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Frank Cooper3 said:rowdyviper722: "By the way, people around here love to claim that having OCD means you've got all these dark, repressed secrets buried in your subconscious causing the friction. Honestly? That might just be a myth. There’s actual research suggesting OCD is tied to brain chemistry—like serotonin levels—which makes it feel much more like a physical ailment. It's basically just your brain glitching out."

I've read that intrusive thoughts (the obsessive part, mostly) tend to flare up during depressive episodes, specifically because of that serotonin connection...

It is absolutely linked to serotonin.

I was dealing with intrusive thoughts since I was a kid, maybe ten years old. That was my biggest struggle. I also had various tics, which, you know, falls under the whole OCD umbrella.

Does anyone else here deal with what you'd call "superstitious beliefs"?

Gerald Clark2 said:Yeah, compulsions and intrusive thoughts stem from some deep-seated conflict that hasn't hit your conscious mind yet. You might grasp a piece of the puzzle, sure, but there’s always that hidden layer lurking beneath the surface.
Atlanta, look, if you’re assuming your issues are popping up because you can't face one specific thing—I mean, maybe that's true, or maybe your situation is just different, or maybe that issue is just triggering a current crisis—I’d suggest you actually "look" at the problem. Maybe you won't find an immediate fix, but just face it. Accept that it exists instead of turning your head away. That’s how you take the driver's seat, rather than letting the problem drive you.
If things don't improve after that, then at least you'll know the roots go deeper. Then you aren't just guessing; you actually know where you stand and can start hunting for the real solution.
Just my two cents, anyway.
Honestly, I'm just so incredibly relieved that I've recovered (mostly)—you have no idea how much! (((;
Feel free to ask anything else if you're curious. Best,

Really solid post here.😬

Look, I deal with OCD too. I'm pretty inhibited since I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 24. I just can't shake these damn inhibitions... I don't have the guts to talk to a girl even though I want a relationship more than anything.

I got rejected a few times, and now I've built up this mental image that I'm just not good enough to have a girlfriend, like I don't deserve it or something... I used to have phases of cleaning and hand-washing, but over time, that morphed into a whole different level.

OCD shifts over time. For example, someone who started out with hand-washing might end up compulsively gambling, hanging out in chat rooms, scrolling this forum, stuff like that.

circles said:So, I think the title pretty much covers it.
Has anyone else (unluckily) dealt with this issue, and how do you actually manage it? I’m not talking about those rare, one-off episodes that pop up once in a blue moon. I mean the kind of disorder that's just... there. Every single day. A constant, fundamental part of your existence.
In my case, it’s specifically this obsessive hand-washing thing.

You realize there's OCPD, right? Not just OCD?

There’s a massive difference. One is Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, and the other is just standard OCD.

There's this solid book called Brain Lock by Jeffrey M. Schwartz—it would be great if you could just grab a copy here in the US and give it a read.

There isn't really a "fix" for OCD; it’s more like a state of mind. The more you fight it, the worse it can get. You really have to get to know the disorder, wrap your head around it, and learn how to live alongside it just to "beat" it.

BTW, what would happen if you just... didn't wash your hands the way you usually do?
I'm guessing you feel this intense, overwhelming internal urge to do it, and you just can't say no. Like it's just pulling you along?

You've got it easy compared to some people who ritualistically scrub their entire house down to the floorboards, but hey, I don't want to give you any new ideas.😁

It's a bit like dyslexia. Only, I am 100% certain that dyslexia is a state of mind. There is no point in fighting it. Even Einstein was dyslexic; that's exactly what made him who he was! But anyway, that's a whole different rabbit hole.🙂