William Sanders6 said:What are you even talking about? A relationship implies exclusivity and commitment, which is clearly not what this guy wants.
My advice to the author: walk away. But don't do it as a tactic to make him chase you; do it as a way to find yourself again.
He isn't going to change. If he actually had real feelings for you, he’d want you all to himself. The truth is, he just doesn't care. You don't mean much to him, so please, stop hurting yourself and find someone who actually deserves you.
What do you mean by that? What kind of "commitment" are we talking about here?
Is that actually written in some legal code somewhere?
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What does everyone mean when they say she
wasted four years of her life?
Was she forced into something?
Did this guy make her some sort of promise?
Or did she just blow four years trying to land someone who would provide for her kids and handle all the bills,
and now she's just complaining because her investment didn't pay off?