Amanda Miller69 said:I’m honestly terrified because I think my mom is reaching the end. They started putting her in diapers because she can't hold any urine, and she has zero appetite—I brought her some homemade soup yesterday, but she just sort of messed with it. Today she’s calling me, sounding weaker by the minute, complaining about burning when she goes. They rushed out to grab blood samples to see if the cancer has spread further (I'll have to ask once I get to the Mayo Clinic), but besides that, she was looking yellow under her chin and eyes yesterday. I think her liver is slowly giving out, and with the urine issues, her kidneys might be failing too. 👎
The doctor—the one who kept trying to discharge her—is saying she’s been in the hospital way too long. So tomorrow, my brother and I are sitting down with the professor to figure out an urgent placement at a nursing home or a rehab facility. She definitely can't go home in this condition; she wouldn't make it through the day.
The healthcare system here is a joke. My mom's uncle was sent straight home from the ICU right after his prostate surgery; he can't even move, while my aunt is basically shuffling around with a walker. I swear, you don't even see this kind of mess in Albania. 😠
I’m honestly scared to even walk into the hospital right now, just dreading what state I’m going to find my mom in.
DEAR Amanda Miller69, you are totally panicking... just breathe... talk to the doctors in a way where they realize they have no choice but to keep your mom in the hospital or move her to another proper medical facility...
Hang in there, you've got this!!!