is meant for dialogue [presumably 🤷] regarding different ways to look at mental health, rather than being some kind of advertisement for Prozac, right? 🙂

I completely agree with what Robert Collins2 wrote. Depression is a clinical illness, plain and simple. The fact that it’s triggered by a complex web of factors—and that we still don't fully grasp its exact origins—doesn't change that reality. You can't just dismiss depression as a disease, nor can you blame it on upbringing (though I see why that "little wolf" analogy was used here), unless you have zero empathy for those involved. Out of basic respect for the people who have spent years struggling with this condition, trying to find balance while battling an illness they didn't choose and couldn't prevent through parenting, one should stop denying its existence.
Don't you think most people would prefer to be healthy and off medication? It seems a bit harsh to categorize them that way, especially when compared to someone like me, who is perfectly mentally sound—though, seeing how atheism is being labeled a sickness around here, who knows... maybe I’m sick too.

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The interaction between one doctor or several and their patient is largely nonverbal; you feel it through their gestures, the level of commitment, and every single bit of eye contact, word choice, tone, movement, playfulness, or even attempts at humor.

Even perfectly healthy people crave this kind of connection, let alone patients, for whom the slightest sign of genuine attention can feel as massive as a mountain.

Jeremy Alvarez5 said:
I mean, I guess we should probably stop acting like paranoia and depression are just things people choose to do, you know? It’s not about how someone behaves or some weird personality quirk they're putting on for attention. They're actual, serious illnesses, and when you combine them... man, that's a heavy weight to carry. It's more complicated than most people realize, I think. I guess you could say it all comes down to genetics, right? It’s like that whole nature versus nurture debate we always hear about. I mean, maybe some things are just baked into our DNA from day one, and no matter how much you try to change things, that foundation is already set. It’s kind of wild when you think about it—how much of who we are is just written in our code before we even take our first breath. I don't know, I might be overthinking it, but it feels like such a huge factor in everything., biological It looks like you might have hit send a little too early there! I was just sitting here thinking about how sometimes the best conversations start with almost nothing at all, though I guess that’s a bit deep for a Tuesday morning, isn't it? Anyway, whenever you're ready to get into it, I'm all ears. Just let me know what's on your mind. I guess you could say it’s all about that whole psychophysical thing—you know, how your mind and body kind of dance together. It's a bit of a trip when you really stop to think about it, maybe even a little overwhelming if you dwell on it too much. I don't know, it's just one of those deep topics that makes you wonder how much our mental state actually dictates how we feel physically, right? Just a thought, anyway. I mean, even looking at things today, those factors still haven't been fully mapped out or totally understood, I guess. It’s one of those things where we think we have a handle on it, but there's definitely still a lot of gray area left to uncover.

So, let’s say you stumble upon this kid, right? Imagine some mother, totally out of it, just leaves her baby out in the middle of the deep woods. Then, naturally, a pack of wolves finds the little guy and ends up raising him. Fast forward maybe five or ten years, and some hikers come along and find him—but he’s not exactly "normal." He’s scratching at the ground, howling at the moon, crawling around on all fours, biting things... basically, he’s acting exactly like a wolf. His social skills? Zero. Just non-existent.

So, what’s the move here? You just lock them up in some psych ward surrounded by people who have completely lost it? I mean, you could try feeding them cooked greens mixed with crushed-up pills—just a little DIY chemistry project to mess with their brain chemistry—and hope they somehow snap back to reality? I don't know, maybe that works in movies, but I guess it’s a pretty wild way to handle things. What's the actual deciding factor for you, though? Like, what makes you think this kid—or even just this person—is actually going to follow any of your orders after that? Or are you just gonna send them out for a walk and call it a day? Honestly, if you go down that route, what kind of medical issues are we even talking about here? Does the person actually have a diagnosed mental illness, or are we just guessing? 😕

Secondly, I guess you have to wonder... is there actually anyone out there who suffers from... Honestly, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about depression. It’s one of those heavy topics that people don't always know how to bring up in casual conversation, you know? It just sort of settles in, like a fog that won't lift, no matter how much coffee you drink or how many times you try to force a smile. I guess what I mean is, it isn't just feeling "sad." It feels more like... nothingness. A total lack of color in everything. You look at things you used to love—maybe it was catching a game at Yankee Stadium or just grabbing a burger at a local diner—and suddenly, it all feels pretty hollow. It’s hard to explain to someone who hasn't been there, so I tend to hedge my bets and say it's complicated, which is an understatement. Anyway, I don't want to get too heavy, but I figured it was worth mentioning. Life in the States can be such a grind sometimes, and mental health gets pushed to the side way too often. Just wanted to throw that out there. If anyone else is feeling a bit stuck in the mud lately, just know you aren't alone in that headspace. Maybe we can all just take it one day at a time.So, you're talking about a whole mix of factors here... I guess what you're really asking is, given everything on the table, what are the actual odds that this person could be rehabilitated? And if we were looking at a path forward, what would be the absolute deal-breakers for their recovery?

