Sex Myths Debunked

I have a somewhat critical question, and I am asking you all to answer seriously or don't bother at all.
So, my girlfriend and I haven't had full intercourse yet, but we engage in regular sexual play.
On one occasion, she asked me to rub against her. Things heated up, so I put on a condom just to be safe.
We started doing something similar to sex, but without full penetration—I was mostly just using the tip. Well, the condom broke. How? I honestly don't know, and at this point, it doesn't even matter.
The problem is that I had already finished before I realized the condom had failed.
Total panic mode.
She is still a virgin.
She urinated within half an hour after the encounter (I think urine kills sperm?) and then showered.
She didn't take any emergency contraception.
I'm not even sure if I finished inside her.
This happened last Saturday, and her period should start this Thursday.
I need the serious people among you to tell me: what are the chances she could end up pregnant? This is urgent because I'm losing my mind. Thanks in advance.

I initially wanted to merge this thread with an existing one, but as the conversation evolved, this title just felt right and there’s no point in merging it with anything else. Hey everyone, let's talk myths—there are plenty of interesting ones out there. 😁

leeloo27

Where were you born? 🤦
And both of you are the same. 😲

shadowwalker13 said:Where were you born? 🤦
And we're both the same. 😲

Excuse me?

The main thing is she peed and then showered right after. You guys acted proactively, so there shouldn't be any major issues moving forward. 👍

Keep up the good work! 👍

Just next time, try to handle it properly from the jump so nobody starts panicking for nothing. 😁

Amy Kern said:The main thing is that she peed and then showered immediately; you guys acted preemptively, so there shouldn't be any major issues moving forward.👍

keep up the good work 👍

Just next time, try to handle things properly from the start so we aren't dealing with unnecessary panic.😁

Are you serious or are you just messing with me?

Peter Kern said:I have a somewhat critical question. Please take this seriously or don't answer at all.
My girlfriend and I haven't had full intercourse yet, but we "play" regularly.
One time she asked me to rub against her. We got carried away, so I put on a condom just in case.
We started something close to sex, but without full penetration—just the tip. Heh. The condom broke. How? I don't know. It doesn't matter now.
The issue is that I had already finished before I realized the condom broke.
Total panic.
She is still a virgin.
She urinated within half an hour after it happened (I think urine kills sperm) and then showered.
She didn't take any birth control pills.
I'm not even sure if I was inside when I finished.
This happened last Saturday. Her period should start this Thursday.
I need the serious people here to tell me the chances of her being pregnant. This is urgent. I'm losing my mind. Thanks.

Yeah... that's what happens when neither of you knows about the Morning After pill.🤷
If she hasn't lost her virginity yet, she's probably not pregnant given everything else you mentioned (the urinating, the partial penetration...).
Just pray to God just in case.☕

I’m not even going to get into it, I’ll just say you're being incredibly naive here.. :/

First off, what she was rambling about makes absolutely zero sense—and for the record, urine does NOT kill sperm!!! Seriously, where on earth are you people picking up this "knowledge"?? Did you just step out of the shower and decide this was a thing??? Like, what does that have to do with basic common sense???
But look, don't stress yourself out too much; the chances of her being pregnant are practically non-existent, period.
Sleep tight!!!

steelseal said:I'm not even going to bother commenting. Just gonna say you're clueless... :/

First off, what she wrote makes zero sense. Urine doesn't kill sperm. Seriously, where do you people get this "knowledge"? Did you just step out of the shower and decide this was true? What does that have to do with being sane?
But look, don't sweat it. The chances of her being pregnant are basically zero. Period.
Sleep easy.

Do you even have an education? ☕

steelseal said:I’m not even going to dignify that with a comment, I’ll just say you're being incredibly ignorant... :/

First off, what she wrote is completely nonsensical; urine doesn't kill sperm, period!!! For God's sake, where do you people pick up this "enlightenment"... did you just wander out of a shower? Seriously, what does that have to do with common sense???
But look, don't sweat it—the chances of her being pregnant are practically zero, end of story.
Sleep tight!!!

"Since one of the functions of pre-cum is to neutralize the acidity that urine causes in the urethra, it is safe to assume that urine does kill sperm."
With all due respect.
Warm water actually causes protein coagulation in sperm.

Right, since there's a chance she might be pregnant, maybe she should just head to her OB-GYN and get some actual advice?

...or she could just buy a pregnancy test 🤷
...at least that would give her something interesting to do 🍿

Honestly, God bless any woman out there dealing with bladder issues while trying to conceive, especially if she’s stressing about showering... seriously, the water from your shower isn't going to cause protein coagulation, unless you're planning on bathing in lava at like 212 degrees.

She already has an appointment scheduled with her OB-GYN.
Now we’re just playing the waiting game to see if she runs late in a couple of days.
The suspense is absolutely killing me, which is exactly why I decided to start this thread. I figured there might be some useful insights or advice floating around here worth noting.