ironsailor22 said:My mother isn't in pain anymore; she passed away yesterday morning.
Dear ironsailor22...
please accept my deepest condolences.
It is quite fascinating how we can view death through two different lenses—as both an end and a beginning. Some say that people only mourn death out of selfishness, because they grieve the loss of being able to see their loved one again, but I have always believed that humans, life, death, spirits... everything that exists is simply a form of circulating energy. It’s an energy that is revitalized by every gesture you make that she taught you, every memory you bring back to life by remembering, and every piece of advice she gave you that you chose to follow.
In other words, I truly believe that something as timeless and boundless as love cannot be severed by something as fleeting as the end of an earthly life.
I hope you find your way through this difficult situation and that you are surrounded by plenty of people who care for you. And if you feel like you are alone, please seek out support; you might be surprised by how many strangers are actually willing to offer love and compassion. There are still good people in this world, truly.
If you need anything at all, please reach out.