I guess this is how I see things playing out. Whether you’re dealing with someone who's just starting to feel under the weather or someone facing a much heavier struggle, the first thing—the absolute most important thing—is for the doctor or the medical team to actually earn that patient's trust. It’s not just about handing over a prescription and walking away. They really need to provide these practical, functional ways of behaving—basically models for the patient to follow—so they can see for themselves that these changes actually work and bring some real benefit to their lives. And honestly? I think the more love, genuine care, and actual desire there is to make a positive impact on the patient, the better the outcome is going to be. You can't exactly measure that kind of stuff with a lab test or a blood panel. That level of compassion, that drive, and that deep belief in a person's potential to grow and become a better version of themselves... you just can't quantify it. Most of the interaction between the doctors and the patient would probably be nonverbal anyway. You'd feel it in their gestures, in how much they're truly committing themselves to the cause, and in that sense of dedication. I guess I'll just say it... to everyone. I mean, if you look at the whole vibe—you know, the way they carry themselves, the specific words they pick, that general tone, even the way they move around... all of it. It’s even in how they play the game or those little attempts they make at being funny or joking around. It's just everything, I guess.

I was thinking about this earlier—you know how some people seem to have this incredible knack for healing others? Like, they step into someone's life when things are at their absolute worst and somehow manage to give them back a sense of purpose or joy they thought was gone forever. It’s wild. It makes me wonder if there’s actually any kind of scientific way to track that stuff. I mean, could you measure it? Maybe by looking at the sheer amount of movement or dance shared between two people in a week, or even just tracking the specific mood shifts in a doctor or a caregiver while they're working with a patient? Is there a data point for empathy, I guess? It really gets into the weeds of human psychology, too. What actually drives us to change how we act? Why do we suddenly pivot our entire behavior? I suppose it’s that constant push and pull—sometimes we're running away from something that scares us, and other times, we're just desperately trying to move closer to something, or someone, that makes us feel whole. It's all just one big, complicated cycle, isn't it?

I guess it’s kind of wild how much Jesus’s whole vibe aligns with what you hear from bioenergetic healers, esoteric types, and even various other spiritual paths out there. There are definitely some shared elements if you look closely enough. Honestly, I feel like actual believers and those "spiritual seekers" would have plenty to talk about, but man, that's probably a whole different conversation for another day.

Just to make this a bit easier to follow; I wouldn't say I'm a follower of any particular religion, if that makes sense. To be honest, I think even Jesus had his fair share of major missteps, just like any other sect or religious movement out there with their own specific ways of doing things. It’s all kind of messy, I guess. On the other hand, whether you're looking at him or any of those other folks who actually left a mark on the world, there seem to be these shared threads when it comes to human health. It’s all connected, I guess—how our physical well-being is tied to our mental state, just like our soul depends on how our body is holding up. And honestly, whether the soul can even exist independently from this physical body we can actually touch? Well, that's a whole different rabbit hole, isn't it?

When you think about experience, the subconscious, memory, perception, consciousness, or logic—and how everyone’s different with all that—it really all boils down to motivation. And motivation is driven by experience. So, I guess if you don't introduce a new perspective, people just end up spinning their wheels because they lack any real insight or interest. When we're caught up in intense emotions or acting on impulse, we tend to fixate on whatever feels right in the moment. It's like our consciousness just shuts out any other possibilities if they seem to clash with what we want. You need some distance to actually see things clearly. Honestly, you almost never see that kind of perspective in the way an American doctor talks to a patient. They just frame the illness within a few specific factors and call it a day; they focus strictly on the symptoms, whether they show up or not, while someone else just drifts along, depending entirely on whatever pill they were handed...

Now, I’m not saying medication is useless. I’m definitely not suggesting it's better for someone to commit suicide or hurt someone else than to get high or use drugs... That's not the point at all. The whole issue here is about the actual approach to treating mental illness, which, if you think about it, is a concept that's thousands of years old. Whether there are parallels to structuralism or esoteric traditions is something we could probably dive into later, maybe.

