Lube recommendations?
in Health ·
I realize this sub-forum is dedicated to health rather than sex & erotica, but we’re dealing with an issue that sits right at that intersection of physical wellness, intimacy, and maybe even psychology, so I figured there was no better place to bring this up...
It comes down to sex, specifically the fact that my partner stops producing natural lubrication almost immediately after she reaches orgasm... Everything works flawlessly leading up to that point, but once it passes, penetration becomes increasingly difficult and uncomfortable—eventually becoming outright painful for her—until we’re forced to call it quits altogether..
From what I understand about female physiology, arousal should maintain that moisture level as long as the stimulation continues... though perhaps I'm mistaken on the mechanics of it all😕
I just want to find a way to help her (assuming there's actually a way to fix this, and assuming she even wants it fixed) so we can both fully enjoy our time together without that sudden wall hitting us..
Does anyone have any advice, personal experiences, a potential medical explanation, or even just some outside perspective?
Thanks
It comes down to sex, specifically the fact that my partner stops producing natural lubrication almost immediately after she reaches orgasm... Everything works flawlessly leading up to that point, but once it passes, penetration becomes increasingly difficult and uncomfortable—eventually becoming outright painful for her—until we’re forced to call it quits altogether..
From what I understand about female physiology, arousal should maintain that moisture level as long as the stimulation continues... though perhaps I'm mistaken on the mechanics of it all😕
I just want to find a way to help her (assuming there's actually a way to fix this, and assuming she even wants it fixed) so we can both fully enjoy our time together without that sudden wall hitting us..
Does anyone have any advice, personal experiences, a potential medical explanation, or even just some outside perspective?
Thanks