ED/Impotence help?

Is anyone else here dealing with impotence? How did you first realize there was an issue? Once things started not working quite like they used to, did you head straight to a doctor, or did you start experimenting with things like Viagra or Kamagra on your own?

I’m posting this because of a friend. His partner actually stumbled upon the issue by accident when she found some Kamagra tablets he had been keeping. He’s been using them regularly for about three years now.
He started taking them toward the end of his last relationship because he noticed he couldn't perform—honestly, there were at least five times where he just couldn't get an erection. Since then, he hasn't even attempted to be intimate without medication, as he told me he's terrified of failing again. Everything used to be perfectly fine before that happened.

He takes the Kamagra on his own, without a prescription, and claims the effects last for about two days.
He even admitted to me that while his libido is still there, he refuses to try anything without a pill because he doesn't even respond to adult content without them.

I'm curious if anyone else has faced something similar. This is for a guy who started using Kamagra when he was 30; he'll be 33 this year.
Aside from this, his general health seems to be in great shape.

Is it possible that my comments played a role? I mentioned to him that he struggled with his ex because he wasn't attracted to her anymore, and now I wonder if he's stuck in a cycle of fear and habit.
Personally, I think that might be the root of it; even if you have trouble with one person, if the attraction isn't there or you're arguing constantly, it's bound to happen.

Has anyone ever experienced a situation where they couldn't perform with one partner, but everything worked perfectly fine with someone else they were actually attracted to?

He used to be able to just go to bed with anyone, whether it was a long-term partner or just a casual hookup.
He also had chlamydia at one point, though he's been clear of it for about a year now.

I would really appreciate hearing about your experiences.
Thank you all.

Cut out the porn. It’s a proven way to bring things back down to earth. It all comes down to dopamine overload—when you get used to all those different fetishes and constant stimulation, real-life intimacy starts feeling dull, and it becomes a struggle to perform...

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He hasn't even looked at porn since he started taking the pills. He actually joked that it’s a "smart investment" to save money on subscriptions, haha! But I’ll definitely make sure to tell him that he shouldn't be watching it even by accident. I honestly agree that excessive porn consumption could easily be a factor behind ED; most of those videos are so extreme that it becomes hard to get properly aroused during actual intimacy with a partner, since real life doesn't involve constant group scenes or those intense scenarios you see on screen.

I suggested he go get checked out by a doctor—specifically to look at his kidney function regarding hormone levels, and of course, to see a urologist. Most men find it incredibly embarrassing to admit these things because of their ego, especially when they're young.

Does anyone have any leads on where I can pick up some Kamagra?

In the States, you can pick these up over the counter at most pharmacies, or even just order them online

Could you drop a link for me? And what kind of damage am I looking at price-wise?

Could you drop a link for me? And what kind of damage am I looking at price-wise?

I can't post the direct link here because I don't want to run afoul of Google's advertising policies regarding Kamagra online in the US
The site mentions they carry several different varieties, so it really depends on what you're looking for and how many packs you grab. It’s pretty transparent, though—once you select the quantity, the price updates automatically.
Would you guys ever consider ordering something like this, or do you run into issues with it?
If you have experienced any trouble, please feel free to share how you first discovered the issue, how long it took you to react, and whether or not you ended up seeing a doctor.

Look, if I actually had a problem... I haven't bothered seeing a doctor yet. Can we just move this to a private message?

Of course! I already reached out to them.