Bobby!

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Grace Sanders24 said:So, how many kids are we actually talking about here? And does that count Coksija, too?🤔

I didn't even realize stormygardener93 had kids! Hey, stormygardener93, you got a husband too?

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Walter Baker2 said:I didn't even realize stormygardener93 had kids. Hey stormygardener93, you got a husband too?

Just so you know, she lives in a polyamorous community.☕

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Grace Sanders24 said:So, how many kids do you actually have? And does that count Coksi too?🤔

It’s never enough. 🍿


I really wanted to, Joe, but things just didn't line up for me to make it happen. 🕺
Family life is a little more chaotic over at my place right now. 🕺

There are three of them, and Coksi is the youngest. 😍

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Walter Baker2 said:I didn't even realize that stormygardener93 had kids! stormygardener93, are you married too?

There he is, checking in just to let you know you forgot everything. 😛 🍿

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Grace Sanders24 said:If you're curious, she actually lives in a polyamorous community.☕

🙂 🤣 The more, the merrier. 🤣

Just like in the music video. 😂

At least in Germany, she can pick guys from all over—Asia, Africa, even America... 😒
I had plenty of people like that hitting me up on that site before Hans finally clicked...

Walter Baker2 said:And you used to drive around in cars and trucks too.

Yeah, well, I spent more time playing with guys, including their little cars, trucks, and excavators...

Grace Anderson3 said:In Germany, they have guys available from all over the world; Asia, Africa, America... 😒

Actually, I’m strictly into our local guys🍿
Forget about anyone else; for me, nothing beats our own people.🙂

Our guys are solid, it just really comes down to how they mesh. 🤷

Chemistry is really what matters most here 🙂

We should probably circle back to the discussion about the Baby 🙂

What are your plans for the Baby—are you thinking daycare or preschool?

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Grace Sanders24 said:Well, aren't you just a curious one. She actually lives in a polyamorous commune.☕

Polyamory? What even is that? Hold on, let me go Google it.

Chemistry never really clicked for me. I was always much more of a physics person.

Quote : Hope, what exactly is considered "modern" over in Germany these days? Two women and one man?

Hey, Walter Baker2, it's actually pretty common nowadays to have dogs or cats instead of kids 🍿

But honestly, I don't feel the need to share my business with anyone; what's mine stays mine 🧐 🤣

stormygardener93 said:What are your plans for the Baby? Are you thinking daycare or preschool?

Daycare once they hit two.

Lipo, it’s definitely better to enjoy those meals at home more often if you can plan ahead. It's a great way to go. 🙂

stormygardener93 said:It’s nice, and honestly, you should enjoy being home more if you can actually plan for it. Great idea. 🙂

Personally, I’d much rather stay home an extra year than deal with the constant headache of taking sick leave for my kid—especially since there's a limit on how many paid days you get per year. Or having to shell out cash for a sitter every time a daycare closes due to some local quarantine. At that point, it costs me just as much as if I had taken a full year of unpaid maternity leave.

To make sure he isn't missing out on socializing, we started going to this local parenting center where moms hang out with their babies. There was this 8-month-old girl in the group who's already crawling so fast she's basically walking from one thing to the next. Well, she crawled right over to Bobby, grabbing at his sleeve and his socks... her mom pulled her back pretty quickly just to be safe... and the little thing just lost it and started wailing. Bobby just stared at her for a second, watching her throw this tantrum, and then he started crying too.🤣
I can see the sparks flying already.😍

That wicked mother wouldn't let them hang out together. Naturally, Bebe immediately took sides with the girl—it’s just a tough break being a guy these days

Grace Anderson3 said:I’d honestly rather have her home with me for an extra year than deal with constantly taking sick leave to care for my kid (since there's a cap on how many paid days you get per year), or having to shell out cash for a babysitter every time daycare closes due to some local quarantine. Financially, it would end up costing me just as much as if I had taken a full year of unpaid maternity leave.

To make sure she doesn't miss out on socializing, we started going to this parenting center where moms hang out with their babies. There was this 8-month-old girl in the group who's already crawling and basically walking from one thing to the next. She crawled right over to Bobby, grabbing at his sleeve and his sock... then her mom pulled her away just to be safe... the little girl totally lost it and started bawling. Bobby just stared at her for a second, watching her throw that tantrum, before he started crying too.🤣
I can see sparks flying between them.😍

Oh man! First love! When's the next date?😍

Walter Baker2 said:That mean mom wouldn't let them hang out, so Bebe immediately went after that girl. Honestly, it’s not easy being a guy today.

Yeah, did you see that?🙂

Grace Sanders24 said:Oh my god! First love! So, when’s the next date?😍

About ten days out. 🙂

You really ought to strike up a friendship with that mother if you want Bobby to end up with a girlfriend.

We're hitting the movie theater tomorrow! 🙂
The theater is totally set up for families with Babies; they've got space for strollers right in the lobby and a dedicated nursing station stocked with everything you need.

Grace Anderson3, that sounds awesome 👍, I’m honestly thrilled because I had no clue a theater like that even existed. But what happens if one Baby starts wailing mid-movie and then another one decides they need to show some solidarity by joining in? 🤔

They just started doing this once a month. Last month was the very first time, and the tickets were completely sold out. They aren't going to pitch the lights black either; they'll just dim them, and the volume will be turned down.
I'm honestly wondering what happens when half the room starts crying...🍿 Though, I guess you can always step out with the Baby into the theater lobby or find an empty screening room if things get too much.