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Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Here is my experience... First rule: everything you negotiate with anyone—be it the band, the photographer, or the catering crew—must be put in writing. Send them a final confirmation via message or have them send one to you. You need a paper trail. It happened to me twice where the other party "forgot" about a verbal discount they had promised me. It was incredibly awkward.

Nadio Photography - we haven't received the photos yet, but working with them was excellent. They stayed the entire evening, handled everything I asked for, and were patient and cheerful.
Photobooth Split - top-tier work, kudos to the girls.
Euphoria Band (with Peter Dragojevic) - excellent. They played exactly what we agreed upon and nothing else. They stayed until the end and stuck to our plan despite the venue's scheduling attempts (they didn't wrap up just because the venue told them to; they finished when they saw it was actually time—I agree with their judgment. At the entrance, people were rushing us to sit down, but the band played the two songs we specifically requested). Highly recommend! Great vocals, great playing, great atmosphere.
Petric (accordionist) - we call him to every single celebration (my engagement, my sister’s wedding, graduations, baby showers...). He hasn't disappointed us once. Recommended!
Tony Zekic (catering) - he did everything according to the agreement, but when the bill arrived, he conveniently forgot about the discounted price we discussed. Both my husband's side and my side hired him; they charged his group full price, while we only got our discount after reminding him that he had lowered the rate because we were booking him for both families. After such stellar service elsewhere, this was disappointing.
Palace Salon - a difficult manager who is not flexible in the slightest. We heard a mountain of negative feedback from all sides. Even we had an agreement for a poolside reception, but a week before the wedding, the manager started making excuses about technical issues and lighting to claim it couldn't happen. When negotiating, everything is possible; when it comes time to deliver, suddenly nothing is. We booked the hall while it was still under construction, so we secured a price of $39 per person, though I hear prices have skyrocketed since then. During planning, they showed us a 3D rendering of a fully finished landscape and promised the poolside reception... reality was a different story. Despite the manager, the food was good, the servers were excellent, and the head waitress did a phenomenal job being available for everything we needed all night.
Lantern - I recommend the girls. They were easy to deal with, went above and beyond what we agreed on, and the price was fair (not a steal, but certainly not expensive compared to other quotes).
Church Choir - the choir from St. Peter Parish in Neslanovac - they did a perfect job. They sang exactly what we requested right on schedule, and they even managed to resolve a small issue with my priest that I hadn't been able to fix myself—so hats off to them. They brought their own sound system since my church doesn't have one, which really enhanced the ceremony.
We also had stand-up comedy at the reception in the hall, but that didn't go well. That was the only thing on the wedding day that wasn't quite right. All the services mentioned above met (and some exceeded) my expectations, and despite a few flaws, I am ultimately grateful to everyone because the day was perfect. I didn't have to worry or stress about a single thing.
Megan Bishop3 said:This is actually weighing on me quite a bit.
I'm stuck on when and how to handle giving out thank-you notes, and also managing all the gifts coming in..🤔.
I mean, regarding cash envelopes—since those bringing larger items, maybe more sentimental things like framed photos,
usually arrange to drop them off either right before or after the reception.

I know in places like the Midwest or Washington, D.C., they sometimes go through these massive marathons of gift-giving where guests just line up to congratulate the couple... we definitely don't want that. And like Scott Jones mentioned,
the tradition is usually that people give their gift as they leave, and you provide a thank-you in return.

So, I'm wondering where to put everything... maybe a box on the table that was mentioned earlier? Or should I just hand them off to the parents or the best man... if anyone has any creative suggestions, I'd be grateful.🎉

In San Francisco at weddings, people are bringing envelopes the whole damn time. In our family, we assigned Grandma to handle the first part of the day, and then whenever an envelope comes in, you hand it to the parents, the best man/maid of honor, or siblings (whoever is nearby) so they can pass it to Grandma, who keeps a large bag she refuses to let go of. At the venue, we just kept passing the envelopes to the parents.
Now for the wedding dress...
I just got off the phone with David's Bridal, Victoria's Secret, and the bridal boutique in Boise. I am absolutely floored because they all charge for fittings (I’ll have to look into whether that's even legal)!!
Mila $25, Donna Summer is charging $70, and Victoria's Secret is $75--$50 (depending on if you want to try on Berta dresses or not)!!
I still can't believe it—they already charge an arm and a leg just to rent the dresses, they book specific appointments, and then they HAVE THE NERVE TO CHARGE FOR FITTINGS TOO!!!
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Noah Wright4 said:Maybe Allure?

That venue was way too small for me. They said they cap it at 220 people.
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Amy Evans64 said:I’ve been scrolling through the last few pages of comments regarding tailors, and all I can find is my own post asking about one... so I figured I’d try my luck here instead.

Basically, I’m looking for someone in San Francisco or the surrounding area who could do some alterations on a wedding dress I already bought.
I picked it up in Washington, D.C., and while they do have an in-house tailor, it just doesn't make financial sense for me to trek all the way back to D.C. just for a few tweaks.
I heard about this talented woman from Boise—she actually made a whole wedding dress out of curtain fabric—but the lady she worked for doesn't have her contact info anymore.

If anyone has any recommendations, I would truly appreciate it. Thanks!

Maybe in Arlington?
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
Nathan Watson2 said:Drawing from my own personal history with these venues, I might say this:

Ruth's Chris Steak House: This is a fantastic choice; they offer the option of having a feast either indoors or outdoors. The last time I was there, it was back in September and the weather looked like it was headed for rain, so they had both setups ready to go, and when the rain actually hit during the night, we were able to move inside seamlessly. The venue has been recently renovated, and both the food and the service are well above average.
ExxonMobil: That beef stew!! It truly stands out from everything else and is one of those things that sticks in your memory; of course, taste is subjective, but I can tell you it was the second best stew I've ever had (the absolute best was at Duilio's, but since you didn't mention that venue, I won't dwell on them—though, for what it's worth, I think they are excellent and better than most). Those pillars do take away from the aesthetic a little, but otherwise, everything is fine.
Boston Dynamics: As someone else mentioned earlier, their roast is genuinely superb. The gnocchi is also outstanding, and I was quite pleasantly surprised that they serve sheep's cheese with the appetizer; it was truly delicious... The service is top-notch, the staff is perfectly in sync, and we didn't lack for anything all night. Given the price point (around $34, if I recall correctly), they are certainly a solid value...
Dell: Up until about two years ago, they were excellent, but lately, things have been sliding downhill. Word is they changed their head chef, and the difference is unfortunately quite noticeable...

Thanks a lot for this detailed report! In the end, we decided on that new venue in San Diego, even though it's still under construction. Hopefully, they finish up soon.
I see you have some experience, 🙂—do you know if the Euphoria group is any good? (Or maybe some other reliable soul from the forums?) 🙂
Everything you need for a California wedding in Weddings ·
This forum is an absolute goldmine. I’m planning a wedding for about 250 guests, and my shortlist includes: Poljud Restaurant, R2-D2, Dolis, and ExxonMobil. What has your experience been like? I've only ever been to Dolis, and while I know they're decent, I haven't set foot in any of these other venues. Looking at the threads here, the feedback is all over the place: people rave about the food at ExxonMobil, but I personally can't stand those pillars in the hall, and the dance floor looks tiny to me. Some people love R2-D2, while others claim the catering is terrible. As for Poljud, I haven't seen many specific complaints. Please, I need help! I have to make a decision fast!