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What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 said:Here’s the book: http://avaxsearch.com/avaxhome_searc...ther&commit=Go

Honestly, though, Fink’s version is much better: http://avaxhome.ws/ebooks/science_bo...icalintro.html

(By the way, there's a ton of great stuff on this site)

So, I'm currently working my way through Žižek's book—specifically the section about reading together—and I wanted to pick your brain, autoicon: he mentions that Lacan claimed if a patient knows for a fact his wife is cheating on him, and he's feeling jealous, he shouldn't actually be "treated" for that jealousy. What's your take? Personally, I find that perspective pretty compelling, so it was a pleasant surprise to see someone like Lacan align with my own thinking 🙂. Of course, I'm not just swallowing this whole without question; I need to dig deeper into the reasoning behind it since the book only offers that single sentence and leaves it at that... autoicon, feel free to spin this off into its own thread 😉.

thanks for the booklet, we've got plenty to read now👍. I haven't gotten to Žižek's "on violence" 😢 yet, so it's hard to comment much—it's always tricky to pull things out of context with him. From what I know of his style, he's always throwing in these random examples to illustrate points that seem totally disconnected from the actual story. I can only weigh in on that whole possessiveness issue from my own perspective. It feels like it ties back to that symbiosis where you just can't peel yourself away from a partner—that connection is always rooted in the psychological. I think anyone is capable of sensing they're being cheated on; the real problem hits when it becomes public knowledge—when everyone else knows (even if the person subconsciously knew all along). To me, it seems like connecting that to the illusion of freedom we live in—where an open admission of infidelity shatters that illusion—is key. I think even Žižek wrote about how much we enjoy living within those prohibitions, all while clinging to that illusion of freedom...
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
mistyscout2 said:Your philosophy subforum is officially open, and honestly, I couldn't be happier to jump in and start a thread there. It feels like the right move, especially since you've already shown yourself to be such a decent person to talk to—someone who actually knows their way around the subject and has a solid handle on their own side of the story. 🙂

Well, thanks for the invite. I always appreciate being called in, even if I do have a habit of struggling to fit into established structures—you definitely caught me off guard with this one.🙂.
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 said:Well then, go ahead and start it. We can pick up our conversation about the hysterical position over there... you've piqued my interest. (And let me know when you do, drop a link please).

As for this space, we can keep digging into the simulacrum... and the brain. 🙂 If everything is a simulacrum, how exactly do chemical molecules influence it? A little mushrooms, or peyote, or LSD, and suddenly syntax goes out the window at 3 PM. 😁 It might become something entirely different, among other things... (and what exactly happens to jouissance in that moment? 😂)

Agreed on the topic. Simulation—as the third stage of the simulacra—is distinct because it doesn't bother copying reality. In the first two stages, the imaginary gets closer and closer to the real, but in the third, that distinction collapses. According to Baudrillard, the real and the imaginary implode into a sphere of hyperreality. For him, hyperreality is that which has always been reproduced... It’s a simulation that kills off any sense of reference. I find this theory crucial specifically when looking at female representation—how women are perceived today...

Regarding drugs, I think they're just stimulants. There are plenty of examples around us showing that we are perfectly capable of triggering those reactions ourselves—opening up dimensions that feel imaginarily taboo. Take a psychotic subject, for instance; a schizophrenic person might behave or feel exactly like someone on a trip. Severe psychosis is basically like a bad trip, except the person can't snap out of it just by stopping the drug. I remember an example from a character study book—some guy locked himself in a freezer all night and, predictably, froze to death; they found him the next morning. The catch was that the freezer wasn't even plugged in... His body essentially reacted to a fiction with full physical symptoms. Definitely interesting...
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 Asks:
Here’s a few notes I pulled from Bruce Fink’s *A Clinical Introduction to Lacanian Psychoanalysis*. This isn't some formal translation—just my own shorthand. Honestly, theory only starts making sense once you see it applied in real life, which is exactly why this book is such a lifesaver. 🙂 It’s a hell of a lot better than the last one.

