Posts by ironstag

Angela Wright said:Honey, if there was no actual penetration, there is zero chance you're pregnant. Plus, you already had your period.
Your anxiety is totally irrational and honestly just comes from not knowing how things work. You really need to do some reading. Given your history with an abortion, it’s high time you brushed up on the actual facts.

...thanks for the advice and the helpful info 😉

Angela Wright said:Oh honey, I really hope you realize you can't get pregnant just from social contact.

I think you're having a hard time processing the fact that you had a mishap. Maybe talking to a therapist about this would help.

Okay, look, 😢(( but it wasn't exactly "social" contact... 😢((( I'm just scared something isn't right... 😢 I don't have any symptoms... nothing hurts... it's just... I don't even know... I'm just terrified that it happened again... :S I know it's impossible, but man... 😢(( 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

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Angela Wright says: So what's there to be scared of?😁 Be glad it isn't happening as much as before and stays this way👍 That's definitely something to celebrate 🙂🎉 p.s. I still don't get how being affectionate with a guy fits into all this 🤷

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Well, look... since I had an abortion five months ago, whenever I even have a little contact with a guy, 😢 it's like my whole body just reacts—all those nerves fly out of me and this sudden fear hits 😢((( 🙂

Honestly, I’m not even sure what I’m worried about... my period is usually pretty heavy and lasts about 5 or 6 days 😢(( but it’s only day 3 and it feels like it’s already winding down...

So I've got a few things on my mind... actually, just one big one. About nine days ago, I was hanging out with this guy, and we got pretty close, but we didn't actually take any clothes off. It was mostly just making out and stuff like that. My period came right on schedule, exactly 25 days after my last one, but it only lasted two days and feels like it's already wrapping up. Honestly, I'm a little freaked out. Does anyone know what might be going on?
help me out please 😕😕😕😕

Quick question—how am I supposed to calculate how late my period actually is?

Do I start counting from the day it was originally supposed to show up... or from the start of my last cycle???

🙄🙄🙄

stormymaker24 said:Look, if what you're worried about actually happened, there's a high chance you might have at least one STI. If you happen to be pregnant, that could be dangerous for the baby. You need to get to an OB-GYN immediately and get tested.
An abortion isn't a way to prevent pregnancy or STIs—it's a way to end an existing pregnancy. Don't mix those up.

How old are you? Can you figure out who those guys were? Have you thought about reporting them? Do you realize that if what you're describing actually happened, it counts as rape?

Ditch those "friends."

Tests rarely mess up. Go see a doctor and tell them exactly what went down.

I don't know... maybe it didn't even happen... I can't really remember... and my friends aren't helping at all. I have an appointment with my gynecologist tomorrow, but I have no clue how to act or anything... I'm just scared of everything. And yeah, I'm definitely going to tell them everything...
(maybe it wasn't even rape).... maybe it was some kind of sex that I unconsciously agreed to because I was wasted... 😢 😢 😢 😢
I'm 17 😢 😢... I'm just praying to God that I'm not pregnant and that it's not some dangerous disease... maybe it's just my cycle acting up because of the weather change, daily stress, and all the anxiety since things are rough at home right now...

But if I were pregnant, I'd at least notice something, right? Like, wouldn't I feel some side effects?
I seriously have no idea how to handle stuff like this...
So please, if you know anything else regarding abortions, let me know... I'd really appreciate it.

stormymaker24 said:Look, if what you're worried about actually happened, there's a huge chance you might have at least one STD. If you happen to be pregnant, those can be really dangerous for the baby. You need to get to an OB-GYN immediately and get tested.
An abortion isn't a way to prevent pregnancy or STDs—it's a way to end an existing pregnancy. Keep that distinction in mind.

How old are you? Can you figure out who those guys were? Have you thought about reporting them? Do you realize that what happened to you—if it did happen—is rape?

Ditch those "friends" of yours.

Tests rarely lie. Go see a doctor and tell them exactly what went down.

I don't know... maybe it didn't even happen... I can't really remember... and my friends aren't being helpful at all. I have an appointment with my gynecologist tomorrow, but I have no idea how to act or what to say... I'm just scared of everything... and yeah, obviously I'm going to tell her everything...

(Maybe it wasn't even rape).... maybe it was some kind of sex that I unconsciously agreed to because I was wasted... 😢 😢 😢 😢

I'm 17 😢 😢 ... I'm just praying to God that I'm not pregnant and that it's not some nasty disease... maybe it's just some hormonal thing from the weather changing, daily stress, or just me freaking out because things are rough at home right now...

And if I were pregnant, wouldn't I at least notice? Like, surely I'd feel some symptoms by now...

I honestly have no clue how to handle stuff like this...

So pleaseee, if you know anything else regarding abortions, let me know... I'd really appreciate it.

rapidraven4 said:Whatever happens... it's a tough spot to be in... and whatever you decide, it's on you.
There are plenty of threads here... just jump into whichever one feels right and reach out. You'll have people to talk to about whatever's on your mind.

Hang in there... even if you are pregnant, it's not the end of the world... but really take a second to think about what you want... honestly, I feel like you probably already have an idea of what you'd do if you were in this position right now.🙂

The thing is... this didn't happen because I wanted it to... it was more like...

😢( at some party... I ended up spilling stuff and passed out... on a couch somewhere...

My friends tell me... some guys took me away 😢(((( (you can probably guess how that went down :S ) so either way
if I am pregnant, my only option for contraception is an abortion, right?

I just don't know if I'm too young for that... but oh my god... I don't even know who did this to me or what actually happened... 😢

And I heard that... a positive test doesn't always mean you're definitely pregnant.. that it could be some kind of hormonal imbalance or something like that.😢

Sophia Clark68 said:Honestly, your best bet is just heading to an OB-GYN. They can send you for blood work, which is really the only way to be 100% sure if you're actually pregnant this early on.

I was actually planning on going in tomorrow... I took a test this morning.

And yeah, a pregnancy definitely wasn't in the cards right now. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢:

Really hoping it's a negative because the timing is just terrible. 😢😢

... so I've got a bit of a situation going on...

About a month ago, I was down at the beach on vacation. My period was supposed to show up while I was still there, but it didn't happen until I actually got back home. And when it finally did come, it was super short—only lasted about five days.

Anyway, towards the end of my cycle, I had some unprotected sex...

I honestly thought everything was totally fine... but then my actual period just never showed up.
(It’s been about 20 days now and I've just had this weird spotting instead...)

I figured it was just the change in weather, being stressed out, and all that typical life chaos.

Then a friend talked me into finally taking a pregnancy test...

And it came back positive... ://////

Is there any chance I'm actually not pregnant? ????

😕😕😕😕😕 😕