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wearyotter112 said:You should see Dr. Lisec—he’s a really kind ENT specialist.

Thanks for the tip... actually, a friend of mine mentioned him too! I tried doing a little Google search online, but I couldn't find any actual reviews or comments anywhere... I honestly don't care where I have to go, I just want someone to finally tell me what's going on so I can figure out my next move... right now, I'm just lost... is it my nose? Tonsillitis? Or is it definitely the nose?! Who knows... it's awful, and my throat hurts so much😢 so he's actually good?? I mean, I really know the ENT world and I've never even heard of him until today... Hahahahahahah... just when things couldn't get any more frustrating...☕😁
stormyharbor2 said:Michael Davis21, I honestly have a lot of faith in Glušac too—I really hope I don't end up changing my mind about him!—and I truly feel like he could get this sorted out for you without any issues. 🙂 My own deviation is pretty bad, too... my doctor actually told me I should've come in much sooner because even if I didn't care about how it looks, I’d still need surgery just to breathe properly. Plus, every single morning I wake up with this nasty congestion in my throat that just won't clear through my nose. 👎

It was just one of those gut feelings, you know? Like, I just felt like he actually knew what he was talking about.🤷...but if I could just get some other doctors to back him up, I'd feel so much better... now I'm just stuck wondering who I can actually trust...🙄
silentotter99 said:Oh man, that sounds awful—I really feel for you. There’s nothing worse than being left totally in the dark about what's actually going on. I don't have a ton of experience with this kind of thing, but I can give you my two cents... What Glušac is saying actually makes sense to me, and honestly, people on here talk him up quite a bit as a solid specialist. But then again, we all basically know that if you're constantly getting tonsillitis, they usually need to come out, so I guess that’s why the doctors were so quick to react without even really looking at the nose part.
Do you actually have trouble breathing? Like, do you sound nasal when you talk? (Was that how he knew right away it was a deviation?)
If I were in your shoes, I think I’d try to get a second opinion, maybe from a private doctor... I’ve always gotten the impression that they take a bit more time to really dig into where the actual issue is. Anyway, definitely poke around a little more first—there’s no point in rushing into things only to end up needing both surgeries down the road😲


He didn't know it was a deviation immediately, but he suspected it... because of my voice. He said you can tell while I'm talking (one doctor even told me I sound like I'm talking through my nose), but it's nothing crazy, just noticeable to specialists... hahaha... I hadn't even realized it myself, and none of my family or friends had ever mentioned it... I breathe fine... so until then, I truly thought I didn't have any issues... or that the tonsillitis had nothing to do with it...
An acquaintance of mine who gave me the number had tonsillitis too, but his was way worse—unbearable pain and constant nasal congestion... but he also had a deviated septum (a really bad one, too) and he’d broken his nose like twice. He also had one failed nose surgery... so the deviation was super obvious... he went to see Glušac... and the doctor told him straight up that once we fix the nose, the tonsillitis should clear up on its own. And that's exactly what happened! But for him, the nose was causing massive problems even without the tonsillitis.

Honestly, I would go to a hundred different doctors if it meant getting answers... Roje and Račić say it's the tonsils... but Glušac, after a really thorough exam, says it's the nose. I don't know which other ENT specialists are good, but I'd go to a private practice in a heartbeat. If anyone has recommendations, please let me know...
Everyone has their own opinion, so you're stuck trying to be smart about it now🤷
I'm done going to the hospital in the city... first off, the wait times are insane—like 2 or 3 months just for an appointment... plus the crowds... and then when you finally get in... they just look at the referral for why you're there, glance at it (in my case, the tonsillitis), confirm they need to come out, and that's it. End of story.
When I saw Glušac, I had a referral recommending tonsillectomy... he checked the tonsils (they are damaged)... then he used the camera in my nose (I was actually surprised he was looking in there since I didn't think I had any issues)... then "turn your head," "swallow like this," "don't swallow now," etc... then plugging one nostril, then the other... checking the vocal cords... he is seriously thorough. He told me the root cause is the deviation, which funnels saliva toward the tonsils. His analogy for why to operate on the nose instead of the tonsils... was that if a roof is leaking and ruining the floor, you don't start by fixing the floor (those are my tonsils), you fix the roof that's causing the problem (the nose).... I think there's logic in that... 🤷... so why are the other doctors so hell-bent on fixing the floor first?🤣
But yeah, Glušac agrees the main issue is the nose... though the question is how much damage the tonsils have already taken... it's possible that even after the nose surgery, they won't heal and might still need to come out. There's a 70% chance they'll recover, but still...
stormysurfer6 said:do I have your support? lol

