mellowskipper said:That doesn't change the fact that they’re still going to run a PET scan. An oncologist is going to stick strictly to the established protocol because everything—exactly what gets done and when—is laid out in the books.
I have no idea if his doctor actually cares or how much this is messing with his head, but nobody is going to give him a straight answer on whether the cancer is coming back or not. That five-year mark is basically the "make it or break it" threshold... if you make it through that, your chances of a recurrence drop significantly. But at the end of the day, once you're an oncology patient, you're always going to be one...
I just want to jump in here and add to your whole point.
The guy is terrified, which is completely normal, but he should take some comfort in the fact that he already went through surgery. If they had jumped straight to one of those experimental clinical trials, that would have been a sign of advanced cancer, but that isn't the case here.
So we're talking about early-stage cancer treated with standard intervention—basically surgical removal. They perform a radical nephrectomy where they take out the kidney, the adrenal gland, and the surrounding fatty tissue just to give the person a fighting chance at survival.
As for his questions, nobody can look him in the eye and say with 100% certainty what things will look like in one year, two years, or five years from now. He’s going to be an oncology patient forever, constantly heading back for those follow-up appointments that are probably already sitting on his calendar...