HELP!!! Urgent!
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The procedure ended up costing me about $700— $267 back when I was in the hospital about a year and a half ago. I had it done during my sixth week of pregnancy. When I first found out, I sat down and talked it through with my dad and my brother. They were incredibly supportive and really wanted me to carry the baby to term. That meant the world to me, and honestly, my fiancé was such a pillar of strength, promising he’d be there for both me and the baby, even though he wasn't the biological father.
In the end, though, I made the choice to have an abortion because I had so much else I wanted to accomplish in life; having a child at that specific moment would have just... limited me.
The actual process only took two or three minutes, but it was painful. Afterward, I spent about 45 minutes just lying there, unable to move an inch.
Since then, looking back, I haven't had any lasting physical or emotional consequences from that decision. If anything, I feel relieved that I didn't choose to stay pregnant.
There’s plenty of time... maybe in five or six years, the timing will finally feel right for a baby.
My advice? Talk it over with someone you trust. Everything depends on what you want and exactly how far you're prepared to go.
In the end, though, I made the choice to have an abortion because I had so much else I wanted to accomplish in life; having a child at that specific moment would have just... limited me.
The actual process only took two or three minutes, but it was painful. Afterward, I spent about 45 minutes just lying there, unable to move an inch.
Since then, looking back, I haven't had any lasting physical or emotional consequences from that decision. If anything, I feel relieved that I didn't choose to stay pregnant.
There’s plenty of time... maybe in five or six years, the timing will finally feel right for a baby.
My advice? Talk it over with someone you trust. Everything depends on what you want and exactly how far you're prepared to go.