🤣.thanks😁

Oh, I almost forgot one more thing... even though I can breathe through my nose totally fine—like, no congestion at all—I feel this constant drip of mucus sliding down the back of my throat... it just keeps irritating everything (doctors call it "excessive secretion" 🙄🤷) and it’s making me seriously consider nose surgery before I deal with more tonsil issues... (I really hope I'm making the right call, because getting surgery just for the sake of it would be such a bummer 😕). Honestly, the throat pain has been absolutely killing me lately 😢.
I see that some people here had their procedure done by Dr. Glušac.... how long does it usually take to get an appointment? And what was the recovery like? Is the pain intense? Just trying to gather some info so I know what I'm potentially signing up for if I go through with it.

Maybe someone else here or a friend has dealt with something similar... I can breathe perfectly through both nostrils—nothing is blocked, really—but the drainage from the deviation just pours down into my throat and causes this non-stop inflammation and pain.
Evening🙂

Well, I figured I’d jump into this thread too... maybe some of you could offer a bit of advice if you've dealt with something similar—or, honestly, just give me a little encouragement... hahaha...

So, I've been struggling with tonsillitis for quite a while now (like 2 or 3 years)... sometimes it's bad, sometimes it's okay... anyway, my doctor—after checking everything, blood work, swabs, thyroid (all totally normal), etc.—recommended that I just get my tonsils out. So, I went to see an ENT specialist, Dr. Roje, in NYC, and he said the surgery is the way to go. Okay... that would all be fine, except for one tiny thing... I don't just get a bad case once in a while, I'm dealing with pus-filled infections 3 or 4 times a month! It’s constant. Then, an acquaintance gave me the number for Dr. Glušac (over in Miami)... and just from our initial phone call, he actually told me he could tell I had a deviated septum just by the sound of my voice... hmm... okay... so I went to see him, and after a really thorough exam of my throat and nose (and let me tell you, everyone else just took a quick peek at my tonsils and called it a day), he determined the real issue is actually my deviated septum...🤷Basically, the drainage from my nose is constantly running down onto my tonsils and causing non-stop inflammation.... DIAGNOSIS: Deviated nasal septum, chronic sinusitis... He was extremely explicit about NOT removing the tonsils because, if I did, the whole situation would eventually worsen and migrate to my lungs (like asthma)... I was in total shock... apparently, I need nose surgery... I’d much rather just deal with the tonsils, but he just seemed so trustworthy...🤷...He suggested that to be absolutely sure, I should see Dr. Račić in NYC for a second opinion... I guess he thought he’d just confirm his own findings. So, I go to see him, and he barely even looks at my tonsils before telling me to just get them out... says there's nothing wrong with my nose at all, even though I specifically mentioned the deviation... his response? "It's nothing serious, you breathe normally, your nose isn't even blocked..." so, seriously, someone tell me who's crazy here...🙏
Has anyone else ever dealt with this kind of mess?

I just don't know who to trust... honestly, Glušac felt the most sincere, and I really felt like he actually knew what he was talking about.

I noticed you guys have been mentioning him quite a bit lately...

I know I have to undergo one of these surgeries, I just have no clue which one...🤣🤷
ironmarlin32 said:Hey ladies, I’m looking for some photographer recommendations in San Diego. I’ve been searching online, but honestly, most of them don't even have decent websites, so any help would be huge. I’ve heard great things about photo Mark from Old Castle and Profoto in San Diego. If anyone here has used either of them for a party, could you let me know how they were and what their rates look like? I’m also hunting for a good band based in San Diego—specifically curious if anyone has hired Calypso and what they charge. Choosing both a photographer and a band is proving to be such a headache... 😢

Thanks so much!!!

