Posts by fadedskipper2

She mentioned that condoms were uncomfortable for her, so she asked if I could hold back. I told her I could, and then she asked me to take it off...
She isn't lying; she actually seemed genuinely shocked when I asked if she had HIV. She was under the impression that I was the one who might have infected her...
What do you guys think about this???
She didn't seem like a high-risk person at all. She had been sleeping with her boyfriend multiple times before this, and that was pretty much it for her sexual history. Now she’s married to him, they have a kid, and everything seems perfectly fine with the child...

You didn't quite catch my point; she didn't just decide to go out and test herself on a whim. She was actually tested while she was pregnant...
I suppose those are the standard screenings expectant mothers undergo, and in this case, it included an HIV test as well.

They're telling me she's been tested twice and came back clean!
Should I actually be worried here?
I mean, I don't have any symptoms myself.

I could really use some help here...
I'm honestly pretty anxious about this...
So, about a year ago, I hooked up with a girl who was working as a guide on one of our group trips out West...
We ended up together for one night, and now I can't stop overthinking why she asked if I could take the condom off, claiming it was irritating her skin.
Is it actually possible for a condom to cause that kind of discomfort? I guess I don't have much experience with this stuff, so I'm looking for some clarity.
My main fear is that maybe she was trying to expose me to HIV...
But then, she ended up getting pregnant by her boyfriend and had a perfectly healthy baby.
I eventually reached out to her, and she told me straight up that she's HIV negative.
She basically asked if I was crazy for even bringing it up, saying she’s been tested twice during her pregnancy and everything came back totally clear.
She made it very clear there's no reason for me to worry because she's completely fine.
So, what's the verdict? Is there any actual reason for me to be spiraling over this?
Please let me know what you think as soon as you can.