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I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how we value players who have spent the better part of a decade grinding in the shadows. We see these massive, flashy headlines every summer—the kind that claim certain players are about to "explode" or that their value is skyrocketing because they’re finally getting a real shot at a starting role. It’s a pattern I see all the time, whether it’s in professional sports, the corporate ladder, or even just navigating a career in a niche industry.

There’s this romanticized idea that a change in environment or a sudden bump in responsibility is the magic key that unlocks a person's true potential. We love a good "overnight success" story, even when that person has actually been working in the trenches for eight years. It feels like the media loves to package these narratives to create excitement for the upcoming season or cycle, framing a veteran's increased workload as this sudden, dramatic surge in "stock."

But I have to wonder: is it actually a surge, or is it just a correction?

If you look at a lot of the guys who have been reliable bench pieces or "glue players" for years, they’ve already proven they have the skill. They’ve done the work. They’ve handled the pressure of being the guy who comes off the bench to stabilize a situation. To me, calling them "risers" feels a bit disingenuous. It feels like we're treating them as if they were invisible until this specific moment, ignoring the years of consistent, solid performance that actually made them worthy of this new opportunity in the first place.

In my own life, I’ve seen this happen in my previous jobs. You’d have a colleague who was the backbone of the department for years—the person everyone went to when things broke, the one who quietly kept the wheels turning. Then, suddenly, they get a title change or a move to a different department, and suddenly everyone is acting like they’re a superstar. The "hype" is massive, but the actual talent was there all along. It’s less about the person growing and more about the perception shifting once they aren't tucked away in a supporting role anymore.

Then there’s the "what if" aspect. Does the pressure of being a primary option actually help these seasoned veterans, or does it break them? We’ve seen plenty of players—and professionals—who were incredibly efficient in a limited capacity, only to see their effectiveness plummet once they are asked to carry a much heavier load. When you go from being the guy who provides a spark to the guy who has to manage the whole flow, the margin for error disappears. The "stock" might go up on paper, but the actual impact can be much more volatile.

I'm curious to hear what you all think about this phenomenon. When we see these sudden "surges" in value for players (or even professionals) who have been around the block for a long time, do you view it as a legitimate breakout, or is it just the inevitable result of a long-overdue promotion? Does a change in scenery actually change a person's ceiling, or does it just expose how much they were actually holding things together before?
Who did you guys order the desserts from for the banquet? I wouldn't mind paying a bit extra right now if they actually taste good.
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Seriously, what are you guys planning to do about your hair for the party? Come on, post some pictures already...🎉🎉🎉
Does anyone know the cheapest way to get invitations printed?? I want to write the text myself, buy my own cardstock, and handle the cutting—I just need someone to run the print job for me.
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Does anyone know how to get good shots of Solin ???
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Man, it’ll probably turn out fine—anyway, we aren't even paying him until Monday after the game🤣🤣🤣
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Some guy told me yesterday that the food at the Phoenix spot in Naperville is absolutely terrible—I can't even deal with that.😲😲😲 ,
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If you want the real vibe for San Diego, check out "Weddings in California"—it's much better. And honestly, Las Vegas would fit right in there too. People from Chicago just expect their travel and hotels to be covered, so now I'm really questioning if it's even worth the hassle

...08/29/2009...
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rapidmason10 said:For invitation paper, you're probably best off checking out that shop near the traffic light, or maybe there's a craft store over in the suburbs... It really just depends on the vibe you're going for. Whether you want something super minimal or fancy with tons of detail...

I actually thought about making my own invites at first, but then I totally chickened out... but hey, if you've got the passion and the vision, why not go for it?

That's awesome news about studio in...👍 you're gonna love it, just wait and see! 😍

And man, if you end up booking the same band again too... 😍


We already put down deposits for studio in evo and Barbara yeahhhh 😁

August 29, 2009...
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rapidmason10 said:Fingers crossed everything works out! Look, all the top-tier bands charge a premium... personally, I don't mind dropping some cash if it means the band actually kills it at the party
As for those random people you find on Craigslist? I don't even want to go there🤣

🤣🤣🤣 I'm heading over to studio in this afternoon. They told me they have August 29th open, so I'm going to go lock that in. Once that's settled, I can breathe easy for a few months. Does anyone know where I can pick up cardstock for invitations and all that other stuff? I'm planning on making them myself.😕
rapidmason10 said:I actually added a fourth member—an extra guitarist—so my total is $1,500 ($200 more than their trio price). For just the three of them, it's $1,300. 👍
Everyone hiked up their rates for 2025, just like Raymond Brooks7 was saying...


I basically gave them an earful and told them they needed to reconsider. I’m meeting with them this Friday, so please wish me luck 🙏. Honestly though, these prices for session musicians are insane—and we're even paying for their gear setup—it feels like a bit much. It’d probably be better to just find someone through Craigslist😍.
Look, I actually hired brava bend... they’re already booked up, but honestly, those guys are incredible.
I can definitely vouch for Studio in for photography—they're my top choice, and they'll be shooting my wedding too. Seriously, these guys are worth every penny and highly recommended... www.weddingstudioin.com

rapidmason10, what kind of rate are they giving you for the three of them? I called them up and they quoted me $1,300. I told her I was at a wedding just last month where they were only $1,000, but now she's claiming prices are going up for next year. I told her straight up—let's just sign the contract this year while we can still lock in the old rate.🤣🤣🤣
Man, I’ve got to get through this whole call list—and if anyone knows a solid makeup artist who travels to the area, let me know.😉
I’ll most likely be putting down the deposit for the "Sun Valley" hall tomorrow 🙏 I still need to lock in a band and a photographer—I checked out the Barbary trio and they seem solid—but does anyone have a photographer they’d recommend? I see everyone raving about Studio IN
Can someone give me the lowdown on the Sun restaurant in Dugopolj? I'm looking for details on the service, the food, etc. Also, if anyone can tell me about ExxonMobil in the area—maybe even share a photo...