ruggedtinker43 said:Hey, I'm new here. I registered specifically because of some issues I've been dealing with over the last few days, and by all accounts, it's hemorrhoids. 😢
...
Hello.
This quote is part of a post I wrote over six years ago when this all started. I haven't posted since then. Here is the rest of the story. 🙂
From the first time I saw blood after a bowel movement, the bleeding occurred periodically—roughly every three or four months. It wasn't much blood; maybe a few drops in the toilet bowl and a trace on the paper. Then it would subside after a few days. This went on for two or three years.
Then the frequency increased to about every two months. The amount of blood remained roughly the same, and it would still last a few days. That lasted for about a year.
After that, the volume of blood increased significantly. It wasn't just a few drops or traces on the paper anymore; the entire toilet bowl would be bloody, splattered from rim to rim, with a stream of blood running down the sides. This would happen every month and a half to two months for an entire year.
Following that, the duration of the bleeding increased. It was no longer just a few days followed by a few weeks of remission. Now, it's almost the opposite: heavy bleeding lasts for two to three weeks, and the periods without bleeding only last ten days to a week.
That was when I finally took action, and my doctor referred me to a proctologist.
I had my first exam less than a year ago. Since then, I've had several follow-ups. In the meantime, I used various creams and suppositories, but they didn't really help. I underwent a colonoscopy, and the results were clear; hemorrhoids are the sole cause of the bleeding. I believe I have just one, located on the right side, Grade II/III. The proctologist told me I don't need to come back unless the situation worsens. If that happens, we'll decide on next steps, which might include surgery.
Over the last six months, things have calmed down slightly. The bleeding doesn't last two or three weeks anymore, just a few days. When it does start, I try to stick to a liquid or soft food diet—puddings, yogurt, and things like that. The logic is that if the stool is softer, it won't irritate the hemorrhoid as much, allowing the bleeding to stop faster.
My bowel movements are regular; I aim for once a day. I've noticed that if I go twice or more, I irritate the area, which can trigger bleeding. So, I try to maintain a once-a-day rhythm and always shower immediately afterward.
Additionally, for the past few months, I've experienced prolapse after almost every bowel movement. Sometimes it recedes on its own within minutes—I can see it's gone after showering—but sometimes it takes several hours, depending on how far it protruded and how swollen it is. If it doesn't recede quickly, it causes problems during the day. It can be painful or chafing, and I can't function normally because it creates stress; I worry about bleeding through my clothes, which has actually happened two or three times already.
So, I want to know: if it doesn't go back in on its own after a few minutes, is it okay to "force" it back in with a finger?
I also see recommendations to take one or two teaspoons of olive or flaxseed oil. I'm going to try that to see if it helps.