Posts by Sarah Chase7

I feel like when a team keeps too many options open at a key position, they actually end up making things more complicated than they need to be. It feels like a waiting game where nobody is truly settled. Do you think holding onto multiple backups is actually a smart move, or does it just create more drama?

Michelle Cook83 said:That's a really unusual pattern for metastasis. I am so sorry about your Mom. Where was your late mother treated?

At the Institute.

My deepest condolences, Maya...

Amanda Wells75 said:So, how long did your Mom live after the fluid started building up?
I just can’t wrap my head around the fact that she won't be here much longer. I keep holding out for a miracle. I guess there's some truth to that old saying about hope being the last thing to die. My Mom still feels so young—way too young to be leaving us this December (right around Christmas Eve). She had just turned 57, and I'm only 31. There was so much more I wanted to learn from her—how to make authentic dumplings, sewing, crochet... so many things left unsaid. She had such big plans, too; she wanted to teach her grandkids the old traditions, take them to folk festivals, look after them, play with them, and just enjoy being a grandma... 🙂

Hey, Amanda...

I can tell you what it was like with my Mom. Once the fluid started accumulating, she passed away about 10 days later. The paramedics took her in once because she was struggling to breathe from the buildup, but they just sent her back home without doing a puncture. I think they realized on their own that it wouldn't change anything since she was already in the terminal stage.

She originally had primary breast cancer (which they successfully operated on) that metastasized to the eye muscle (which they could never fully remove because of how tricky the location was). Then, spots appeared on her ovaries and uterus (both were removed), and finally, when it hit her bones, everything just went downhill fast. During her last two months, she started having seizures, lost her sight (the brain MRI was clear, but I assume that spot near the eye was causing the trouble), dealt with pain, immobility, hearing loss, and in those final 2 or 3 days, she couldn't speak at all.

It was four years from the initial diagnosis to her passing. This coming May will mark one year since we lost her (I was 24 then, and Mom was 49).

I get it. Every time I read stories like yours, it all comes rushing back. Hang in there—I honestly don't know what else to say. Just stay close to her...

Sarah Chase7 said:I was browsing through some gear online the other day and ended up looking at those Alpina ballet flats. They're pretty classic, aren't they? Reminded me of those simple, reliable pairs you'd see everywhere back in the day—sort of like finding a perfect pair of Vans or even some basic Sperry's that just fit right without any fuss. There’s something to be said for that kind of understated style that doesn't try too hard.
Silver leather ballet flats with floral accents—only worn once.
They almost look like they’ve been worn down or even "cracked," but honestly, that’s just how they were designed.
Size: 36
$27


I was browsing through some Ralph Lauren trousers the other day, and honestly, they just hit different. There’s something about that classic aesthetic that stays relevant no matter how much trends shift around us.
It’s a dark navy blue. Size 12, and just for reference, the measurements are about 35 inches in length and 13.5 inches at the waist.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I’ve been thinking lately about those Alpina ballet flats. You know the ones—classic, simple, and just incredibly reliable. I remember back in college, I used to swear by my old pair of Nikes for everything, but there’s just something about a well-made flat that hits differently when you're running errands or grabbing coffee in the city. It's one of those things where you don't realize how much you appreciate the comfort until you've spent all day walking on concrete. They just have that understated vibe that works for just about anything.
Silver leather ballet flats with floral accents—only worn once.
They look like they’ve been worn down or maybe even "cracked," but honestly, that’s just the way they were designed.
Size: 36
$27


I was browsing through some Ralph Lauren trousers the other day, and honestly, it got me thinking about how much certain brands just stick in your head. There’s something about that classic look that stays relevant no matter how many trends come and go.
Deep navy blue. Size 12. For those asking about the dimensions: they’re about 35 inches long with a 13.5-inch waist.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I was browsing through some shops online the other day and stumbled upon those Alpina ballet flats. It’s funny how certain things just catch your eye when you aren't even looking for them. I remember back in high school, I used to obsess over finding that one perfect pair of shoes that wouldn't kill my feet by lunchtime—you know the struggle. These look like they might actually be comfortable enough for a long walk through Central Park without needing a shoe change halfway through. They have that simple, classic vibe that's hard to find lately.
I've got a pair of silver leather ballet flats up for grabs. They have these cute little floral details on them, too. Honestly, I only wore them once—I bought them for a wedding in Chicago, realized I was more of a sneaker person after all, and they've just been sitting in my closet ever since. My loss is your gain!
They look like they’ve been worn down or maybe even started to crack, but honestly, that’s just how they were designed to look.
Age: 36
$27


I was browsing online the other day and ended up staring at some Ralph Lauren trousers for way too long. There’s just something about that classic look, isn't there? It’s that effortless, timeless vibe that makes you feel like you actually have your life together, even if you're just running down to the corner store for more coffee.
Dark navy blue. Size 12. Just for reference on the measurements—it’s about 35 inches long and has a 13-inch waist.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I was looking at some Columbia flats the other day and it got me thinking about how much easier life would be if we didn't have to overthink footwear every single time we step out the door. Sometimes you just want something simple, something that doesn't feel like you're trekking through the Rockies when you're really just heading down to a coffee shop in downtown Chicago. Just basic, reliable flats. Nothing fancy, nothing complicated—just easy.
Silver leather ballet flats with floral accents—only worn once.
They almost look like they’ve been worn down or even started to crack, but honestly, that’s just how they were designed. It's a look.
Size: 36
$27


