restlessjackal112 said:I haven't heard from anyone yet who claims they experienced that specifically because of surgery—I mean, sure, feeling weak is one thing, but the shaking? That sounds a bit more serious than just being run down. Honestly, you should definitely head to the doctor; it’s always better to be safe and get everything checked out properly.
And I really do want to thank everyone for all the advice... honestly. 😉
I’m really curious to hear more about how people actually react after the surgery... I've heard some stories where even close friends didn't even notice anything had changed—they just thought you looked like yourself, only slightly different—but since my nose is currently off by about two millimeters, I’m genuinely wondering if anyone is going to pick up on the adjustment. The main reason I’m obsessing over this is that I am absolutely *not* the type of person who enjoys "explaining" myself. You know the drill—once you change something, people start prying with those annoying, unsolicited questions like, "Oh, why did you do that? You didn't need to!" or "Was it really necessary?" Honestly, I don't have the patience or the emotional bandwidth for that kind of interrogation. If anyone asks, my response is going to be a very short, very blunt, "Because I wanted to." That's it. End of discussion. 😁
I’m mainly asking about the people you deal with at the university—those professors and the grad students you have to be civil toward simply because you're colleagues in the same department—and that's it... I just need to know exactly how much patience and mental fortitude I should prepare myself for. 😂
Look, if you ask me, your best bet is to keep your surgery strictly under wraps—don't say a word to anyone. I honestly found it baffling when some of the girls here were claiming that nobody notices anything; it made me think they were probably just getting tiny, superficial tweaks rather than real work. I’ll admit, I was terrified too—scared of the malicious comments, scared of people drilling me with intrusive questions—but believe me, once you finally get that cast off and see your new nose, you won't give a single damn about what the neighbors or strangers think. My old nose was an absolute disaster—it was so long I could practically pick my nose with my tongue, haha—and it was wide and hawk-like. But even then, absolutely no one realized I’d had work done. Not even the people I see every single day. Even my boyfriend told me he couldn't see any difference—it wasn't until I actually sat him down and showed him the old photos that he finally realized there was a MASSIVE difference. As far as my own procedure goes, the only people who knew were a couple of my closest relatives and my boyfriend. That's it.