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Marilyn Monroe says:
So, we were just hanging out one night watching a movie together... and honestly? He actually liked the film he picked way more than he liked me!
Seriously, this is just wild! Just dump him already!
crimsongull20 said:What's your addiction? 🙂
My addiction?! Honestly, I’m sitting here right now trying to actually pin down what my vices are, and I am drawing a total blank on anything that would involve me actually ignoring the people around me! Like, seriously, nothing comes to mind!
I'm really out here trying to be the voice of reason—First Things First!
I honestly can’t wrap my head around how some people can look at all of this and claim it’s just being dramatic or that there isn't even a real issue here. If things weren't actually hitting a breaking point, you wouldn't see this thread blowing up like this, right?
Most folks seem to think the core issue is just bad communication, but I really don't buy that. It's not. If people were actually honest with one another about what they were thinking, things would stop right there. Instead, everyone just retreats to their own little corner because nobody wants to be the one to actually take a step forward. I know, because I've lived it. It’s not even that I want someone to completely scrub those sites from existence, but rather that the habit should taper off—you know, maybe instead of scrolling through everything first thing in the morning, you actually get out of bed before checking the latest updates! Is that even asking too much!? Seriously, I'm a grown adult in my thirties! And the weekends are the exact same story... wake up, check the feed... end of the day... and I find myself wondering, how long can this go on? Will it ever change!? Because then you hear people saying everything is perfectly fine as long as they enjoy watching it, but honestly, isn't it kind of absurd if your entire day feels empty unless it's filled with that kind of content? I don't know. I truly have no clue. Should I just stay quiet? Suck it up? Play dumb? Act blind and deaf? Just ignore it all and live my life? And eventually just drift away... because to me, this whole situation just makes zero sense. Where does it all end, goodness gracious... 🙂