I was looking at some Ralph Lauren pants the other day, and it just got me thinking about how much things change over time. You know, you see these classic pieces and they just have that certain look—something timeless that doesn't scream for attention but still feels high-end. It’s funny how we gravitate toward those staples even when there are a million flashy trends out there. I remember back in my college days, I saved up for weeks just to buy one decent pair of designer trousers because I wanted to feel like I actually had my life together, even if I was living on ramen noodles at the time. There's just something about a solid piece of clothing that makes you feel prepared for whatever the day throws at you.
It’s a dark navy blue. For the sizing, it's a size 12, and if you need the actual measurements, the length is about 35 inches and the waist is around 13.5 inches.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I was browsing through some footwear options the other day and kept coming back to those Alpina ballet flats. There’s just something about them—they have that effortless, classic vibe that you don't see much anymore. I remember my aunt used to swear by similar styles back when we lived near Chicago, always insisting that comfort shouldn't have to be sacrificed for style, though she usually ended up picking something that looked like a orthopedic shoe. These feel like the perfect middle ground. They're simple, unassuming, and honestly, probably exactly what I need for running errands around town without feeling underdressed.
Leather silver ballet flats with floral accents—only worn once.
They look like they’ve been worn down or maybe even started to crack, but honestly, that’s just how they were designed to look.
Age: 36
$27


I’ve been looking at some Ralph Lauren pants lately. Honestly, they're hard to beat when you want that classic, effortless look that just works.
Dark blue. Size 12. Measurements: length is about 35 inches, waist is around 13.5 inches.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I was thinking about those Alpina ballet flats the other day—you know, the ones that are basically indestructible? I swear, they have this weird way of being both incredibly practical and somehow still looking decent if you pair them with the right jeans. They remind me of those old-school Sperry shoes my dad used to wear all the time back in the day; just reliable, no-nonsense stuff that actually lasts more than one season. There’s something to be said for finding gear that doesn't fall apart after three walks around the block.
Leather silver ballet flats with floral accents—only worn once.
They look like they’ve been worn down or maybe even started to crack, but honestly? That’s just how they were designed to look.
36
$27


I’ve been thinking about picking up some Ralph Lauren trousers lately. There’s just something about that classic aesthetic that hits different when you're looking for something reliable.
Deep navy blue. Size 12. For the measurements: they’re about 35 inches long with a 13-inch waist.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:I was browsing through some local shops the other day and couldn't help but think about those classic Alpina ballet flats. You know the ones—that timeless, effortless look that just works. I feel like they have this way of being incredibly comfortable without looking like you're wearing orthopedic shoes, which is always a fine line to walk when you're out running errands in the city. There’s something so nostalgic about a simple pair of flats; they remind me of those easy Sunday mornings spent wandering around a farmers market. They’re definitely one of those wardrobe staples you don't realize you need until you actually put them on.
Leather silver ballet flats with floral details—only worn once.
They almost look like they’ve been worn down or "cracked," but honestly, that’s just how they were designed to look.
Age: 36
$27


I’ve been looking at some Ralph Lauren pants lately. There's just something about that classic look that hits differently when you're trying to put together a solid outfit.
Dark navy blue. Size 12. Measurements are roughly 35 inches in length and about 13.5 inches at the waist.
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:Alpina ballet flats
Silver leather flats with floral accents (only worn once)
They have this distressed look, almost like they’ve been scuffed or "cracked," but honestly, that's just how they were designed from the start.
Size: 6
$27


Ralph Lauren trousers
Dark navy blue. Size: 12. Measurements: length 35" - waist 13.5"
$20

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Sarah Chase7 said:Alpina flats
Silver leather ballet flats with floral accents (only worn once)
They have this slightly distressed, "cracked" look, but honestly, that’s just how they were designed.
Size: 6
$27


Ralph Lauren pants
Dark blue. Size: 12. Measurements: length 35", waist 13".
$20


Pants
Black pants with an elastic waistband. These were originally intended for an 11-12 year old. Measurements: waist 13" (stretches up to 16") - length 36". Size: 152cm
$13

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Nike sneakers
Silver leather ballet flats featuring floral accents. I’ve only worn them once.
They have this distressed, almost "cracked" look, but honestly, that’s just how they were designed from the start.
Size: 6
$27


Ralph Lauren pants
Deep navy blue. Size 12. Measurements: length 35", waist 13.5".
$20


Pants
Black pants with an elastic waistband. These are usually sized for kids around 11-12 years old. Measurements: waist 13.5" (stretches up to 16") and length 36". Size 5.
$13

fadedcrane92 said:What do purple-blue blotches on the upper arms and down toward the feet mean for a patient who is in the terminal stage?

Unfortunately, it’s not a good sign. 😢

When those marks started showing up on my mom's legs, she passed away within about two hours...