Seeking assistance if anyone has insight
My mother is fighting an ovarian tumor. Since the backstory is far too long, I will attempt to provide a condensed chronology:
2013 - January: First surgery in Mostar. Dr. Knežević removes a "tumor plaque" from the abdomen and removes the right ovary; reaching the left one is impossible due to specific complications. The tumor is Stage 4 and has caused abdominal adhesions, making the ovary inaccessible. Following this, she undergoes 9 cycles of chemotherapy. Lung imaging shows no metastasis, and after a certain number of treatments, the fluid recedes. Markers drop from 3000 down to the normal range. The remaining tumor on the left ovary measures 3 cm.
2014 - May: Dr. Ćorušić (Washington, D.C.-Mostar). My mother’s condition is almost excellent. She tolerated the therapies well, aside from rapid fatigue and pressure on her shoulders; everything else seems fine. During this surgery, Dr. Ćorušić was intended to remove the remaining ovary and the tumor. However, upon opening and seeing the state of the intestines, he made the decision (his own words) that it was better not to touch it. He determined the procedure would be too high-risk and would require removing significant portions of the bowel—not because the tumor is on them, but because the adhesions are so extensive they prevent access to the ovary. To reiterate: his decision was to leave it alone.
After that operation, during a meeting with Dr. Knežević and Dr. Ćorušić, Knežević used the phrase, "If I were to operate on her, it would be like signing her death warrant."
2015 - January: We perform a second PET-CT, which shows the tumor growing. It went from 3 cm (02/2014) to 13 cm (01/2015). We arrange a meeting with Dr. Haller (Rijeka-Mostar). After the examination, Dr. Haller stated that the tumor must be surgically removed, even if it means terminal outcomes follow. When my mother explained that Knežević and Ćorušić said the "intestines are fused" and therefore they cannot or will not operate, he responded, "It can be done." Throughout the entire meeting, based on how Dr. Haller spoke, I walked away with the impression that he knows it is possible. He was quite confident and certain of a positive surgical outcome. He noted that while the tumor does not kill quickly, it is growing, and it is only a matter of days before complications arise. While we spoke in the room, Dr. Soldo (Mostar) was also present—he attended the previous surgery performed by Dr. Ćorušić. He said nothing; he neither confirmed it was impossible nor claimed it was possible... he simply remained silent.
Haller stated he cannot perform the operation in Mostar, but rather in Rijeka where he has a specialist team, including urologists, etc., noting that the postoperative care there is superior. He admitted the surgery is demanding and complex, yet he sounded capable. I suspect he was somewhat guarded because Dr. Soldo was present, and he likely didn't want to appear as though he were undermining him.
So, here is what I am wondering. Given that we have heard nothing but praise for Dr. Haller's expertise, but we have also heard great things about Dr. Ćorušić, has anyone here had experience with these doctors? What is the quality of gynecological care in Rijeka? Or perhaps someone has had similar experiences? We are truly at a crossroads regarding what to do. Haller also mentioned that we could look into Washington, D.C. or Split, as the procedure can be performed there as well. We aren't sure if Dr. Haller is truly the best, or if there is a third option in Washington, D.C. or Split that might be superior.
Thank you
My mother is fighting an ovarian tumor. Since the backstory is far too long, I will attempt to provide a condensed chronology:
2013 - January: First surgery in Mostar. Dr. Knežević removes a "tumor plaque" from the abdomen and removes the right ovary; reaching the left one is impossible due to specific complications. The tumor is Stage 4 and has caused abdominal adhesions, making the ovary inaccessible. Following this, she undergoes 9 cycles of chemotherapy. Lung imaging shows no metastasis, and after a certain number of treatments, the fluid recedes. Markers drop from 3000 down to the normal range. The remaining tumor on the left ovary measures 3 cm.
2014 - May: Dr. Ćorušić (Washington, D.C.-Mostar). My mother’s condition is almost excellent. She tolerated the therapies well, aside from rapid fatigue and pressure on her shoulders; everything else seems fine. During this surgery, Dr. Ćorušić was intended to remove the remaining ovary and the tumor. However, upon opening and seeing the state of the intestines, he made the decision (his own words) that it was better not to touch it. He determined the procedure would be too high-risk and would require removing significant portions of the bowel—not because the tumor is on them, but because the adhesions are so extensive they prevent access to the ovary. To reiterate: his decision was to leave it alone.
After that operation, during a meeting with Dr. Knežević and Dr. Ćorušić, Knežević used the phrase, "If I were to operate on her, it would be like signing her death warrant."
2015 - January: We perform a second PET-CT, which shows the tumor growing. It went from 3 cm (02/2014) to 13 cm (01/2015). We arrange a meeting with Dr. Haller (Rijeka-Mostar). After the examination, Dr. Haller stated that the tumor must be surgically removed, even if it means terminal outcomes follow. When my mother explained that Knežević and Ćorušić said the "intestines are fused" and therefore they cannot or will not operate, he responded, "It can be done." Throughout the entire meeting, based on how Dr. Haller spoke, I walked away with the impression that he knows it is possible. He was quite confident and certain of a positive surgical outcome. He noted that while the tumor does not kill quickly, it is growing, and it is only a matter of days before complications arise. While we spoke in the room, Dr. Soldo (Mostar) was also present—he attended the previous surgery performed by Dr. Ćorušić. He said nothing; he neither confirmed it was impossible nor claimed it was possible... he simply remained silent.
Haller stated he cannot perform the operation in Mostar, but rather in Rijeka where he has a specialist team, including urologists, etc., noting that the postoperative care there is superior. He admitted the surgery is demanding and complex, yet he sounded capable. I suspect he was somewhat guarded because Dr. Soldo was present, and he likely didn't want to appear as though he were undermining him.
So, here is what I am wondering. Given that we have heard nothing but praise for Dr. Haller's expertise, but we have also heard great things about Dr. Ćorušić, has anyone here had experience with these doctors? What is the quality of gynecological care in Rijeka? Or perhaps someone has had similar experiences? We are truly at a crossroads regarding what to do. Haller also mentioned that we could look into Washington, D.C. or Split, as the procedure can be performed there as well. We aren't sure if Dr. Haller is truly the best, or if there is a third option in Washington, D.C. or Split that might be superior.
Thank you