Posts by John Newman94

Hey, rowdyheron80, see? It’s not all doom and gloom. I’m heading out from the forum now—goodnight to you and all the other ladies here who always manage to lift my spirits!

rowdyheron80 said:😁 maybe I'll take that approach one day too. maybe it just takes more time passing before I can fully let my guard down and embrace everything. 🙂 It’s actually pretty refreshing to hear that people aren't just jumping to conclusions about those who are different.

Come on, get real here. You aren't "different" from everyone else. It’s a bit awkward to say, especially since I don't want to offend the ladies on this forum, but they all admit it to themselves even if they won't say it to us two—every woman has her flaws, more or less, sometimes even hidden ones. And honestly? You shouldn't trust people, especially us guys.

rowdyheron80 said:Thanks so much, John Newman94... you're totally right, I get it... but man, you gotta understand, there's just this massive knot of fear in my gut about all of this stuff that might be coming down the pipe.

Don't even sweat the thanks. Honestly, hardly anyone actually makes it to that point where they stop being terrified. Look at it this way: instead of spiraling about whether some guy is gonna dump you because of a little body hair, start asking yourself if the guy you're with actually gives a damn about you. If you're sitting there doubting his love, honestly? Just push him away before he gets the chance to wreck you. It's about looking out for Number One. We've all got fears—everyone does—it's just a matter of who's running the show, the fear or you. And hey, lighten up a bit! Let some sunshine in!👍

rowdyheron80 said:I feel like I have to be, you know? I’m always worried someone won’t get me and will just toss me aside... there's no cure, it's just this genetic thing I was born with. I could take birth control to add female hormones, but the extra testosterone I've already got is just going to kill them off anyway. 😢

Look, you’ve gotta find some self-confidence. If someone claims to love you and then dumps you over body hair or stuff like that... honestly, they never really loved you to begin with. Those things you call "flaws"? They’re actually an advantage over other girls. You’ll spot real love way easier than those girls who look all perfect and artificial. Just focus on taking care of yourself first; don't go chasing after love. It kind of surprises me—you just joined the forum and you're already being this open. It feels like you're lacking confidence, so you're being extra cautious, but I wouldn't lead with your medical stuff right away just to avoid getting hurt for no reason. Just realize that true love is rare, and whether you're hairy or not doesn't change that. Sending you nothing but good vibes!