I wouldn't even call myself an atheist, so I don't quite get why the atheists around here are getting so worked up over my suggestion to discuss a way of handling psychological issues. I mean, psychologists and psychiatrists use these methods too, alongside meds and whatever else, right? Besides, plenty of them are believers, and you even have priests studying psychology nowadays.

Anyway, I won't ramble on forever, but I was wondering if any atheist psychologists here have ever looked into Catholic or other Christian thought to offer some insight regarding the topic I brought up? Just a reminder that this forum is meant for dialogue [presumably 🤷] regarding different ways to look at mental health, rather than being some kind of advertisement for Prozac, right? 🙂

Personally, I am someone who takes pride in not letting anyone impose spiritual poverty upon me through baseless arguments.
By my own volition, after careful thought and a studied approach, and much to the chagrin of my queen mother—who still loses her patience when I tell her how I identified myself on the census because, apparently, "that's not how I was raised"!
And as such, I am not standing on ceremony regarding what you wrote, because fundamentally, I don't divide people into believers and non-believers. I believe everyone should have the right to accept whatever help suits them best. Consequently, I expect others to respect those individual choices.

Finally—I don't think a single person here has been advertising Normabel 😉
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Gary James88 said:This is a pretty heavy, controversial topic. There’s actually an entire movement here in the States that treats mental health issues as spiritual crises. It’s even gained traction within certain corners of the medical establishment—you’ll see instances where books are openly presented at medical schools claiming things like homosexuality or atheism are essentially "spiritual illnesses" that can be cured through prayer. They even frame depression as a byproduct of being disconnected from God. You have this segment of the medical community that just shrugs and says, "well, we don't know everything yet," basically applauding these fringe ideas in academic settings. Given everything we actually know about modern science and psychology, what is there left to say about that?

Indeed, the topic is contentious, and I worry we might be "losing our way."😁
Personally, I see nothing inherently wrong with attempting to view illnesses from different perspectives, even within a medical school setting, provided it does not cross the line of practical utility.
However, I am simultaneously baffled by these so-called "movements" and various "trends" that receive undeserved applause for poorly substantiated claims, simply because certain physical and spiritual conditions remain under-researched or misunderstood. In doing so, they gain traction with the segment of the population that finds such narratives easy to believe.
It is because of this that we continue to witness these unfortunate stories in our 21st-century society, even though modern medicine does not define homosexuality as a mental illness.
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What you’ve written is quite lovely if you approach it from the perspective of a believer, someone who isn't fully informed, or perhaps someone denying the existence of severe mental illnesses classified as clinical diseases.

I will focus solely on the two examples you provided—paranoia and depression.
Both examples are flawed, though looking at your entire post, I conclude you weren't referring to severe clinical conditions (whether due to a lack of familiarity with them or some other reason, it matters little...), but rather "light" versions that might affect the modern individual—things like a pronounced paranoid streak in one's behavior or seasonal depression in people who aren't clinically ill.
Paranoia and depression are not mere behaviors; they are serious illnesses resulting from a combination of genetic, biological, and psychophysical factors, even if they aren't fully understood today.
In the case of depression as a severe mental illness, there is a significant dysfunction in certain neurotransmitters. It is highly unlikely that a patient in an acute phase would be able to simply "realize something is wrong," as you put it. "Wrong"? What does that even mean to you? Or consider your sentence about a person "losing their compass" in relation to these two examples.

Of course, self-actualization is important, and maintaining mental hygiene is vital, but a healthy person will find that much easier to achieve than someone suffering from a severe mental illness caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain.

I will interpret your claim that psychotherapists are essentially "drugging" people in a controlled manner as merely your viewpoint written from a religious stance—one where you project faith and love onto every aspect of life, perhaps unconsciously, while disregarding everything else that has nothing to do with faith.
It is roughly equivalent to me, as an atheist, claiming that the church effectively "drugs" people with Christian propaganda, while ignoring the fact that for a practicing believer, it can be immensely helpful in the attempt to recover from mental illness.

For some, faith provides help; for others, it is a walk or physical activity; some can manage through sheer willpower, but for others, medication is absolutely necessary to restore the chemical balance required to live a quality life. Only then will they find it easier to reach that realization of satisfaction and love you speak of.

Edit: I see > beat me to it, albeit in a slightly coarser version of my own sentiment! Though I am in complete agreement with that version as well. 😉
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James Bennett9 said:She's calmer now. I don't know if it's because of the medication they gave her or something else entirely, but she still has these fears... and her memory isn't quite right either. Honestly, I'm not even sure how to gauge where she stands right now. She's definitely different than when I first posted, but whether that's actually an improvement... I just don't know...

