Kenneth Scott41 said:That’s precisely the part I haven't quite wrapped my head around yet; I struggle to view depression through that serious lens. I guess I've started seeing it as more significant since I began dealing with it myself, but how are we supposed to take it seriously when our parents act like it's a joke? They say things like, "Depression? Please, quit being so sensitive, go get a job and you'll feel better." I'm fairly certain about ninety-nine percent of parents hold that exact mindset. It makes me wonder how one is even meant to explain why they're on medication when their own family refuses to see it as a real medical condition, even once you're an adult. That seems to be the core of the issue.😠 And it’s incredibly frustrating, though I suppose there isn't much else I can do... I just have this forum and my own thoughts to lean on.
On top of all that, the side effects from taking antidepressants can be quite unpleasant, especially with things like libido issues and whatnot. I've lost count of how many times I've made those dark, sarcastic comments to my parents about wanting to end it all—treating it like a joke just to gauge their reaction—when, in reality, I actually meant it. They just laugh it off with a comment like, "Oh, stop talking nonsense." It's exhausting...🙄
Well, if you start treating depression with the seriousness it deserves, isn't the problem solved?
If you're an adult, why does your parents' opinion carry so much weight? You're grown, and you're the one deciding how to live your life. As for people who claim depression isn't a real medical condition? They've clearly never experienced it themselves, so why should their opinions matter to you at all? 🙂
Kenneth Scott41 said:So, I suppose if I even hint that I've been thinking about suicide, my doctor might just immediately prescribe that medication—the one that's basically the same as Seroquel, which feels like some heavy-duty stuff meant for horses!!
I'm honestly torn on whether I should actually come clean about it or not... I've always just said "no" whenever they ask me about suicidal thoughts.
any advice?
How can you not know whether to tell her? Do you actually want to get better? If you do, you need to be completely honest and share every single thought running through your head.
Can we please stop acting like psychiatrists have no clue what they're doing? First, Kenneth Scott41, you criticize psychiatric drugs, then someone else claims doctors are incompetent, and yet here you are, doubting whether you should tell the truth.
For God's sake, how can anyone help you or find the right treatment if you aren't honest!? Loquacious isn't the only option for treating depression; if you're so against it, ask for something else.