Thomas Sanchez532 said:If you end up going with Photo Mark, definitely try to request Patrick or John (I also heard some guy named Brian is pretty solid), but those are my picks 👎. For San Diego, you should check out Susie 👍 since she actually has a website you can browse. Honestly, just scroll through some of the threads from the last few months
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Look, I’m really not the type of person to sit around nitpicking or trashing people's work... that's just not my vibe... but seriously, you might want to be careful if you're looking at Mark's photography. I actually booked John—who everyone seems to swear is the absolute best—but man, was I disappointed... especially considering how much I shelled out for the session... The photos? Nothing special... honestly, some of them were a total disaster... just weird angles everywhere... oh my god. Word on the street is they've been getting a ton of complaints lately, so maybe think twice before booking... I'm sitting here kicking myself now, but hey, what can you do, right? It's too late for that. I called Mark and was perfectly polite about it... then John ended up calling me himself to apologize... which was fine, I guess. Anyway, I showed the shots to a friend of mine who’s an amazing photographer and actually knows John personally... and even she couldn't believe they were his work! It felt like he just rushed through the whole job just to get it over with. Don't get me wrong, there are a few decent shots in there, but there are also some absolute train wrecks that no professional should ever let leave their studio. And the church photos? Ugh, don't even get me started... they had zero detail, nothing... they looked like amateur snapshots. When I pointed that out to him, his response was basically, "Well, you should have told me that mattered to you..." Excuse me?! Helloooo? If the church ceremony—the actual wedding rite itself—isn't important to capture, then I really don't know what is...🤷
To make a long story short... Mark just isn't the same guy he used to be—honestly, I don't know what happened there. Lately, I feel like everywhere I turn, I'm hearing more and more negative stuff about him... it's getting hard to ignore.
I hate being that person—really, I do—but I just have to say something because this is supposed to be your big, dream day... You’re paying a premium to ensure every single shot is absolutely perfect, and let's be real, $1,300 is a massive amount of money for anyone to drop... it's not like it's pocket change or anything, so when things don't go right... well...☕
Ronald Hayes77 said:So, I finally went to see Dr. Glusac up in Santa Barbara for nose surgery... and honestly? I just have to brag for a second because he did such an incredible job. After dealing with four different surgeries at state hospitals where nothing ever turned out quite right—seriously, I was so frustrated—I had to work up the nerve to go for a fifth time with Dr. Glusac. It was a big leap of faith, but man, was it worth it. He did exactly what we discussed during our consultation, no surprises there. And the best part? I didn't feel even a hint of pain. I had my packing removed the very next day and everything felt totally fine... If you're looking for someone, I can't recommend Dr. Glusac enough!


Man, I am seriously so happy to hear that! 🙂So, I was just mentioning in a post the other day that I went to see a private specialist... and he actually told me that my issues aren't coming from tonsillitis at all, but are actually being caused by a deviated septum... it was Dr. Glisac who saw me... though, honestly, he seems to live in his own little world—he’s got this way of mixing intense medical jargon with these random comparisons to old-school outlaws or something... it's a bit much, really...🤣😂...but I mean, even right from the start, I just had this gut feeling that he actually knew exactly what he was doing... 🤷...the guy is doing an absolutely incredible job... I've honestly heard that from so many people lately...👍And now... I just need to find the nerve—and maybe scrape together about a thousand bucks...🤣
Jason White26 said:I’ve been dealing with stuff just like this for years now—seriously. Every time the seasons shift, I end up with strep throat. There were stretches in my life where I was popping antibiotics four or five times a year... it was constant. And the second my nose gets stuffed up? The headaches hit immediately. I basically live with Advil and menthol lozenges tucked into every single pair of pants or jacket I own.
I never ended up having my tonsils out, either. Honestly, my local doctor always told me it was actually better to just leave them alone. Apparently, back in the day—like 20 or 30 years ago—they used to rip them out left and right, but then they realized that surgery might actually do more harm than good, so they decided it's safer to keep them. Plus, I've heard from a few different places that frequent strep infections are actually caused by nasal congestion or a deviated septum. It feels kind of weird that my doctor didn't send me to an ENT specialist sooner 😢 especially since I've been struggling with this for 15 years straight... Anyway, I'm finally in the waiting phase for surgery in early May. I'm heading in tomorrow for my final check-up with the specialist, so I'm going to grill him a bit more about how the whole thing works. At my last appointment, he told me all these issues stem from my nose, and that once he fixes it, I'll feel like there's a literal breeze blowing through my head 😁


