Is life actually easier if you're good-looking?
in Psychology ·
I have a bit of a personal story to share. I used to be unattractive—and I mean that objectively. Fifteen years ago, my teeth were a complete mess and I was carrying an extra twenty pounds. I eventually got my teeth straightened and lost the weight, and it turns out there was actually a pretty girl hiding behind all that. But here’s the thing: I still feel ugly. Even though it’s obvious when I look in the mirror that isn't true anymore, I’m still stuck in that old mindset. The result? I can't really make much of this new look. My love life isn't where I want it to be, my confidence is lacking, and so on. I definitely agree with the theory that life is easier for attractive people, but they actually have to realize they're attractive and carry themselves with confidence. Just being pretty isn't enough on its own...