So, here it is:

Opinion is purely imaginary—that’s what Jacques Lacan argues—because it's tied directly to the image we hold of ourselves. It’s why when someone speaks, they end up revealing way more than they actually intended. The unconscious meaning slips right past them, making their own words betray them.

There’s a massive gap between simple pleasure and *jouissance*. Take a kid sucking their thumb—at first, it’s just pure, uncomplicated pleasure. But then things shift. You introduce rules, prohibitions, permission, or even people making jokes about it. Suddenly, it isn't just a private sensation anymore; it becomes socialized, tangled up with the surrounding subjects, and that's when it crosses over into *jouissance*.

The Big Other—with a capital B—is a perfect example of how we sabotage ourselves. Sometimes, if you had a rough time growingup with your parents, you develop this reflex to reject everything they stand for. It’s that classic "I’d rather die than give them the satisfaction of getting their way" mentality. But here’s where it gets messy: what if what they actually want for you is genuinely good? That’s the trap. If you can't learn to separate your own interests from that knee-jerk resentment toward your parents, you stay stuck. You end up fighting ghosts instead of making actual progress. Real freedom comes when you stop reacting to an external image and start doing what actually makes sense for you. And look, it isn't just about parents. This pattern repeats with anyone who holds weight in your life—teachers, mentors, religious institutions, even the broader culture or the government at large. People are incredibly talented at inventing a million different excuses to justify their defiance, all while remaining completely oblivious to the fact that they're just acting out a script written by old grudges.
What kind of relationship can someone actually have with the Other? Look, the Other isn't just some person—it’s that entire web of rules and social expectations that governs your family and society at large (usually referred to as the Law). But there's a catch—it's also that idealized standard we feel forced to chase. The Other doesn't just watch you strive for perfection; it actually imposes the desire itself. That drive to reach an impossible ideal? It's baked right into the structure of the Other.
A person might push back against one specific part of the Other—say, their parents—or they might just take a generally rebellious stance toward everything. Then you have people who compulsively follow every single command the Other gives, effectively having no sense of self at all. Some people deal with the Other by retreating entirely into themselves. You also see those who look indifferent on the surface, yet they still submit by refusing to actively engage or fulfill any demands. There are those who break the rules in secret, almost hoping they’ll finally get caught. Or someone might want to start a family, but because of deep-seated anxiety, they just keep putting it off indefinitely. Someone else might dive headfirst into career paths that are practically guaranteed to fail. This is why, in analysis, you constantly hear the same thing: "My desires aren't even my own!"
Analysis has to focus on what we call symbolic relations. Jacques Lacan breaks this down into two distinct categories: the Symbolic and the Imaginary. The Symbolic deals with the unconscious and the Other, while the Imaginary is all about the ego—that specific image a person holds of themselves. The whole point of analysis is to dissolve those imaginary attachments people cling to. You want to shift that focus toward the symbolic connections instead. That’s where you actually start understanding yourself and why you do what you do. Take a guy who’s constantly at odds with his brother—on the surface, it looks like sibling rivalry, but underneath, it’s usually about the parental Other. It’s about how the parents treated him differently than his brother. Or look at a same-sex relationship between two peers; often, there’s an underlying dynamic tied back to an old teacher from years ago. The analyst needs to be perceived through the symbolic order—the only thing that actually provides healing, according to Lacan. If the patient starts seeing the analyst through an imaginary lens, you run straight into rivalry and other useless complications.
The little "d" version is just someone similar to us, whereas the Big D version is an entity or institution that holds symbolic power—think things like setting the laws, enforcing prohibitions, or pushing certain ideals onto society.

That’s all for now. I'll circle back to that whole "hysteric's position" thing later..

