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Megan Brooks11 As if I haven't heard this all before.
The issue is that she’s perpetually unhappy; no matter what I do, she finds something to complain about. It’s reached a point where I’ve just stopped talking to her altogether because I simply don't have the bandwidth for a constant stream of grievances and nitpicking. Honestly, I have enough of my own problems to deal with without having to shoulder hers every single day. 🙄

Am I supposed to be satisfied with her? Honestly, I don’t think that's even possible because she has an issue with absolutely everything. All I want is to get things done my way, but it’s always the same story—"no, you have to do it this way," "that’s not right," and before I know it, we’re mid-argument. I'm just completely over it.🙄😢

It might look like I’m the one to blame for her being so unhappy, but there isn't much actual ground I can stand on until I land a job—it's not like I'm just sitting around the house waiting for things to happen; quite the opposite, really.

She was already miserable long before I ever showed up; honestly, I think my presence just gave her an excuse to dial the drama up to eleven. It’s not like I’m exactly thrilled about being stuck with her either, so now I'm left wondering what my next move should even be. 🤷?
You’re going to need a top-tier psychologist to untangle that mess; honestly, I’m not even sure there's a quick fix. I've been studying psychology and buying up books on the subject for two years now, and even I'm stumped.

Even though the book claims:
Even the most miserable person usually has at least one little thing that keeps them going.
Maybe try actually proving yourself to her for once.
Just get moving and start doing something; if people start coming for you with their criticisms, just shut them down and move on.
Alright, hold on a second while I get this finished, then you can decide for yourself if it’s actually any good or not.
Just keep grinding until the end, even if she burns the whole house down.
Just make sure you actually know what you're doing first; if you screw this up, there's really no coming back from it.
Once you're finished, maybe ask her if she’s doing okay.
If you’re certain this is the right move, then she’ll be fine, and once she's actually satisfied, maybe she'll finally get the hint and cut back on all the constant criticism.

I honestly can't believe I actually figured out how to fix this. xD
How do you deal with someone who’s constantly nitpicking, complaining, and just perpetually unhappy?
The whole situation is 🙂
She stays dissatisfied, and you’re stuck playing detective trying to figure out exactly what she wants to please her.
The thing is, she doesn't actually tell you what's wrong; she just throws shade and finds fault with everything.
Your entire existence becomes a mission to pinpoint whatever minor detail isn't meeting her standards.
If she’s just looking for an excuse to cut you off from her Social Security checks, there's no fixing that—you might as well pack your bags and get out while you still can. 🙄