Posts by feralviper11

Rachel Doyle69 said:I actually put up some rules on my wall a long time ago that I try to follow, thinking they might lead me toward, I don't know, absolute happiness.

here they are:
1.Don't fight your own nature or who you are.
2.Don't put up with people who bother you.
3.If you hate a situation, just leave; don't waste time, because you won't change anything.
4.Don't hang out with everyone just because you're lonely.
5.If you're feeling depressed, get out of the house; don't just stay in bed, or everything will feel worse.
6.Stop overanalyzing things.
7.Surround yourself with people who are basically perfect. etc.
And maybe I should add an eighth rule based on what I posted on the Lonely Hearts forum: if you see a guy who is too rational, just run as fast as you can.

As for me, before I go to sleep, I guess I analyze all the good things I did during the day and make a plan for more positive stuff I can do for myself, so I can push away negative thoughts and feel calm.

That's probably the kind of happiness a person can reach, and I suppose everything else just falls into place.
I hope this helps you; I have to go finish something tonight.😉

hey, these rules are actually great, but😉
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Rachel Doyle69 said:After I finished typing this, I went to light up a cigarette just to figure out what I was even trying to say. Just hang in there, Ines !!!!😉

hahahahahah oh man, seriously, you actually managed to make me laugh. 😁

Rachel Doyle69 said:Happiness comes from our own choices and just accepting the world as it is, even when that feels really hard. I used to look for happiness in other people, but eventually, I realized it’s actually inside me and depends on what I choose to make of my own life.

I guess I don't know if that helps you, but... maybe it does.
Some questions just don't have answers. You just have to accept them and move on, whatever is weighing on you. 😉

Well, looking at what you wrote, there's definitely some truth to it. 😉
Actually, thinking about it now, I think maybe you might be right. 🙄

Kate Bishop76 said:I don't really care about your problems, I just came here to enjoy myself a little bit. 😬

Well, go right ahead then. 😉

Rachel Doyle69 said:What's bothering you? Why are you feeling down? Everything can be fixed, I guess. Maybe share your sadness with us. It might make things feel a bit easier.

Actually, maybe you should ask what isn't bothering me instead.🙄
I suppose I feel a little better now, knowing there are still wonderful people out there.🙂

placidjackal36 said:There isn't really any proof that luck exists as this independent concept just floating around where some people have it and others don't. I guess it's more just the result of certain life factors and maybe even coincidences—you know, things happening that we can't fully predict.

Are there actually perfectly happy people? I doubt it, maybe just those who don't have huge ambitions or that constant craving for "something more." Though, wanting more is good, I suppose. It drives us forward. If we were all easily satisfied, we probably wouldn't be human or have progressed this much.

I don't really know why you're feeling down, but if it helps at all, you aren't alone.

well, I guess I'm just sad because it feels like I need that one "little thing" just to feel happy right now... honestly, it's complicated.😢
anyway, thanks for understanding...

It’s so late at night and there is nobody left to talk to since everyone is asleep. I felt like I had to start this thread because maybe it will make me feel just a little bit better if I tell someone that I am sad tonight. Really, really sad. 😢 🙂 🙂 🙂

I wonder if happiness actually exists. Are there truly people in this world who are completely happy?

They say it only takes such a tiny amount to be happy... but then why does it always feel like that tiny thing is exactly what we are missing? 😕