Super simple explanation. If you laid it out like that, I'd definitely be on board with the interpretation.
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 said:@Brandon Wright54: Do you happen to know anyone who tackles all of this while actually acknowledging the biological side of things? I mean, we can't just view the psyche in total isolation from the brain itself. When you look at psychosis or other disorders, the neurological changes are objectively there. Every single disorder is essentially a cocktail of purely psychological factors and biological ones working in tandem. An integrated theory would offer a much better explanation for how this works, wouldn't it?

Hmm, it's hard to give you much on that since I personally subscribe to the idea that everything is a simulacrum 🙂. That's why I'm drawn to performative practices and Judith Butler—she argues that even biological sex is a construct. When a symptom manifests physically, it’s essentially killing off one type of simulation (sort of like a third step moving from the symbolic order toward consumer society), and "killing" only simulates actual disease. I don't view the psyche as some field detached from the body, but I definitely don't buy into the Cartesian subject idea—that soul is just content filling up a body like a container.

Maybe the two of us could start a thread focused on women's issues, seeing as there aren't many of those floating around here.🙂
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 said:"Enjoy your symptom"—god, that sounds beautiful 😁 when you consider the sheer pressure to conform to some standard of "normalcy." I mean, how much does it actually matter to a person when they finally manage to accept themselves as they are (even if they have to deal with the fallout later)? That first step alone is everything. There’s also that saying: "Resistance is what burns you out, not the feelings" 😁 (I can't even remember who said that 🙂)
Alright, I'll dive into Beauvoir and Irigaray, but I need to brush up on Lacan first. I really need to wrap my head around what you mean by the "hysterical position" and "the Other" (maybe I'll post my thoughts here; someone might find it useful). Anyway, it's great to have such a sharp conversationalist to talk to—especially one willing to explain things to me.🙂

As for those symbolic authorities you're bringing up, I saw right through them ages ago. Honestly, you don't even need to be an expert on Lacan to grasp that part of the game 🙂

But there’s something else that’s been bugging me lately... specifically what you wrote here:

It feels a bit fuzzy to me when Luce Irigaray argues for the creation of a female symbolic representation. I find the potential of the subject's hysterical position more compelling, mostly because it seems to shatter that whole binary setup—male vs. female, culture vs. nature, day vs. night...

How can you ever really feel certain about your own stance? It drives me crazy how everything is pathologized these days. You explain the causes behind something, thinking you've nailed the theory, only for someone else to swoop in with a "better" framework and crown themselves the new ultimate authority. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about you personally, just this general phenomenon where new theories pop up constantly and it never ends... or will it? Maybe by 2012? 😂 Just kidding, obviously...

And I should probably mention, there are definitely better books out there than the one I'm currently stuck with. I have this annoying compulsion to finish every book I start, god help me 🙂, but if you want, I can email it to you—just shoot me a DM. At first glance, it's written for beginners like me, but it leaves so much unsaid. Maybe experts can squeeze more meaning out of it, who knows...

Exactly. What does "normal" even mean? It’s just acting in alignment with a set of arbitrary rules we don't actually understand—we just submit to them because why not. All these models defining what’s normal versus what’s abnormal—the way Lacan puts it—are just constructs of language, not some inherent part of who we are. So you end up with some idiot who can't even wipe his own nose properly, yet because he knows how to perform his gendered role perfectly, he gets labeled as totally normal.

Jacob Newman77 said:"Enjoy your symptom"—god, that sounds beautiful 😁 when you consider the sheer pressure to conform to some standard of "normalcy." I mean, how much does it actually matter to a person when they finally manage to accept themselves as they are (even if they have to deal with the fallout later)? That first step alone is everything. There’s also that saying: "Resistance is what burns you out, not the feelings" 😁 (I can't even remember who said that 🙂)
Alright, I'll dive into Beauvoir and Irigaray, but I need to brush up on Lacan first. I really need to wrap my head around what you mean by the "hysterical position" and "the Other" (maybe I'll post my thoughts here; someone might find it useful). Anyway, it's great to have such a sharp conversationalist to talk to—especially one willing to explain things to me.🙂

As for those symbolic authorities you're bringing up, I saw right through them ages ago. Honestly, you don't even need to be an expert on Lacan to grasp that part of the game 🙂

But there’s something else that’s been bugging me lately... specifically what you wrote here:

It feels a bit fuzzy to me when Luce Irigaray argues for the creation of a female symbolic representation. I find the potential of the subject's hysterical position more compelling, mostly because it seems to shatter that whole binary setup—male vs. female, culture vs. nature, day vs. night...

