Offside Chat Archives (2014-2021)
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Paul Chase95 said:It’s funny how differently we all approach things. If someone tried to lecture me about missing Mass regularly, or if they started judging me because I’m not "involved enough" in parish activities—which, let's be honest, I'm absolutely not—well, I’d probably just show them the door. And if they had the nerve to suggest my bank account justifies a higher donation? That would be the end of it. There wouldn't be anything left to say. I’m just not interested in that kind of back-and-forth. Now, if you wanted to sit down and actually dive into politics, art, or philosophy, though? I'd be all ears.
I can somewhat agree with that—though I don't really buy into the idea that anyone is overinflating these "moral" authority figures. People have their own opinions; nobody's being forced to adopt a worldview just because Željko Markić or Oliver Frljić says so. The reality is simpler: when Markićka launches an initiative, it just gives people a vent for views they already held. They didn't vote to put marriage into the Constitution because some shadowy group dictated their thoughts—it’s more that Markićka provided a platform for them to express a position they had already formed, even if it wasn't something that actually impacted their daily lives or wallets. For instance, twenty years ago, I believed marriage was a union between a man and a woman—and honestly, I still do—but I’ve lived my whole life without it, and I’d be perfectly fine continuing that way. If Markićka decided to step up and do the legwork of collecting signatures, then fine, I’m glad I at least had the chance to cast a vote. That’s the extent of it. It isn't like Markićka or Frljić are out there sculpting public opinion from scratch; maybe they influence a negligible few, but it's not like everyone around us is some kind of programmed idiot.
Listen to this—she merely "provided a platform" for them to speak. 😂
That "clearly predefined" stance was practically screaming within Americans, simmering like a slow fever, and then Markićka offered the nation a sense of relief by allowing it to finally be aired. So many people in the US were preoccupied with the constitutional definition of marriage and its survival against an onslaught of tens of thousands of gay couples wanting to wed, that the anxiety ran so deep it supposedly distracted them from reading the morning paper in Central Park or working at a toll booth in Šestanovac.
It was a complete waste of money and effort to run that massive, meticulously coordinated campaign by the Church and the rest of the right-wing NGO scene; you could have just told them there was no need for it, since the people already had their minds made up, and there was really no necessity to spend all that energy demonizing gay people.