Chloe Roberts2 said:Saying the American Red Cross is some kind of haven for people with mental health issues and calling psychiatry a pseudoscience is just awful. It feels like a direct attack on both the American Red Cross and mothers (it implies mothers are mentally ill without any proof). Attacking psychiatry is basically an indirect way of attacking moms—starting by labeling them as unwell and then saying psychiatry can't help, which leads to the conclusion that kids should only ever be left with their fathers.
I stand by everything I've said.You can always report this to the District Attorney; I could easily gather evidence to back up my claims.
Maybe you should personally visit a father's rights group and hear firsthand what they and their children are actually going through?
Most of what I’ve posted here was already included in a formal petition I hand-delivered to various government agencies five years ago—The Administration, federal departments, relevant Congressional committees, the Attorney General for civil rights, the child advocate, the Ombudsman, and even the Democratic Party...
So, none of this will come as a surprise to them.
Why do you think these legal amendments are happening? It's because even the Secretary herself realizes the current system is broken!
And now, I'm preparing to send another formal letter to the Department regarding these legislative changes.
Both myself and other users on Reddit have provided examples and links documenting this behavior in various threads—anyone who looks will find them. We haven't shared many here because no one really asked; most discussions are held by those of us who already know the sad reality of the situation.
What I am talking about is a very serious societal issue. My children are victims of the system, just like so many others.
I'm not claiming that every mother is a malicious manipulator or a psychiatric case. There are absolutely problems with fathers too, in all forms—violence, alcoholism, neglect, etc. I even know of cases where it's the opposite, where the system works against the mother, such as when a manipulative father has the mother (the child's grandmother) acting as the judge in family court. Where in my writing does it say I justify that kind of behavior?
But the system tries to fight against that (how effectively is another question), while problematic mothers are simply ignored.
If the mods and admins feel that my writing—and my advocacy for the truth and the well-being of children and society—needs to be sanctioned, then so be it. One day, that will be a stain on this forum too.
I have already put my story in writing and had it notarized (and I am adding recent events to it). Once my children are adults, this story will see the light of day in a book alongside at least twenty other stories from fathers and their children who were harassed and abused by the very system meant to protect them. If Reddit wants to be included in that book as a negative example, then go right ahead!