How can you ever really feel certain about your own stance? It drives me crazy how everything is pathologized these days. You explain the causes behind something, thinking you've nailed the theory, only for someone else to swoop in with a "better" framework and crown themselves the new ultimate authority. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about you personally, just this general phenomenon where new theories pop up constantly and it never ends... or will it? Maybe by 2012? 😂 Just kidding, obviously...

And I should probably mention, there are definitely better books out there than the one I'm currently stuck with. I have this annoying compulsion to finish every book I start, god help me 🙂, but if you want, I can email it to you—just shoot me a DM. At first glance, it's written for beginners like me, but it leaves so much unsaid. Maybe experts can squeeze more meaning out of it, who knows...

That’s exactly why I dove into this field in the first place. Even as a kid, I could see through the whole charade of authority—that hollow sense of legitimacy they peddle. We're all vulnerable to that kind of influence, mostly because the system isn't just some external force; it's baked right into us. At the end of the day, it's a question of the psychological subject.

Jacob Newman77 said:"Enjoy your symptom"—god, that sounds beautiful 😁 when you consider the sheer pressure to conform to some standard of "normalcy." I mean, how much does it actually matter to a person when they finally manage to accept themselves as they are (even if they have to deal with the fallout later)? That first step alone is everything. There’s also that saying: "Resistance is what burns you out, not the feelings" 😁 (I can't even remember who said that 🙂)
Alright, I'll dive into Beauvoir and Irigaray, but I need to brush up on Lacan first. I really need to wrap my head around what you mean by the "hysterical position" and "the Other" (maybe I'll post my thoughts here; someone might find it useful). Anyway, it's great to have such a sharp conversationalist to talk to—especially one willing to explain things to me.🙂

As for those symbolic authorities you're bringing up, I saw right through them ages ago. Honestly, you don't even need to be an expert on Lacan to grasp that part of the game 🙂

But there’s something else that’s been bugging me lately... specifically what you wrote here:

It feels a bit fuzzy to me when Luce Irigaray argues for the creation of a female symbolic representation. I find the potential of the subject's hysterical position more compelling, mostly because it seems to shatter that whole binary setup—male vs. female, culture vs. nature, day vs. night...

How can you ever really feel certain about your own stance? It drives me crazy how everything is pathologized these days. You explain the causes behind something, thinking you've nailed the theory, only for someone else to swoop in with a "better" framework and crown themselves the new ultimate authority. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about you personally, just this general phenomenon where new theories pop up constantly and it never ends... or will it? Maybe by 2012? 😂 Just kidding, obviously...

And I should probably mention, there are definitely better books out there than the one I'm currently stuck with. I have this annoying compulsion to finish every book I start, god help me 🙂, but if you want, I can email it to you—just shoot me a DM. At first glance, it's written for beginners like me, but it leaves so much unsaid. Maybe experts can squeeze more meaning out of it, who knows...

I'm not sure where I stand on this, but honestly—that’s the whole charm of it 🙂. Nobody should be certain. Sure, some frameworks exist, but that’s why postmodernism is actually useful—it’s basically just finding new ways to read what’s already been written. It’s like how you’re never a finished product as a person; you’re constantly shifting, and that’s the entire point. This process of identity is never "done." You move from one position to another, which gives you the flexibility to pivot. Take someone who stubbornly clings to a single perspective—try convincing them otherwise. They won't budge, and they’ll probably just double down with those massive defense mechanisms to protect their ego. It's pure fear of losing ground. I don't know how much you follow the art scene (I work within those circles myself), but take Cindy Sherman, for example. She captures this perfectly. By masking herself in countless different female personas, she highlights that total fluidity of identity.

