Posts by Lawrence Wright7

Kimberly Nguyen said:Look, you can certainly try to request a cancellation of that automatic recurring payment, but if I recall correctly, the fine print in your loan agreement specifically mandates that the credit be serviced through an autopay setup... and honestly, what's the actual upside for you here?

Look, my whole thought process was, "in case things go sideways with the bank and we can't reach an agreement,"
I'd just kill the autopay and start manually paying whatever I could manage toward the installment. For example:
instead of $1267, I’d pay them $933.
Basically, just making sure I'm still putting *something* toward the balance instead of nothing at all...

Question:
I’ve got a checking account over at Google, and my entire paycheck lands right there without any holds or restrictions—just the whole sum hitting the balance.
My mortgage gets pulled automatically via autopay, and I also wire money to my mom every month to cover her groceries.
The problem is, my monthly outflows are consistently higher than what I’m bringing in, so I end up "sinking" about $1,000 every single month.
I’m starting to get dangerously close to my overdraft limit.
How far can this actually go? I mean, I assume I can't just go infinitely into the red, right?$6667Where does the bottom end? Is there even a floor?

Is it possible to just cancel an autopay setup, and if so, how on earth do I do it?

Donna Davis8 said:This thread should serve as a wake-up call for all those credit junkies and people living paycheck to paycheck. They wouldn't even bother financing a washing machine anymore if they saw this. 🤣

But in all seriousness, I really feel for the guy. My advice? Start renting out the place immediately, but find a smaller unit for yourself to move into. That’s the smart compromise. If you try to sell the apartment right now while you're in a rush, you're just going to get lowballed by every buyer on the market.

And what exactly is this "girl" supposed to be helping with?
She dumped a massive loan on you and walked away with the kid, leaving you to deal with child support too.
What a joke.

Heh...
That "girl" is actually worse than a predatory lender at a payday loan shop. Honestly, if she could have stripped you down to nothing, she would've taken your clothes and still come back asking for more...

Kimberly Nguyen said:Look, all those tips about having a third of your paycheck garnished are fine in theory, but what does that actually achieve? => Your monthly obligations don't just vanish. You still won't be paying your full installment, which means you're just inviting the bank to hit you with notification fees, late notices, and don't even get me started on the predatory interest rates they tack on for delinquency...

My advice? Walk into the branch with your pay stub in hand. Sit down, stay calm, and be human about it. Explain exactly what happened—that your income has taken a hit and you're terrified of the moment you simply won't be able to keep up anymore... and believe me, that is the last thing a major bank like Chase or Bank of America wants to see (honestly, no bank cares if you default, especially in this economy)... Since you're already in this mess and you clearly want to avoid legal headaches, ask the branch manager for some empathy and help with extending your term... Most branches have loan calculators right there at the desk; plug in your remaining principal—basically how much you still owe—and the timeframe => it'll spit out a new monthly payment so you can get a rough idea of how much breathing room you'd get if you stretched the loan out by, say, five years... I'm not sure if they still offer those specific refinancing products where you wrap the balance into a new term, but even if you end up paying more interest over the long haul, having a significantly lower monthly payment right now is worth its weight in gold, even if the payments jump back up once the term ends....
And for heaven's sake, ask them about any refinancing fees or closing costs

That idea about finding someone to co-sign or lend you the funds is solid, but you need to move fast before things escalate

How many years can the bank actually extend the repayment period? Because the loan was for 30 years, and I'm only in year two... if they extend it by 5 years, does that make it 33 total??
Isn't 30 the absolute limit??

Benjamin Rodriguez2 said:Have you even considered just selling the place yourself and paying off the mortgage ahead of time? Honestly, wouldn't it be better if you were the one calling the shots instead of letting some massive bank like Chase dictate your life? Besides, if the bank ends up seizing the property and puts it on the market, there's always that nasty little catch where if they don't get the full amount back from the sale, you’re still stuck on the hook for the difference.

Whoa...
I honestly had no idea about that part...
The thing is, they appraised it at $90,000 back when it was sitting vacant.
So what, should I just let them sell it for $50,000 and then I get stuck paying them an extra $25,000 out of thin air?! (I originally took out $75,000 on the loan)

Selling the place actually crossed my mind, though I haven't pulled the trigger yet—I’d probably save that as a last resort..
My first move would be trying to rent it out instead...

placidgull21 said:Look, you signed the papers, so that’s just how it is now. If you can't cover the monthly payments, they’re going to come after the collateral, or they'll just go straight to the guarantor. I honestly don't think an attorney is going to be able to work much magic for you here... maybe try heading down to the bank in person? It might be worth seeing if you can negotiate a deal where you extend the loan term by another year or so in exchange for lower monthly payments. Banks usually seem pretty happy whenever they can squeeze a little more interest out of someone...

