Angela Wright said:Your post really hit me hard😳, this damn disease😠 !. I honestly wouldn't know which oncologist to recommend—I don't have any real experience or insight when it comes to this specific type of cancer. What I would suggest instead is having a serious talk with your doctor about the future—specifically, your ability to father children down the road if you haven't already. I assume radiotherapy plays a role there, since tissue damage is a real concern and it leaves you wondering about fertility. I'm not sure if there's a sperm bank nearby, but I’d highly recommend looking into that before the radiation starts, just to be safe.
By all means, get a second opinion—if nothing else, just for your own peace of mind. You might want to email your test results to some of those big-name global clinics. John Smith did exactly that with her husband's records, sent them over to Houston, and they got a response right away with some incredibly interesting suggestions—totally different from what they were claiming at Mayo Clinic. It's all part of the fight, and it would be great if someone close to you could shoulder some of this burden, because you're going to need to save every bit of energy you have.
My mom is doing very poorly, and the only thing worse than this would be a coma. I can see it's coming to an end, and at the same time, I'm feeling this weird, conflicting mix of sadness that it's happening and relief that she won't have to suffer anymore.
I truly think you can beat this. Even though we haven't met, I just have a gut feeling about it. You're going to pull through this episode stronger than before—just believe in yourself and in the one above.👍
Hang in there, man.
Thanks for the advice and the support. My treatment starts next week with Dr. Griffin. Honestly, I couldn't do any of this without my wife—she's absolutely breaking apart for me. It hasn't metastasized to the organs yet, but they found some thickened lymph nodes... looks like I caught it just in time before it settled into the vital organs. I'm lucky.