Jacob Newman77 said:"Enjoy your symptom"—god, that sounds beautiful 😁 when you consider the sheer pressure to conform to some standard of "normalcy." I mean, how much does it actually matter to a person when they finally manage to accept themselves as they are (even if they have to deal with the fallout later)? That first step alone is everything. There’s also that saying: "Resistance is what burns you out, not the feelings" 😁 (I can't even remember who said that 🙂)
Alright, I'll dive into Beauvoir and Irigaray, but I need to brush up on Lacan first. I really need to wrap my head around what you mean by the "hysterical position" and "the Other" (maybe I'll post my thoughts here; someone might find it useful). Anyway, it's great to have such a sharp conversationalist to talk to—especially one willing to explain things to me.🙂

As for those symbolic authorities you're bringing up, I saw right through them ages ago. Honestly, you don't even need to be an expert on Lacan to grasp that part of the game 🙂

But there’s something else that’s been bugging me lately... specifically what you wrote here:

It feels a bit fuzzy to me when Luce Irigaray argues for the creation of a female symbolic representation. I find the potential of the subject's hysterical position more compelling, mostly because it seems to shatter that whole binary setup—male vs. female, culture vs. nature, day vs. night...

How can you ever really feel certain about your own stance? It drives me crazy how everything is pathologized these days. You explain the causes behind something, thinking you've nailed the theory, only for someone else to swoop in with a "better" framework and crown themselves the new ultimate authority. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about you personally, just this general phenomenon where new theories pop up constantly and it never ends... or will it? Maybe by 2012? 😂 Just kidding, obviously...

And I should probably mention, there are definitely better books out there than the one I'm currently stuck with. I have this annoying compulsion to finish every book I start, god help me 🙂, but if you want, I can email it to you—just shoot me a DM. At first glance, it's written for beginners like me, but it leaves so much unsaid. Maybe experts can squeeze more meaning out of it, who knows...

Thanks for the book offer, 🙂. I’d recommend checking out Lacan’s Writings; I borrowed a copy from the university library, so they should definitely have it in stock. It’s well-written, and I'm sure we'll have plenty to argue about once you dive in. 🙂
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Jacob Newman77 said:I’m actually pretty deep into all this gender theory stuff myself, which is why I feel like I need to grind through Lacan before I can even tackle feminism properly. Thanks for posting about this, 🙂 I was just talking to my boyfriend yesterday about how much of feminist theory was basically forged in direct conflict with Lacan—it’s a fascinating lineage to trace. Right now, I’m wading through Romulo Lander’s *Subjective Experience and the Logic of The Other*, and he treats the bisexual position as something pathological. But why? Why should it be? Why can't it just be another variation of sexuality? And honestly, what does "pathological" even mean in a modern context? Is it just the sheer amount of pain the subject feels? Or just deviating too far from some arbitrary social norm? To be blunt, the book isn't great. There are much better texts out there. I’m itching to get to some more contemporary authors; even though this was published in 2006, it clings to Lacan so heavily—and not even particularly successfully, if you ask me—that it feels like a relic from the sixties.

Regarding the distinction between masochism and jouissance, I tried translating a section from that book that tackles the difference... But honestly, you can boil what’s written down to this: masochism is driven by an underlying sense of guilt. Masochistic behavior acts as a sort of remedy for that guilt, allowing the individual to experience sexual pleasure despite the internal friction caused by feeling guilty. In the case of jouissance, however, you can't simply use analysis to pin down whether guilt exists in the unconscious. At the end of the process, the person just learns to live with it (unlike that manageable sense of guilt, where one might break free from masochistic compulsions) and functions better on various levels. Jouissance is baked into the personality structure; it’s constant, and its job is to maintain psychic equilibrium. (I don't quite grasp the "how" or "why" yet—autoicon, any thoughts on the autoicon?)

