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I’ll go—of course I will—but I just wanted to check in and see what everyone else thinks first. Maybe someone else has dealt with this more than once? And regarding my comment about it being the "second time"... well, I only put that in quotes because it isn't actually a second occurrence—though, truth be told, there was some bleeding, which is why I mentioned it... :S
So... here’s the situation. I’m 18—turning 19 in just a few months—and I lost my virginity about two weeks ago. Everything seemed totally fine at first; there was some bleeding when the hymen broke, but it wasn't a huge deal and the pain was minimal. However—and this is where it gets weird—a few hours later, the bleeding started again. Then it happened again the next morning. It wasn't a massive amount of blood, but it definitely felt unusual...
Yesterday, things took a turn for the worse. We were just... exploring, using a finger, and while it didn't hurt much initially, it lasted a bit longer and then started hurting whenever there was more pressure. Right in the middle of that, we suddenly felt a rush of blood—like, a lot of it. It ended up getting on my clothes, too. I actually had a pad on because it was the sixth day of my period (which is just great, honestly, because I wasn't even bleeding from my cycle, but I kept the pad on just in case), but it didn't stop anything. By the time I got home, my pad was soaked and I had blood everywhere—on my clothes and everything :S. And the walk home? It was brutal. I was in so much pain I could barely even walk...
It was leaking last night, and it happened again this morning... now I'm just sitting here wondering if this is normal. Can anyone please explain what might be happening? I'm honestly pretty scared. I'm terrified that if we try to sleep together again, the bleeding will just start all over again... it feels like this "other" thing is happening...😕