Heheh...
I don't even have a co-signer. When I was getting this loan approved, a mortgage on my condo was enough security. They appraised the place at $90,000 and "lent" me $75,000.
If I stop paying, they've got nobody else to squeeze. There's no secondary target.
And let's be real—they want the cash way more than some property they'll struggle to flip anyway.

Daniel Roberts72 said:1. Stop talking nonsense about child support. It’s not the kid's fault if the father can't handle basic math or fails to consider long-term consequences when making major life decisions. That money belongs to the child, period—even if the father ends up sleeping under a bridge.
2. Forget about selling the house. Prices are likely going to tank by another fifty percent over the next year, and even at current rates, you won't find a buyer right now.
3. There is always work available. During a recession, the pay is miserable and you'll be working yourself to the bone, but the jobs are there.

4. To address the legal side of things:
- A bank can only garnish up to one-third of your wages, and that’s only after child support deductions are accounted for.
- The bank has zero interest in you defaulting on the loan; they'd much rather have your cash than a house they can't easily liquidate, especially since garnishing a third of a paycheck from someone who might pick up under-the-table work any day is a losing game for them.
==> Go negotiate with the bank directly. Offer them a deal where you pay half your paycheck for the next year. Make it clear that their alternative is settling for a one-third wage garnishment and trying to sell a house in this market. They will take that deal every single time.

1) It’s not some math error or a lack of foresight,
it was just a series of unfortunate events that landed me here.
I agree, the child shouldn't suffer; they have rights to that support, and that's how it's going to stay...
2) As for the condo in California... I'd probably rent it out for $833..and head back to the Midwest.
I've already looked into it, and I had enough serious interest to know it's doable.
3) I'm with you on this one.
4) I really hope this advice is accurate; that's what I'm banking on.
I currently have an automatic recurring payment set up through Chase for the mortgage installments.
How on earth do I cancel that if the bank refuses to play ball with my proposal? ????

Kimberly Nguyen said:So, did you actually make it down to the bank?

Not yet... I'm currently out in the Midwest, trying my hand at this whole diet thing, which—let me tell you—is an absolute nightmare.
My apartment is back in California, though.
I'm planning to head over to Chase after I wrap things up here...
Do you have any advice for me???
Like, what should I actually say, what should I demand, or what should I suggest to them?

Look, you definitely need to get down to the bank—and I don't mean just talking to some random teller or someone sitting behind a desk. You need to ask specifically for a manager. Sit them down, lay out the whole mess, explain exactly what's going on with your finances. There might be a way to stretch out the repayment term... honestly, if you could shave even fifty or a hundred bucks off that monthly payment right now, given how crazy things are, it would be a total lifesaver. And for heaven's sake, make sure you grill them about the refinancing fees!!!

To me, this sounds like the absolute best move you can make. It feels like the only real way out of this hole.
First thing I'm doing is heading straight to Zillow to find a manager and lay my cards on the table..
How should I carry myself when I walk in there? What kind of reaction am I actually going to get??
Refinancing...????

slyrider16 said:Look, you can always find a side hustle on top of your main 40-hour grind. Sure, if nobody’s buying what you’re selling, you’ll probably end up doing some mindless grunt work for peanuts, but hey, even peanuts help... If you can pull in an extra $333 a month on top of the day job (which is always possible, even if your boss is a total slave driver), you're winning. Plus, when you're pulling 60-80 hour weeks, you won't have much time to blow cash anyway, so maybe you'll even save a little. And yeah, I'm totally with you on talking to the ex about child support...

making an extra $333 a month...on top of everything
but my expenses are still outstripping what I'm bringing in...

Rachel Doyle2 said:First off, I think it’s insane that you took out a loan where the payments eat up basically your entire paycheck...
You must have really thought through this mess you've landed yourself in, right? Honestly, your best bet would be to try and sell the house.
Just wipe out that debt now, because once a bank forecloses on you, you're done—you'll never get another loan again.
As for the child support, just be straight with your ex about how much of a disaster you're in. You never know, maybe
you'll actually get some help from the last person you'd expect.
Good luck.