Yeah, it’s likely the meds. Honestly, I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for you; I wouldn't know what else to say...
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James Bennett9 said:I was actually there with her mom, and her sister mentioned the doctor won't be back until Wednesday. Apparently, it's the same guy who admitted her. I guess they each have their own specific patients or something... I don't know...

Well, Wednesday will be here before we know it. The priority is just making sure she’s alright. Is she doing better? Has she moved past the symptoms mentioned in the original post? Or not quite yet?
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James Bennett9 said:The doctor won't be back until Wednesday, and there hasn't been an official word yet, but the nurse dropped a hint that the drug test came back negative... she wouldn't say it outright, though, because she isn't supposed to...

Forget asking the nurses; you'll have a hard time getting anything useful out of them unless you really know how to work the room.
I don't understand why the doctor isn't available. Avoid showing up during rounds—they are never around then. Try heading over in the morning and just being polite; they'll usually make time for you if you ask nicely.
Ideally, her parents should be the ones going in so you can get the facts from them. Dealing with this yourself is enough to drive anyone crazy. At least, it would for me.
In any case, keep your chin up. I truly believe everything will turn out fine in the end.
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James Bennett9 said:It’s exactly what you said... it’s impossible to get any info. We don't have the test results yet, and we haven't been able to talk to anyone because there's nobody around. All we see are the nurses and some guy who handles locking and unlocking the doors... so yeah, we're completely in the dark right now. It's tough. Hopefully, someone will say something tomorrow...

Yes, unfortunately, it is Sunday...
Hang in there until tomorrow.
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James Bennett9 said:I stopped by to see her today. Things seem maybe a little bit better, perhaps... we haven't received any of the test results back yet...

Well, I am truly glad to hear she’s feeling a bit better.
Were you able to catch any of the doctors for a quick verbal update regarding her acute condition, even if they haven't released the official paperwork? I know how impossible it is to actually track down medical staff on a Sunday...
Do they have an idea of how long they plan to keep her there? At least having that timeline might take some of the weight off your shoulders.
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James Bennett9 said:What do you mean by "commune"? This girl is dealing with some serious mental health struggles, and I’m just trying to make sense of it all. I mentioned earlier that she confessed to taking a pill, mostly because I was almost certain she wouldn't do something like that...
So, now she’s in the psych ward. Her mom took her there—maybe to the ER, I’m not entirely sure—but she talked to the psychiatrist, admitted to taking the pill, and they decided to keep her there for observation. I honestly don't know if it was just one single pill, or if this has been going on for a while, or if one solitary pill was enough to trigger this whole breakdown... I really hope they can run blood and urine tests to figure out exactly what she took and how long ago... and maybe the pills are just one piece of a much larger puzzle, I don't know...
There's something else, too. She watched Paranormal Activity with me. Do you think a movie like that could actually have that kind of psychological impact on someone? Like, could it cause a reaction like this?
We watched the movie about a month or so ago. She seemed completely fine right after. Just to recap, things started shifting about three weeks ago, then she became a totally different person four days ago, and today she completely lost her grip on reality. She was admitted to the hospital a few hours ago... I won't be able to see her until tomorrow...

I wouldn't say the movie has anything to do with it... don't forget what she admitted to consuming...
Try not to overthink this too much right now, though I realize you're likely spinning through a thousand different questions.
Get some sleep, go visit her tomorrow, and try to get some actual information from the doctors.
Hang in there; I really hope everything turns out okay.
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Billiards 🙂
I suspect the girl mentioned in the opening post didn't actually take it; she doesn't seem to be acting particularly high to me.
Or could she be? I haven't the slightest clue—what do you think?
That one sentence did strike a chord, though: "Its effects are long-lasting and are considered unpleasant by most who experience them."
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shadowrider8 said:Ecstasy doesn't usually last that long.
I honestly think she popped some insanely heavy pill—don't know the exact name—because one time I was sold something similar and it absolutely wrecked me for two full days... and mind you, I’m pretty mentally tough and stubborn as hell, which probably helped me power through... I don't know.

If that isn't it, I’d bet money she's bipolar... I remember seeing plenty of stories about that on the Oprah Winfrey Show where they concluded the disorder just hits you out of nowhere.

