Posts by Charles Newman

Thanks for the support!
Things didn't really change—whenever my dad asked if she wanted some water, she’d just open her mouth and drink from the syringe.
I couldn't bear to watch anymore, so I went to my girlfriend's place to sleep. She passed away this morning. 😢
Honestly, I don't even know what to say—I'm just numb.

I appreciate everything you all have done up to this point, but unfortunately, my mother passed away early this morning. I wish the rest of you a much happier conclusion

Angela Wright said:Folks, I have to be honest—we aren't seeing the membership numbers we expected for the association.😢 We all agreed long ago that this organization was necessary, yet now that it actually exists, the response has been underwhelming. Maintaining the website alone is expensive, and that’s before we even touch our actual projects. We need to print educational pamphlets about diseases and treatments to distribute at hospitals and clinics. Sure, a handful of us enthusiasts will donate our time to write these materials for free—because why wouldn't we?—but we can't exactly print them out of thin air. Don't let all this hard work go to waste right at the starting line. Help us help you.🙂 You don't even have to officially join to make an impact; simply donating whatever you can spare—even just a few bucks—makes a difference. Or, just spread the word and lobby for the association wherever you can. Even corporations can step up as donors.

We met this past Saturday with a highly prominent oncologist who presented some truly hair-raising data. Among other things: we are standing on the precipice of a cancer epidemic. Current statistics suggest that one in three people will face some form of cancer... hello? One in three! Think about that. In a family of three, statistically, one person is going to get sick. The number of new oncology wards being opened across the country is meant to handle the patient volume we saw fifteen years ago—but the demand has skyrocketed since then. We have to push as hard as we can on prevention, education, and eventually, patient support. All of this is incredibly expensive.
Please, show a little more interest and enthusiasm. Those of you most affected by this should be the ones feeling it most acutely. There was plenty of noise when we first announced we were forming this group, but so far, only about six people from this forum have stepped up.
The ten of us are going to have a hard time carrying this alone. Our private lives and jobs are taking a hit, though we don't regret a single second because we know we're doing the right thing.
Speak up. Let us know what you think. This is YOUR association.

Count me in—I'm joining. You have my full support for as long as I'm able, including helping out with the site and the servers if needed.

Angela Wright said:Hmm, this green, foul-smelling stuff sounds like bile to me. My advice? Call the ER again—and this time, don't take "no" for an answer. Insist they admit her and get an IV started. Just handing out painkillers is a lazy way to "solve" the problem. Without fluids and glucose, she’s going to crash hard. Even if it is bile, you can't confirm that without hospital diagnostics—and if it is, it needs immediate intervention. Be more aggressive. Be more decisive with the staff at the ER.

Because after she was discharged, everything just backed up—she hasn't had a bowel movement, and everything is coming back up. I'm convinced it's the gallbladder, especially since she's constantly nauseated.
Whether she takes sugar, or milk, or anything else, it's just constant nausea. She finally calmed down, but honestly, looking at those photos of her—she looks like a skeletal survivor. She's even thinner now; she can barely even stand up on her feet. It's terrifying.

Hi everyone, it’s been a while since my last update.
Last time I posted, my mom hadn't even started radiation and chemo yet.
Fast forward a few months—the tumor has actually shrunk, but we've hit some brutal complications. Between the internal radiation for her lymph nodes and the weight loss, she’s just a shell of herself. She can't keep anything down—it's constant vomiting of this green, foul-smelling bile—and she can't eat or drink a thing. A few hours ago, the pain became unbearable; she ended up in the ER, and all they did was hand her some painkillers. Now, she’s just staring blankly into space, completely unresponsive to anyone around her.
The nurse isn't due to arrive with the IV infusion until tomorrow. I’m a total wreck—crying like a child, losing my mind, and honestly, just terrified. Up until yesterday, things seemed relatively okay; she was talking, drinking water, occasionally nibbling on food.
I don't even know why I'm posting this. I suppose I just needed to vent to someone so I don't lose it entirely. My apologies if this is an intrusion. Wishing you and your families all the best.

A massive thank you to everyone for the kind words and condolences.
At least I get to ring in my birthday in peace.
(And no—don't go blaming me just yet)
Truly, thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
Much love to you all.

Anonymous said:A woman I know—a family friend I happened to overhear talking about her history once—is around 45. She had a malignant uterine tumor about five years ago. She had surgery, and now she’s doing perfectly fine; just living her life normally... that’s all I know. Keeping my fingers crossed for you and your mom. 👍

Thanks so much. Those words actually mean a lot right now.
Best,

Chloe Jones95 said:Just figured I'd jump in here... if there's any advice I can offer, I'm happy to help.👍
Personally, I've dealt with these brutal illnesses a few times—both my grandmothers, and my dad, who unfortunately lost his battle. Now, I'm going through it again with my mother, and I'm hoping we win this round.😍.
It isn't easy, but life has a way of throwing curveballs when you least expect them...
Hang in there, everyone. Sending big hugs!😘

Respectful greetings. Honestly, thank you for this forum. I feel like I might actually find some answers—and maybe a little comfort—here.
Just a week before my checkup, I found out my mom has uterine cancer.
A bit of searching online made it clear: it's malignant.
So, frankly, I have to ask—how effective are these treatments really?
I can barely sleep at night. My mom is only 46.
Thanks in advance.
Regards