I never really had issues with a stuffy nose or anything like that... but, well, turns out I have a pretty severe internal deviation... which means my saliva doesn't drain the way it's supposed to... instead, it just flows straight toward my tonsils and causes constant inflammation... (my tonsils are just perpetually inflamed... I've swallowed so many pills, but nothing seems to touch it)🤷... at least, that's how I understood it... if I get my tonsils removed, then the issues will just move down to my lungs and cause even bigger problems😕...... and man, when the pain gets bad enough, I honestly feel like I could just rip them out myself😢... right now I'm just trying some herbal teas from a local healer🙄... it's literally just a desperate attempt at something😳😁......... though I highly doubt nose surgery is going to be the magic fix, but hey, what else can I do?...😕
So, I’ve been scrolling through this thread, and I haven't really seen anyone else dealing with the exact same mess I am... or maybe I just missed it...
I guess I'm just wondering if any of you guys dealt with something similar before having surgery...
Here’s the deal: I’ve been struggling with these nasty, pus-filled tonsillitis infections for years now. Sometimes the pain is killer, sometimes it’s just annoying... but honestly, it’s just exhausting...😢...so, I finally scheduled surgery for my tonsils (my doctor recommended it), went into the hospital, and got checked out by a specialist... and apparently, my tonsils are in absolute shambles—and don't even get me started on my nose. I ended up seeing a specialist at the Mayo Clinic in Santa Barbara... they have a great reputation, both for ENT stuff and surgery. The doctor took one look at me—tonsils inflamed, full of infection, all that... then he looked at my nose and realized I have a deviated septum... and now he's telling me there is NO WAY I should go through with the tonsil surgery right now. He says it could actually make things worse and lead to lung issues, especially since I had constant bronchitis when I was a kid, which could come back even harder...🤷The priority is fixing my nose... because because of the deviation, everything just drains straight down onto my tonsils and keeps them in a state of constant inflammation...🤷.......I was already terrified about the tonsil surgery, and now I find out there's this whole other thing with my nose too...☕Has anyone here dealt with something like this? Like, can fixing a deviated septum actually stop these constant infections from happening? I’ve never even heard of that being a thing before.............I know I’m not exactly having the best luck with this surgical journey, but I am just so incredibly fed up with all of this...😢 Please, if you have any advice, let me know🙂
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Aaron Patel15 said:It’s fine. Honestly, criticism doesn't bother me, especially when it's this over the top and totally unrealistic. I was actually at the wedding myself, and I heard plenty of compliments. Look, I heard some complaints too, but nothing nearly as biased as this. I’d be posting this even if it wasn't my venue.

Trust me, people will find something to moan about with any restaurant. But saying they roasted 50 pounds of potatoes the day before the big night? That just gave me a good laugh! 😂

Oh, please... don't even listen to them. Honestly, there’s always going to be someone with something to complain about—it’s like a national pastime at this point! People just love to find fault, don't they? I mean, people were actually trying to scare me away from Coachella too... telling me all these horror stories, and I'll admit, I was feeling a little skeptical myself... but in the end? Everything turned out absolutely amazing.👍Honestly, people were just so happy... the food was incredible, the service was top-notch, everything was just... spot on. Of course, you always get those one or two people who just exist solely to find something to complain about—I mean, seriously, out of 180 guests, only two people had a problem saying the lamb wasn't quite right... honestly, some people just live to nitpick...🤷...and then there were those other guys who just absolutely demolished the lamb...🤷...well, you better be smart about it now...🙄
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Can anyone recommend a really solid makeup artist?🙏...I'm acting as the maid of honor for this wedding, so I promised my friend I'd handle the beauty situation since she’s got a million other things on her plate before the big day🤷...When I was at my wedding, I went with Taylor Swift...and honestly, I wasn't exactly blown away☕...She did our makeup both before and after the ceremony, so everything felt super rushed...The makeup itself was high quality, don't get me wrong...but personally, I think she could have done a much better job for $100🤷
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Even though I’m already married, I still find myself popping back onto this forum every now and then😍...you ladies have honestly been such a lifesaver...from all the advice on salons to the little details...makeup, flowers...all that good stuff.

So, I’ve suddenly been asked to be a bridesmaid at a wedding...which means I am officially in "help me" mode! Any tips would be amazing...🤷...specifically regarding makeup artists...I used Antonia Guć for my own big day...but does anyone know of any other great artists out in Los Angeles? Please DM me with recommendations...oh, and if anyone happens to have a photo of her recent work...like a finished makeup look...that would be even better!🙏

Also, has anyone checked out that new bridal boutique, Claire😍? It definitely wasn't around when I was getting married—and since I haven't been lurking on here as much lately, I haven't heard if people are talking about it yet.🤷
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Oh my gosh, girls, I need help!🙄😂
I’ve had eight months to get everything ready, and now—of course—everything is falling apart at the last minute🤣
Typical me, right?🙄.......So, I'm looking for a really good makeup artist in the area—maybe around Los Angeles, maybe Orange County or something similar... I actually reached out to Antoni Guć... but she only has a 9:00 AM slot available😲... which feels way too early for hair and makeup, don't you think?🤷or is it?