It sounds incredibly bleak, suggesting that *everyone* is burdened by this cursed jouissance, that it’s just part of being human. But when you look at the people around you—and even look inward—it seems like an inescapable reality...

And just to add a bit more on the split between pleasure and jouissance... Pleasure reduces tension and drains energy from the system, whereas jouissance builds it up. Pleasure is fleeting; it happens and then it’s gone. Jouissance, on the other hand, is always there.

autoicon, you say:
Take theorist Luce Irigaray, for example. She argues that all these theories are merely products of the patriarchal system and claims we need to construct a symbolic representation for women. Personally, I disagree with her. I’d argue it’s impossible to "construct" symbolization; rather, symbolization is what constructs us. Such a "liberation" would essentially be a psychotic break from the symbolic order.

Wait, how is it that we can't build symbolization? Aren't we building it constantly? I mean, aren't revolutions just instances of that fundamental process happening at high speed? And what exactly makes that "psychotic"?

Honestly, it’s a relief to stumble upon someone else who actually gives a damn about this stuff. 🙂I haven't gotten around to that book you mentioned yet—it's still sitting on my nightstand. Let me know if it's actually worth the time once you finish it.

When it comes to the whole heterosexual framework, Simone de Beauvoir is my go-to—you probably know her for that line about how a woman isn't born, she becomes one. Give her some reading time; you'll find it pretty gripping.

When it comes to *jouissance*, I think we’re all carrying it around inside us—it's that core fracture where a subject actually begins to define itself. That split is essentially the Oedipus complex, our very first point of identification. It proves that sexuality isn't some pre-set, fixed blueprint; the whole idea of a "heterosexual matrix" is far from destiny. In reality, gender and orientation are shaped by the choices we make during that initial process of identification.

Regarding that idea about Jouissance helping maintain a subject's psychic balance—I’ve always viewed it through the lens of how symptoms actually function. You know Lacan’s whole "enjoy your symptom" bit? I think that's the core of it. A subject uses their symptom to hold their ground within the symbolic order. As much as those symptoms are a total nightmare to live through, they’re—in a weird way—absolutely necessary.

That whole approach basically lays out the groundwork for tearing down that patriarchal system. It’s why the role of the hysterical subject—and other marginalized groups, mostly women—is so vital. These subjects aren't willing to just act as a mouthpiece for symbolic authority. Look at all the idiots you see strutting around with their fancy titles, luxury SUVs, or whatever status symbols they use to flex power and suppress others—once you strip away those props, what’s actually left of them? Nothing. It’s the same deal when you expose the phallus. *Jouissance* exposes the lie of fixed subject positions because we always end up circling back to that primal desire buried in the unconscious—the one that can never truly be satisfied. According to Lacan, anything that slips through the cracks of symbolization becomes that traumatic "Real." That's essentially the hysterical position. But it isn't absolute; hysterics still exist within the symbolic order, which gives them a way to resist the demands of the Other. Psychosis, on the other hand, is a total break from that order entirely. In Lacanian terms, the symbolic order is already established, and we emerge through it—not the other way around. The structure is just a single signifier stepping in to take the subject's place in service of the Other. I find Luce Irigaray’s argument about creating a female symbolic representation a bit fuzzy—I’m more drawn to the potential of the hysterical position. To me, it feels like it actually breaks that binary setup—male vs. female, culture vs. nature, day vs. night...