God... looking back, it really does feel like I just dove headfirst into this without using a single ounce of common sense or brainpower... I am absolutely drowning in debt here...
but back when things were happening 2.5 years ago, everything seemed so perfect:
-I was with my girlfriend, we both had steady jobs, two incomes coming in, and my company even covered all my travel expenses...
-I didn't have any child support payments to worry about
But today:
after a series of unfortunate events and just plain bad luck
I can barely make ends meet at the end of the month..

"your best bet is probably trying to sell the house"
It isn't even a house, it's just a 750 sq ft apartment, and honestly, I'd rather try to rent it out before I even think about selling...

"just be straight with your "ex" about how much of a disaster you're in—you never know, maybe
you'll get help from the last person you'd ever expect...."

The "ex" is constantly breathing down my neck because I struggle so much every single month just to scrape together the support payment, and she actually suggested one day that instead of paying the exact amount the court ordered, which is $307, I should just round it down to $317..
Forget about getting any sympathy or understanding from her; besides, this is for my kid, so it doesn't matter to me. I pay what's required, and I have no intention of stopping..

mistycrane19 said:mistycrane19, you signed the contract. You own this mess.
Find a lawyer, though I wouldn't hold my breath.

I definitely don't have the cash to drop on a lawyer...
I sold my car and basically gave up every luxury I owned, so now I'm commuting to work on a bicycle....

At least the environmentalists like me.😂

slyrider16 said:Besides the obvious idea of just cranking up the income—even if I have to pull 12-hour shifts, 6 days a week... there really isn't any other way out.

Hmm... another job...
I've tried that route before...
In this current recessionary mess, with people getting laid off left and right in this economy, I'm honestly just grateful to have even one steady gig... just to keep the bills from piling up...
And at my current workplace? There’s zero chance of getting paid overtime. It's all flat rate. So, there’s really no point in staying longer than eight hours...

wanderingjackal said:With certain banks, you can actually negotiate a one-year suspension on both principal and interest—provided you have the paperwork to prove your income has taken a hit.🤷

On Zillow?
I’ve actually been there already. I tried to settle things, but honestly? I only spoke to the clerk behind the counter, and let me tell you—that person couldn't have cared less. It was like talking to a brick wall; they just completely tuned out everything I was saying about my issues. Total waste of breath.
I definitely need to track down the branch manager over in DC and lay out this whole mess for him. I’ve got to get him up to speed on exactly what went wrong and just... hope for the best. Honestly, at this point, it feels like my only move left.

Kimberly Nguyen said:Look, you have to pay back your loans... honestly, it’s just naive to sit around hoping some "special" law is going to swoop in and save you. You can't run away from debt; it follows you everywhere. My advice? Get off the computer, drive down to your local Chase branch, ask to speak directly with the branch manager, and lay it all out on the table. Explain your situation clearly. They might be willing to extend your term to lower those monthly payments. If you keep hitting a wall like this, you're going to default, and trust me, banks—especially big ones like JP Morgan these days—don't want to deal with the headache of collections. It's in their best interest to work something out before everything goes south.

Yeah... I actually thought along those lines too... but that's exactly why I'm here asking for advice on what to do next... I know full well I can't keep this up much longer... things are getting seriously heavy.
Here's the breakdown:
I took out a 30-year mortgage.
I've only been paying it for 2 years.
At this stage, isn't there basically zero wiggle room to lower the payment by stretching out the years? Or is there??

Some people are talking about forbearance or loan moratoriums... what does that even mean in practice?? Is it actually a good thing or just a trap... from what I gather, you’re still stuck paying interest, you just aren't chipping away at the principal while you're in that "grace period."
And in my specific situation
monthly payment $1264
interest $1100
principal $167!!!! just $167.
After two years of playing by the rules, I've only managed to knock the principal down by $3333—which is basically what it takes to cover two whole payments.

Good afternoon.
I am looking for some reliable advice here.
When I first took out my mortgage, my income was significantly higher—honestly, the bank even factored in my average travel reimbursements when calculating everything. Back then, I didn't have any child support obligations to worry about.
Then things went south. The bank hiked up my interest rate, they cut my travel stipends due to the economic crisis, and now I'm hit with child support payments on top of it all. Now? Now I'm in this nightmare where the bank is basically vacuuming up my entire paycheck.

Mortgage payment $1264
Monthly take-home pay $1367
Child support $307
It is blindingly obvious that there is absolutely ZERO money left to actually live on.

My question is,,,
Is there any law or consumer protection regulation that prevents a bank from seizing an entire salary? Isn't there a rule that they have to leave at least one-third of my income for basic living expenses? Or does that even matter anymore? Is it just a case of "you signed the contract, so you're screwed"?

Is there anything at all I can do??