Also, where can I order some sweets? (Ideally something homemade!) Maybe some croquembouche? (Besides the stuff at the local bakery). I'm sure you guys have some killer recommendations since we're only one month out😲🙄😍
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Megan Reyes73 said:I'm pretty sure those are just basic cakes at $333, anything else is gonna cost you more. Plus, you gotta wonder if every baker can actually pull off whatever crazy design you want... there are cheaper spots over at Whole Foods too....
to me, a cake at Cheesecake Factory ended up being 1400 + extras $100... honestly, I'm not even that big on brittle so it felt pricey, 👎but I grabbed it just for my man...

Ugh, I'm not really into praline either🙄but my partner was being so insistent... so what am I supposed to do? I just gave in🤷....though I definitely don't budge when it comes to other stuff😍😁(like the decorations, and a ton of other little details...🤣)
Personally, I think adding praline is kind of silly... you just crunch it up and toss it 🤷 (hardly anyone actually eats it!), and then you've got a cake with a few layers and whatever else.... but fine, whatever, let him have his way😳😁
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Nicholas Brown84 said:I was actually thinking about setting up a little section near Times Square for the croquant, though I haven't really figured out the layout yet... I did some math and put down roughly $333 for the croquant. Does that price cover custom shapes too, or is that strictly for the bell shape?

That’s gotta be a custom quote... I mean, since it's something totally unique and not just one of those cookie-cutter designs they usually pump out... at least that's my two cents anyway...🤷everyone comes in with their own wild ideas...😍..but once people realize how much those extra details actually cost, most of them end up just playing it safe and going with something simple.
But hey, you should definitely go ask them directly just to be sure!😉
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Megan Reyes73 said:Not even close... I checked out the prices at the Ritz and they were way higher, even without the wedding party, fireworks, and all that other nonsense my man keeps pushing. The guy's got some seriously wild ideas—you can basically see them coming a mile away. Personally? That lighthouse idea is just straight-up depressing.


A huge, standard croquembouche usually runs about $900—$400 which isn't bad at all, but with them, everything is way over $833 (I actually asked around at a bridal expo). To be honest, I don't even care that much since it’s probably just going to end up smashed anyway😁—might as well just smash it $400 rather than drop $3,000-$1333🤷 on it, but hey, to each their own, I guess...😉
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Megan Reyes73 said:Oh, and one more thing. If you’re going with a croquant cake, you seriously have to hit up that bakery by the Marina near the Mediterranean Sea… they’re killer 🙏….

I mean, they're pretty much the most famous spot in the whole area... but man, those prices though! Holy cow...😲
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I mean, obviously, it all really comes down to what you’re looking for... some people might want a massive 4-foot arrangement, while others would prefer something a bit more low-key, and then there's the flower choice—some go for classic roses, others swear by orchids, and so on... so yeah, the price can swing pretty wildly depending on those details...
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Raymond Brooks7 said:Thanks,

I picked up the fabric at a HomeGoods over in a suburb outside of Phoenix—just one of those shops that specializes in curtains. I think the width was about $6.25 feet, but I grabbed 20 yards of it. I ended up trimming it and making the runners myself. Honestly, I can't remember if it was polyester voile or organza—don't judge me, my textile knowledge is non-existent—but anyway, it’s basically just curtain fabric.

By the way... I still have everything. If anyone's interested, you can buy it or rent it from me.

Well, I'm a total amateur when it comes to materials too🙄 so I'm just asking so I know what to look for... I'll probably show a photo to some ladies over at the local craft store and maybe they can help me out😁

You did the hemming yourself? Oh man, I definitely don't have two lives to spend doing that!🤣

If I decide to go with green, I'll let you know👍

Actually, if you're renting out those Candlesticks and I can't quite recall what else you had (assuming it wasn't green), we might be able to work something out🙂
I haven't settled on a color yet, but if I go with green, I'm taking the ribbons too😁
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Raymond Brooks7 said:Look, everything is subjective... don't just go copying what someone else did... it all comes down to the flowers themselves. Is it peak season? Are they even in stock? What kind are we talking about? Will there be one lone stem in a vase or a massive explosion of blooms?

For instance, I once hunted down these specific white and green roses and some lisianthus that were just disappearing from the market right when I needed them—availability really dictates the final bill...

If you ask me, everything you guys listed above... you actually need more than three of those elements $0.00 🤷

I mean, there is no way a four-meter floral arrangement isn't going to cost a fortune $167... it's obvious that your own preferences are what drive the price!


Your decor was a total 10/10 😍👍

If you don't mind, could you shoot me a DM? I'd love to know where you picked up those table runners—what the fabric is and how much they set you back 🙂