Honestly, I’ve never been a fan of the term "feminism." It feels too restrictive, like it's trying to box everyone into a specific group again—even if you could technically categorize these theories under a post-feminist umbrella.
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Regarding that whole Lacan statement about how the >—I don't think people are getting it quite right. When Lacan claims the woman doesn't exist, he isn't saying there's no such thing as a real female being; he means there is no specific signifier for her within the system. To actually function as a woman, she’s forced to identify through that privileged signifier—the phallus. These are the two subject positions Lacan mapped out so well, though frankly, most people forget he basically lifted the theory from the psychoanalyst Joan Rivier. Those two positions involve being the phallus or having the phallus. Consequently, femininity lacks the possibility of same-sex identification. To secure a spot within the system, a woman has two options: she either adopts that symbolic authority (which is why we see the simplified idea of women taking on "male" roles), or she exists as the negative counterpart to the first. Take a theorist like Luce Irigaray—she argues all these theories are just products of a patriarchal system and insists we need to build a new symbolic representation for women. Personally, I'm not buying it. You can't build symbolism; symbolism builds us. Trying to force that kind of liberation would be nothing more than a psychotic break from the symbolic order itself.

The concept of being the phallus for another is brilliantly deconstructed by Elizabeth Cowie, who was actually the first to point out the flaws in Freud's logic. Her work effectively dismantled that Freudian biological determinism. She shows that the shift from mother to father in the Oedipal complex isn't actually driven by recognizing anatomical differences, despite what Freud claimed. His take was that the feminine replaces the primary object of desire because the child blames the mother for lacking the "correct" genitalia. But Elizabeth Cowie demonstrates that the real driver is desire—specifically, the desire to "be the mother's desire." The shift happens because the subject seeks from the father what would fill that perceived void in the mother.

In short, this specific formulation is exactly why I started digging into Lacan. While Žižek keeps circling back to Lacan primarily to deal with the political subject, I'm much more interested in his theory when applied to the gendered context.
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
Regarding masochism and *jouissance*—I think even Žižek touches on that distinction in his book *On Belief*. Masochism falls under the umbrella of perversion, which is worlds apart from the hysterical position. According to Lacan, a hysteric is someone who spots the flaw in the Other and refuses to play along—they sense the lie and aren't willing to sacrifice themselves just to plug that void in the Other. Hosterik doesn't accept that kind of castration; they won't serve the Other's needs. A pervert (masochists included) or a psychotic, however, will happily step into the role of the victim to try and fill that gap in the Other. The victim's delusion is believing they actually possess what’s needed to fill that emptiness. That's where the hysteric's real edge lies—they know there's nothing left to sacrifice to satisfy the Other's lack.

It's interesting how the hysterical position is often used as a shorthand for feminine behavior. Even the word "hysteria" itself comes from the Greek for womb...
What is Jouissance? in Psychology ·
I think it’s a mistake to translate jouissance as just some excessive pleasure involving transgression, sex, or suffering. When analysts try to deconstruct such a heavy concept, they usually lean on two modules: first, an imaginary pre-linguistic phase—that sense of wholeness experienced purely through the body (the mirror stage)—and second, that impossible state where one tries to reclaim that physicality through fantasy. So, according to Lacan, pure jouissance is essentially a phantasmatic creation generated solely through language. On the flip side, the subject has this desperate urge to return to the old ways, back to that imaginary phase where they felt whole for the first time, but every single attempt fails. It’s that constant cycle of trying to go back and failing miserably that, per Lacan, constitutes actual jouissance. This jouissance acts as the killer operator between the two modules—the space where the traumatic Real and the Imaginary swap places simultaneously. It steps in to fill the void left by the original lack (that feeling of wholeness from the mirror stage that eventually gets repressed). The space occupied by this jouissance is objet a—a zone of loss that manifests as the embodiment of what was lost, and what *should* replace it, even if that original desire can't truly be restored, which is why it stays buried in the unconscious. Thus, the objet a becomes the object of desire, and other objects will step in to try and plug that hole where the original desire used to be. This jouissance represents the subject's inherent fragmentation, caught between a desire they can't fulfill and the demands of the Other, who responds to those desires only in a way that serves its own.

I focused a bit more here because, looking at your other thread, I noticed you really nailed that Lacanian vibe 🙂