Posts by quietcrane63

Kate Cox15 said:If I were actually complaining, I'd have way more to say than just Sylar's jawline.😢.

Kate Cox15 said:It's basically the first step toward dehumanization, which I've pointed out to wanderingheron9 several times. The moderators saw my critique and didn't do anything about it.

If the moderators aren't bothered by this, then how are dustypilot11 or I even supposed to file a formal complaint? (I see people are accusing us of that). You can either protest wanderingheron9's replies or just leave the thread entirely. We've essentially done both.

Discussing whether beauty can be objectively measured is one thing—it’s an interesting topic—but you don't need to resort to dehumanizing anyone to have that debate.

wanderingheron9 knew exactly when he was crossing the line; I guess he always did. So why the surprise now?

@quietcrane63/">@@quietcrane63, I'm not really sure what a "simp" is. It sounds like something positive, like someone who is charming or sweet and easy to hang out with.

Jesse Price said:Maybe take it easy on the Darwinism talk. If you actually faced some uncertainty and toughened up, you wouldn't be begging for scraps on a forum. This isn't about banning an opinion; it's about intent. His behavior has been consistently shown to be malicious, unconstructive, and purely meant to cause conflict. That kind of stuff just ruins any discussion, so he was removed for that, not because his views are forbidden—regardless of how factually wrong they might be.

Jesse Price said:I don't think that's quite right. The guy spent a long time pushing these imaginary physical standards while putting others down—saying things like "XY is subhuman," then acting like it was just a joke if anyone actually got offended. He pretended none of it affected him, but I guess it's supposed to affect everyone else too. In reality, his whole writing style seemed designed to project his own issues and make other people, especially women, feel insecure and dissatisfied.

Kate Cox15 said:wanderingheron9 knows exactly why he’s being targeted, which is why I came here to ask him to lay it all out clearly. The moderators didn't issue any warnings or bans while he was using that kind of rhetoric, but I did. I still think it's inappropriate, and I think he knows that too.

Why blame me, Anida, or whoever else for putting him in this spot when he basically walked right into it himself? It's not like I was typing his posts for him. I don't know.

Adam Lee13 said:First, you push him out through lobbying, playing the victim, and basically bullying him until he’s relegated to the absolute bottom of the forum—just a footnote. And now you're asking women for input? I guess you're just a total simp, quietcrane63.☕

Kate Cox15 said:I told him straight up that all that blackpilling just doesn't suit him. It doesn't suit wanderingheron9 either, honestly. If they were just being true to themselves, they'd probably just be sweet little simps, which would be fine.

Anthony Nguyen81 said:First off, I guess a woman just doesn't have anything to offer that isn't primitive.

There are two of you, and you're both doing the exact same thing. 🤣

Kate Cox15 said:Everyone's gonna give you hell, man, if you start acting crazy 🙂.

Kate Cox15 said:The issue is that both you and I have clearly proven we can communicate civilly and actually understand one another.

So why not just head in that direction?

Anthony Nguyen81 said:It’s pretty obvious they had to be arguing with someone, right? 🙂

Or maybe just being immature. 😲
Literally just hate speech directed at anyone who doesn't agree with them. 🙂

Like I said, I don't get people like that.
I guess it takes a certain level of shallowness, or just plain malice, to pile on a stranger online for no reason.
It’s just... 🙂
Completely 🙂 Pointless.

Look, you should probably watch what you say because someone might take it personally. Someone you have zero connection to and have never even spoken to. 🤣

Kate Cox15 said:Same goes for you. We were communicating totally normally, both in public and privately. Once you started with that brooding, sulking stuff—or whatever you call it—everyone knew you were just overreacting.

The problem is just standing your ground and trying to have a civilized conversation with people.

Kate Cox15 said:wanderingheron9, I think most people find the "clear blue skies" thing controversial, but it seems like you wouldn't be surprised if you got hit with warnings or a ban.

The Wikicehi crowd thinks the whole thing makes zero sense. Maybe you could explain why you expected some kind of sanctions to happen eventually?

Thanks. ^^

Adam Lee13 said:Sometimes you just write something rough, and it ends up looking bad. I guess that happens.😁

Adam Lee13 said:It wasn't exactly high school drama. We were both 23. I'm actually six days older than her. During those few months when everything was going down, I was seeing her cousin, who basically set us up. Now, this girl is complaining about me and telling her cousin all about how we’re dating, while the cousin listens and reports back to me—all while flirting with me behind her back.🤣

As for the other question (sex without kissing), she invited me over to her apartment on our second date. Things escalated pretty fast; we went from the dining room table to the kitchen counter and finally ended up in bed. She was completely naked, yet I hadn't kissed her once. The reason why I didn't kiss her is honestly too embarrassing to write down, and it had nothing to do with her.

So there she is, standing there naked, expecting things to happen... and I just get up, put my clothes on, and leave.🤣

The funny thing is, the whole buildup was incredibly intense for her, and she couldn't wait to see me again. Honestly, she had the best body I've ever seen.

Adam Lee13 said:You don't really get the kind of bond that forms between two people when there's actually blood involved. I can't compare it to anything else I've experienced.

It would honestly be enough just to look at her; she knows exactly what I’m thinking and what I want. We could go out for some of her pies, find a spot to ourselves within five minutes, and just start talking. It's like everyone else just disappears. You don't see anyone else.

Between her and Ivona, everything else I was ever in felt like nothing but struggle, no matter how hard I tried to fix things.

Question: Have you ever slept with a woman without kissing her?😁

Adam Lee13 said:Me and my cousin (her mom and my grandma are sisters)... we spent the whole summer hanging out outside, and I guess some kind of energy started building up between us over those two months.

Then one day, she just texts me out of nowhere saying we need to talk. We met up around 8 PM, and I was just like, okay.

We met up, went down to the beach, and just chatted about nothing much. She suggested sitting down for a bit, so we did, still just talking. At one point, she asks if she can put her head in my lap. I said sure, and we kept talking. Then, after a while, she just casually tells me to kiss her🤣...and that's where it ended...

The point was, she noticed there was something happening between us and felt like she had to deal with it, just get it out of her head.

Later on, she started avoiding me, because "if we're alone, the same thing will happen again."🤣

Adam Lee13 said:What’s been your absolute worst situation with women?

Adam Lee13 said:I'm remembering this one woman from an old AOL message board—she was from San Diego. We spent the whole summer of 2011 messaging privately; she basically just listened to me vent about getting dumped...🤣

Adam Lee13 said:I remember Pandora from those old online forums... she always had my back whenever other girls on the boards started attacking or talking trash about me. I think she liked me back then, maybe? That was probably 10 or 12 years ago...

She used to post photos of her legs and butt there too, and most of the women on the forum just ended up hating on her.

wanderingheron9 said:quietcrane63, my advice is just hang out here on the chat for a bit. eventually you'll figure out who's who.
I doubt anyone feels like rehashing years of history right now.

Pandora shows up every few months, says hi, and that's basically it. Been doing that for years.🙄

As a total couch potato, I definitely have a better build than most of those guys.