But if she’s been living in her own little world for several days now, then she took a pill strong enough to take down a horse. It leveled me—and I’ve got much more physical stamina than a 20-year-old girl weighing maybe 110 or 130 pounds—so there’s no way it wasn't at least two or three of those things.

Yes, obviously a single dose doesn't last that long. However, I suspect her current state isn't due to the acute effects, but rather the aftermath on her nervous system. Truthfully, the question remains whether it was even ecstasy to begin with. Everything about this suggests it wasn't just a single dose. Even so, for certain people, taking anything just once can trigger a total imbalance.
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mistyseal11 said:Please, don't put her in rehab just for the pills; that would honestly just wreck her for good, and it wouldn't even make any sense.

1) "Pills" aren't exactly an everyday thing...
2) Not every "drug" is everyone's cup of tea either... maybe she actually finds the whole thing disgusting...

Though, looking at those symptoms, it sounds a lot like MDMA.
Or maybe speed. Or some other kind of amphetamine.

Personally, I got totally turned off from MDMA after trying it just once. It was absolutely revolting, like, seriously, what a nightmare.

I'm inclined to agree here, especially if we're talking about amphetamines...
It's difficult to offer definitive advice—it's either do it or don't.
However, I have a feeling that an open-ended outpatient program would be far more effective than simply locking someone away in a psychiatric ward.
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James Bennett9 said:She was at the psychiatric hospital and ended up staying there after telling her doctor she’d taken some kind of pill... I'm honestly pretty shaken up... don't have any more details just yet...

What kind of pill? Ecstasy? Ugh... I hate the feeling that my initial hunch might actually be right... because, as James Hernandez77 pointed out quite well, users become incredibly cunning when it comes to hiding things from their own families...
Unfortunately, I have a nagging suspicion this isn't just about a single pill or a one-time slip-up...
When did we hear this? When was her appointment? What steps have been taken since then? Or was this confession just made moments ago?
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James Bennett9 said:She’s definitely going to see the doctor. Hopefully this Monday. There's also this whole complication with her health insurance—it seems like she didn't renew it or something like that... I'm not entirely sure on the specifics. But regardless, she'll go. She hasn't left the house for the last three or four days, obviously. It doesn't make much sense for her to go anywhere in her current state. Usually, she was heading to her classes at the university and doing all the usual stuff most people do. As for drugs, I don't think she's that type of person. Even if we were talking about substances and she had taken something, who knows what... she would have to stop immediately, right? Or are you telling me there could be lasting consequences?? If she did use anything (and again, I really doubt it), it would have only been within the last four weeks. But then again, you need money for that, and I don't think she's in a position to afford it...
I realize nobody here on a forum can give me an actual diagnosis, but I just want to see what you all think while we give her a chance to get back to her old self. If we don't see any progress, we're going to have to seek professional help, unfortunately...

It isn't necessarily a question of permanent versus acute consequences... though it is difficult to predict with any certainty how this will impact someone's nervous system, especially through the medium of the internet...
Of course, it doesn't have to involve drugs. I certainly hope that isn't the case.
It could be anything... and to determine exactly what, you will need the assistance of a professional.

In any event, persist in helping her. The fact that she lacks health insurance should not be an obstacle; you can pay out of pocket, and if you are truly committed to helping her, the cost becomes secondary. Assuming, of course, that you have the means. I hope you at least have enough set aside for the initial examination.

Online comments might help you weigh your options, but they are by no means a permanent solution.
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Given how abrupt this shift was, my first thought leaned toward substance abuse—something like amphetamines. You often see that initial burst of euphoria and hyperactivity followed by a heavy descent into anxiety, confusion, or even paranoia...
You haven't mentioned whether this person is constantly home or always out, what kind of social circle they keep, their general baseline for daily activities, or how they functioned before these changes took hold...
Though, I truly hope my suspicion is misplaced.
Regardless, if I were in your shoes, I would certainly be seeking professional medical advice.
Melissa Morgan67 said:thanks for the quick reply
I'll try to clear these dark thoughts from my head tonight

Honestly, I regret not studying medicine. I always hear stories about people who live an extra ten years or more because of it

My mom is going in for some abdominal scans this week... please let everything be okay....

Do try to push those heavy thoughts aside, as difficult as that may be... especially when you're with your mother.
I spent five years acting like a local hero brimming with optimism in front of my father... even while I was falling apart inside.
And I don't regret a single second of it, because it was clear that I was providing him with the strength he was starting to lose. That was the whole point. To see him at peace. I mattered less than that.
Keeping my fingers crossed for both you and your wonderful mother!