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Nicholas Wells74 said:In this thread, I touched on my own experience getting surgery for Fidelity. I didn't actually call it by its name back then—I just referred to it as a surgical procedure. I wrote quite a bit about the urology department at Mayo Clinic.
I had the procedure done in the early 2000s, so my perspective might be useful, though it’s not a guarantee it applies to everyone today.
Once you've had the surgery and everything is still healing—you know, when things are basically wrapped up—you might, and I mean *might*, deal with some hypochondriac thoughts. You might start worrying that you won't be able to get an erection, have sex, or even reach orgasm.
But honestly, once the wound heals and you're finally able to act on those urges again—even if it's just through masturbation—everything settles down and those fears just evaporate.
I actually dealt with those intrusive thoughts myself while I was still in the recovery phase, even though I'd mentally prepared myself for the surgery beforehand. It doesn't mean you'll feel the same way, but if those worries do creep in, please don't let them rattle you. Everything will be fine before you know it.